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Q: Everyone says Who's Who among American High School Students is a phony. But how come on some applications and things that my guidance councelor have given me it says mark box if you have received any honor listed..and then it's there? Ton's of people say it's a phony, but is it really?

its not a phony. I was in it during my junior year i think it was. They sent me a huge book and everything ...

Q: what does it mean when a penis is hard?
please elaborate...thanks.

it means he is turned on and the blood is flowing to his penis. A mans penis needs to be hard for him to have sex, and when he gets turned on sexually, the blood ebegins to flow there, causing an erection.

Q: So, i had sex today. and i ended my period a little over a week ago; well me and the boyfriend didn't use a condom,so he busted his load all in me. should i be worried about becoming pregnant?

ofcourse you should be worried.

anytime you have unprotected sex (even if he pulls out) there is still a chance you could be pregnant. Even protected sex there is still a chance. It is deffinatly a possibility

Q: I have itunes and i'm sick of having to spend 15$ every time i want some more songs because i need a new gift card.

now lots of my friends use limewire and love it. I know the quality of the music is cheap, but you can get like whatever songs you want. I was just wondering how badly illegal is it, and have anyone ever got caught??

plus what is the chance i will get a virus using it, and yah.

thanks! :]

i have had it and it is a great little program...except for one thing. Everytime we download it and get downloading songs, it screws up our computer to where we have to reformat it b/c we downloaded spyware and/or viruses. so i dont suggest it honestly.

Q: since i hate shaving my "down below", would it be okay if i naired it with the stuff i use for my legs? or would that be bad..

on the bottle it tells you not to use it in certain areas. I think it says do not use on face or private parts. I'd say down there is a sensitive area and i wouldn't suggest using it down there.

Q: i have really thick wavy hair. its really pretty, but its too thick.
i like my hair in layers, and i have side bangs. i want it cut a little above my shoulders, not too short.
my question is, exactly how do the people cutting your hair make it thin? and can i still have layers?
thanks!!

hon, they would use thinning shears to thin it out and that in itself would give ya layers and yes...u can have layers too

Q: where can i watch akeela and the bee online for free that works!!

and also "Spellbound"?

www.watchtvsitcoms.com

try that

Q: if i were to get a tongue ring, how easy would it be to hide? on a scale of 1 - 10

i'd say 10 becuase you have to talk and when you talk ... there it is unless you take it out around the folks.

Q: On the 29th I bleached my hair on my own, I had dark brown hair, and when I bleached it, it was suppose to turn out blonde, but it turned out yellowish/dirtyblonde/strawberry blonde. I still have brown in it, and it just looks yellow. It says you hafe to wait til 14 days until you can bleach it, dye it, or anything again. If I bleached it on the 14th day, do you think it'd turn out all blonde? My friend says she did that, and it's all blonde. Or if I choose I want to go back brown, can I do it brown?

If any of you can't help me, I'll call a salon, I'm just trying to see if you guys have any good answers.

trust me, go to a salon! another round of bleach could damage your hair REAL bad. trust me i am a cosmetologist myself and i have seen whta bleach does ... especially out of the box bleach. Your best bet would be to not do another round of bleach, go to a salon or even a beauty school and have it done. Proffessional is alot better than home kits. you can damage your hair real bad with bleach. I know some one who did and she had to chop her hair to her chin just so it wasn't all tangled all the time. it was bad. Trust me, go to a salon

Q: Is there something I can eat with or after a greasy food to balance/remove the oil in my stomache? Water doesn't work, lol

try bread or crackers. Plain crackers like saltines. not the good flavored ones. The crackers and bread tend to absorb acid in your stomouch maybe it will work for grease too

Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two months now. And of course we are kinda getting hot and heavy alot! well.. one day we were having oral sex and his penis size is like 3 inches (he told me that to). Well i'm not a virgin and we've been talking about having sex alot. but i don't know what to do because i think it's too small to pleasure me. and i don't want to mean or fake it.. so i really need help!

hey it isn't about the size. Just becuase he might be too smal to please you by penetration, doesnt mean he can't please you in other ways. Theres oral sex, fingering you, all sorts of things he can do if his penis just isn't big enough.

But for real give it a try, he might please you more than anyone you'v been with.

Don't fake it even though it might makehim feel better, he will prolly be able to tell you faked. You juss gotta make sure you keep his self esteem up.

Q: Two questions:

1. How do you know when you orgasm?

2. Do guys orgasm? How can you tell?

1: Your whole body will almost tense up and this amazing feeling will over take you! You will know trust me.

2: They tense up as well ... and they cum. Big tell tale sign :D

Q: my hair has become so burnt from all the straigthening and highlights and product that ive put in it. i HAVETA strighten it now cause scrunching just poofs and its so discusting and frizzy. I dont know what to do with it! my mom says japeneeze straightening will just make it worse . frriizz stuff does not work. anything i can do or get done at the salon?

make sure you ALWAYS use a heat protector when using a blow dryer OR flatiron. The heat can damage your hair bad. My suggestion is get a real good shampoo and conditioner, give your haira little break ... like pull it up for a while or something, and condition the crap out of it!

Q: Its looks like a flat TV screen, but all it does is display digital photos. Its like a slide show on a mini TV. Do you know what its called? And the price range? Thank you and happy holidays!

what you are talking about is a digital picture frame. they range from 75 and upwards depending on where you buy them, the brand, and the size screen you get. I work somewhere that sells them and we carry 7 inch, 8 inch, 9 inch, and 10 inch.

Q: i'm looking for songs that are sad, about losing someone (a death), or about breaking up with someone, missing the relationship you had with someone, saying sorry, etc. slow songs would be best, preferably alternative music. thank you.

"Concrete Angel" by Martina McBride

Talks about a little girl who dies becuase her mom beats her ... gets me every time i ball like a baby and the video REALLY makes me ball.

Q: When I scrunch my hair, the mousse leaves my hair looking totally gelled and very sticky/dark. I tried Aussie Sprunch spray, but it still leaves my hair looking plastered together! Do you know of any products and or tips to keeping my hair natural looking but wavy?

use less. You might be using too much. Try some spray gel. if your using mousse you should be using a VERY little bit to be honest.

Q: 15 f\ virgin

I'm a little older then 15 and a half. I love my boyfriend dearly. I really AM ready to have sex with him and I want to give him something I can't take back or give anyone else. I would have sex with him, however, I feel I'm just too young! I know for a fact no one would find out about it, I rather it be personal. I would like to know your opinion. I know I am ready, I just consider 15 young.

thanks alot, xo

if you feel like you are having ANY doubts at all ... your not ready. you may think you are but that nagging thought about your age is your way of telling yourself you aren't actually ready.

Q: i found some superman belt muckles online that i liked but id rather purchaise one from a store or the mall does anyone kno where i could possible get one?

well this is in the wrong catagory, but try those odd type places like hot topic, spencers, those kind of places. Or even if your desparate ... search ebay

Q: I bought my friend a shirt from American Eagle for Christmas. I bought it 2 days after Thanksgiving, so it was quite some time ago. I went to put it in the box yesterday and realized that the ink squirty thing is still on it. I don't know how they missed it and I don't know how I got out of the store with it still on...

Anyway, I threw away the receipt not too long after getting it and I've misplaced the gift receipt. I know that if I still had the receipt I could bring the shirt back and they would take off the ink thing, but will they still do it without a receipt? If not what am I supposed to do? It was a $30 shirt and I'm not made of money to go get her another...

I was just wondering if anyone here works at AE or has had to do this there or some other place and knows whether or not they can do it without a receipt. I paid with cash if that matters...

Well, there isn't much you can do sadly. I work at a store kinda similar and we get this same thing. You need the reciept. Try calling the store and explaining the situation. Tell them you tossed the reciept b/c you knew it would fit and wouldn't be returned...but you didn't know it had the ink tag still on it. Maybe they will tell you to bring it in and they will remove it ... or they can tell you what to do about it.

Juelz