Ahhh lets seee ahhh ya i am here to get some advice about stuff and see if this site really works and to help people because i love doing that it makes me feel good if i am really helpful. I have a hard love life well not hard but there it seems like i help more people in my school then i do myself and my partner. I can do like all of the relationship and health & fitness catagory sooo ya.
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My boyfriend is a jerk
He doesnt treat me right?
what do i do? (link)
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oh then break up with him and don't see him ever again
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I am a Female Freshm,an in highschool(fifteen years old) there is this guy who likes me. He's a true Hottie and he's really nice! But the thing is, is that one of my best friends went out with him for two years and it wouls be extreamly akward fro me and her with this one! what do i do?
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welll you should just go out with him if your really like him, if your friend get mad she is just mad over the fact that you are with im and she is not,try to talk to her about it and see how she reacts about it, but if you feel she is going to go and you don't really like him don't do it because you don't need too but if you like him go out with him and try to work things out with your bff if she gets mad about the whole situation
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im a 15 yr old female.
Ok so theres this guy I met at my school.
and weve been talking and everything and he seems like a really nice guy and everything, but im scared of liking him to much or giving him a chance cause i dont want to get hurt. With pretty much all my last relationships the guys have fucked me over pretty bad, and im tired of it. I just want to be with a good guy who wont hurt me. But how do I know if this guys any different?
Help please? (link)
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you don't know if he is or not unless you give him a chance, try not to get too attached untill you know he is a good guy and if he isn't move on until you find the right guy you always wanted.
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well, the guy I like is exactly one year younger than me. I'm going to be a sophmore next year. Should I be ashamed? I'm afraid everyone at church will think I cant get a guy my own age. But, I really like him...I think he might too...advice? (link)
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well it is okay as long as you both like each other no matte what age. if you like him alot then it should not matter of what people think it is you and him and your decisions. and the people at church that are with someone are not both the exact same age sooo they will not think that, and don't quit on him because of that and hope that one day he asks you out. don't ever be ashamed of age as long as you and him are together and happy
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Hey. I'm 13/f, he's 12/m. This kid has had a crush on me, a really bad one, since the beginning of this school year. [It's two weeks until the end.. :D!] But he really likes me, and he flirts with me A LOT and he's nice to me and everything but it gets really annoying. I don't like him, I just like the attention that I get from him. But as for his actualy personality, there's nothing besides a friendship there. I told him like 6 times that I don't like him, never have, and never will. (in nicer ways than that obviously). And my friends have told him. He just won't quit.
What should I do!? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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well because you like his attention he likes you more and more and because he is flirty towards you it makes it worse because you like it soo it makes him think you like him. the best thing to do is not talk to him for a while sooo he backs off a bit and after that while if he is stilll crazy for you then just don't talk to him he will stop. i know it is mean but if he is annoying and you want him to stop then that is the sorta mean thing to do idk if it is the best but it is up to you if he annoys you like once a week then just let him go he will have less and lesss feelings for you as time goes by.
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My boyfriend likes another girl form Depew nad asked for her number behind my back. I reall like this girl nad i dont know what i should do.. (link)
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ok he asked for her number that shoudln't be that bad unless he talks to her all the time. talk to him about it if u didn't already say like what if i did that how would u feel and also find out if he is talking to her alot and if he is that is wrong but you don't have to dump him they could just be really good friends or he is loooking for another girl it could goo both ways, try to find out if he really cares about you some how and if he doesn't dump him if he does just keep an eye on him and see what he is doing every soo often
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so, recently, i've been realizing, that, i flirt, wayy tooooo much, wiht like any guy. i can't help it.. its just easy and fun. and i feel HORRIBLE about it. are there any suggestions to help me stop flirting so much, or anything at all?
thanks
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why are you feeling horrible you shoudln't be at all it is life and you are having fun at it but don't go too far with the flirting and if you then it might mess things up for you. if you wanna stop try to find a guy that u like and calm down with him or flirt but not as much slow down all it means is that u are having fun and you have alot of energy and that is great but just don't do it as much and think about it before you start
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okay so theres this boy and i really do like him and i have for a while but he doesn't like me and i know that for a fact. i cant get over him he's everything i ever hoped for. what should i do. by the way im 13 years old and im a girl (link)
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welll don't quit on him show him and try to talk to him alot,if you guys don't connect or talk then he will never know you and see how you are but if you know for sure never in his life he would go out with you then move on it is hard yes but there is always someone else like him that would want to be with you, you just have to look for him and one day you will find that right guy
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Im 13/f
what do boys do when they like a girl?
how are you supposed to know?
if they come behind you and tickle you sides is that a sign or just something you guys do?
last one .. how do you know when you touch a guys spot i mean every 1 has one but how do you know when you touched it and how do you know what your spot is? ....plz help
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yes tickling your sides are a sign that that like you and might want to go out with you or they are just having fun but mostly they like someone if they do more than just that, if they constantly flirt then he is saying hey i like you and i am waiting for you to say weather u do or not soo i can ask you out, the spot thing i don't know much about sorry and if u found his spot he will react quickly to it and then there you know you found it
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ohkay so theres this guy and he likes me. all my friends are telling me to give him a chance, and they are all friends with this guy so there on his side, they arent taking in to consideration that i like somoeone else. they really dont care. so i ended up giving this guy a chance and to find out he kind of annoys me. hes trying to be soemthing hes not. or trying to act liek the guy i like. i dont know but i dont like him. so what do i do. hes gained the confidence (from my friends) to ask me to places such as the movies and dances. idk i dont liek him what do i do???? (link)
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welll it is hard because your friends are friends with him but if you don't like him don't waste your life on him and tell your friends your sorry but u don't like him at all and you gave him his chance and it is not working out. if they hate you for that then it means they are not your true friends it is hard i have seen this with my friends and somtimes it all works out but somtimes it doesn't but don't waste your life and find someone that you connect with not someone you hate because your friends are pushing you and there are always other friends out there if they hate you, and u can always say y don't one of you guys go out with him cause it is almost the same
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Last night a guy that I just started talking to a few days ago asked me out. I said yes because we reall clicked when we started talking. But now I'm having second thoughts. I barely know him, and I usually don't go out with people I barely know! I'm sure if we took the timt to get to know each other first before he asked me out then I wouldn't have a problem with dating him, but I don't know how to explain it.. it's just like I hardly know him and I'm his girlfriend! Should I break up with him or keep going out with him and get to know him along the way?
Please tell me what you honestly think.
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i think you should keep on going and see whats happens with the relationship, if it doesn't go well then ya u might want to start thinking of dumping him but if it goes good then keep going. i had the same thing happen to me. i broke up with her cause it was weird but now we are best friends and always talk to each other and are always there for each other. you need to think about it and see whats right for you
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i really love my boyfriend. but it seems like all he wants to do is kiss and make out, and i just hardly ever feel like it. i have to force myself to do it so he wont think i dont like him. but i wonder if there is something wrong with me. i mean i really really like this guy, so shouldnt i want to do that stuff as much as he does? btw im 13/f and all we've done is kiss and make out a little so far. but we've been going out since we were 11. (link)
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well first of all tell him this he won't think u don't like him. just say your not in the mood to make out or kiss right now but if it is just a peck give it to him. He is at the age wear thats all he does wanna do is just touch you and kiss you. He wants to show his love pyhsically to you and if you don't like it tell him and say what we have is great but i am not ready to go further. oh and there is nothing wrong with you it is just that u are not ready for it.
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I'm 16/f, and for some reason when I'm out with my mom I always talk about my bestfriends, one happens to be a guy. I was just wondering, do you think he talks to his dad or mom when he's out with them too? Like, do guys do that? (link)
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It matters if he is close to his mom and dad and if he is yes he would talk to them about you if you were his best friend, if he is close or talks to them then yes he would if he isn't close then no he won't but will think about u
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When your orally pleasuring a girl, does it really gross you out when theres some hair? like say she was to miss a spot or shaved a day ago. Does that turn you off or do you just kinda shrug it off. honest opinions please (link)
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It matter by each person some like hair and some don't but alittle shouldn't matter at all, it all matters by your partner
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ok
i dont really like talking on the phone
im one of those texter people
but this guy i like is calling me later
and im not one of those prude people that get all gay around guys
im perfectly fine
but i dont know what to say on the phone
or what to talk about
so any ideas?? (link)
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Ok i don't like talking on the phone either but when i am talking to the right people that i connect with i can talk all day with that person. You should see how it goes the first time is usally the weirdest one but later it works out if you keep on talking. you shoudl go with the flow that he is giving you, you should talk about yourself and him and what your both like and what u did that day and the day before. normal questions will work fine and if you both can't talk then one of you are shy and not helping or your both just not connecting
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heyyya.
okay; i'm going to tell you about what i'm going through right now. i'm so confused on who to choose, so maybe you can help me. :( or give me a boost to the right direction.
there are 3 guys, and let me give you each story. [R; D; B;--is what they'll go by]
D;-i just started going out with D like 12 days ago. i honestly jumped into the relationship without getting to know him at all. i talked to him one night on the phone for like 20 minutes, then the next night he asked me out &i said yes. there was one mistake. then he told me he wouldn't break up w/ me..&i told him the same. [another mistake] i do honestly like D, but i just don't know much about him. he's really sweet, and i don't want to hurt him. i just don't know what i should do.
R;-it started out about 4 years ago, when i met him. i just knew there was something about him, and i've liked him ever since. well, he's never given me a chance because ''he doesn't date chicks more than 2 years younger than him'' [as of right now; i'm 15 &&he's 17. he'll be 18 in august] the other day, he came down to my house without me asking him to. [which is suprising, because he barely comes down anyway] and we were talking and stuff, and he mentioned something abut me oweing him something. [kisses from a few months before.] i told him i couldn't give him those kisses, then he knew i had a boyfriend. long story short; R told me that on wednesday we would talk about being together. [wed-my15bday] well, we talked and he told me not to break up with my boyfriend, just to go out with him. R even promised me that there would be another chance for us. :( but there are bad things about R. [drugs;use to be playa;quit school]
B;-i just met B at the beginning of the 2nd semester. after spending alot of time with him, i grew to like him. we had said during summer we were going to a concert/show together and hangout some. i would always flirt with him and stuff, and he would flirt back. i kinda thought that he might like me, but he kept talking about other girls. then i heard he was talking with a chick named amber. anyway; during the end of the school year, B started to talk to me less. i asked him what was wrong, and he told me he didn't want to intefer with me &my other guys. [i don't know what he meant by other guys] come to find out; B likes me. he told me he thought that he was going to end up being my boyfriend, and stuff. he told me that we wasn't going to hangout this summer or anything, because i had a bf. i told him he wasn't interfering &&i still wanted to hangout. now that school is out; i haven't talked to him since.
so there are the guys.
i like them all.
1st R; 2nd B; 3rd D.
i don't know who to choose to be with.
because i'm so confused about stuff.
i hope you can give me a little advice.
sorry this was so long.
thank you. (link)
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Welll ok I know you really like R but i don't think it will work out at all because i think he is still just being a playa. D seems ok but if you guys don't seem right together right now then you shouldn't be and tell him that it is weird and you barely know him. I think B would be best because you guys connected and He is respecting you by leaving you be with your bf even though you told him that he wouldn't interfere. What it seems like is that He probably thinks alot of guys are after you and he would have no chance at all and is backing away slowly untill you both don't talk at all. you can change that is you tell him how you feel. If you really like him then you should not let him goo. and try to talk to him. but this is your choice and i hope you make the one that will make you happy for a long time.
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I want to get my boyfriend (age 14) something special for his birthday, but I don't know what! In the past I've given him specific things that he'd mentioned he wanted (games, hunting stuff, etc). I know he liked them, because he wanted them, but they just weren't anything "special." I want to give him something that he can treasure and remember me by, the same way I treasure the necklace and charm bracelet he's given me. But would a guy even want something sentimental, or would he rather just have a video game or a box of ammo? (link)
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Well if he liked what he got before and have nothing else to get then get what you got before. i don't know what he is like but why don't you get him somthing cute like a teddy bear from build a bear or somthing like that thats say I Love You Soo Much or somthing. He would love it cause he knows that you really love him or if you are a good drawer then a drawing of you both would work also. If U get a necklace like a key for him and you get one with a heart and the key fits perfectly inside that heart it means like you have the key to my heart just get somthing meaning full. Video games last for like a month and is not for forever. Good luck i hope this helped. sorryy this was long first question i ever answered
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