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Hellllo. (=
My name is Chrissie.im seventeen. I'm a sophmore at keystone oaks. i'm going to a trade school for cosmetology, its what im super into, so i know alot about that if you need it.(: i get screwed over by boys aloot.. and i change my mind often which is never a good thing. i went through alot of stuff, stuff you wouldnt even believe, and im not gonna sit here and complain i have a bad life, cause i dont. everything got so much better and i just wanna try to help people with stuff i got through so they can get better too. (=

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i have an isolated dark line going verticle on my nail (so parallell to nail growth) and its on three of my nails. i do not know what it is. its been there for a while and it continues to grow with my nail. does anyone know what it is and if i should be worried? thanks. oh and i have already scheduled an appointment with my dermatologist but i would still like to know beforehand. thanks again.

this is nothing to about! from what your telling me i think its just a bruise or dry blood under your nail from a little injury. and it will grow out with you nail.! theres really nothing to worry about it shouldnt be a disease or anything to go to the doctors over. unless they cause you any sort of pain which it shouldnnt. but hope i helped.! (=

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15/f
i kinda have harry arms.. nobody has every like said anything to me about it but i notice it.. should i shave them.. or would that make it worse?

okayyyy, i know this was askkkkked like so many months ago, but i just saw it on someones profile thingy and i wanted to set it straight, casue it just bothered me. lol ITS A COMPLETE MYTH. hair does not grow back thicker and darker. your hair doesnt change like that. Im in cosmotology school and i thought it did to before i read about it in my textbook and my teacher told us all the technical stuff for it, and why its thats impossible. it may seem like it but its really not. I have shaved my arms since i was 15 and im 17 now and nothing is different about my hair, all my friends shave there arms and even some guys i know do it, i dont know if its weird where you live but its totally normal around me. so if you feel like you should, and you havent already then go ahead, it wont be bad.

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Okay, prom is in two weeks at my school, and this is my dress.

http://www.cbslimited.com/prom-dresses/detail_prom_tiffany_designs-1691073

However, my dress is red, not wine, olive, or coffee.
My question is, how should I do my eye makeup?
I thought about the smokey eye, black, silver, and white, but I have NO idea on how to even begin.
So any links on some eye make up that I could possibly wear would be wonderful.
I'm definately not sure how to do it.
Thanks in advance!

okay so heres a youtube link that explains and shows you how to do it. easier than trying to read it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zupy7R4uR2g

its really long but the smokey eye is usually really easy and simple to do, you just have to remember to blend and not make it to dark!

i also thought if you wanted red this would look really smokey and prettyy with that color.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGdfaNmxH0g&feature=related

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Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 9 months. Me and my gay bestfriend hungout the other day and got drunk together alone. Me and my gay bestfriend had sex. For like 1 minute then I stopped and said I cant do this. We were both really drunk and didnt know what we were doing. And I really love my boyfriend and if I tell him he will dump me and beat my bestfriends ass and I dont want that too happen. But I cant have sex with my boyfriend now not thinking about what I did with my gay bestfriend. What should I do?

okay so by now i hope you know that your boyfriend has to know about this. If he finds out about this from someone eles its going to be so much worse. He has gonna know this was a mistake casue if your bestfriend is gay then obviously it wasnt spost to happen. you have been together for a long time im sure hes going to understand, but he will be mad, and you should understand hes not going to let you get drunk alone with anyone anymore. its gonna take awhile for him to trust you again casue hes just gonna be scared its gonna happen again. but you should get him alone and tell him everything your thinking, have a talk and just work it out. good luck.

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me and my boyfriend (both 16) have tried having sex quite a few times with a few problems
first it didnt go in because we thought i was too tight
but now it doesnt seem to go in because it like bends?
i asked him if he wasnt hard enough and he just said idk kind of embarrassed so i didn't push the conversation
anyone have any ideas?

okay ive had this problem before its really embarrising, its probably soft casue hes nervs. buttt umm you have to turn him on more, like do more forplay and stuff. im gonna tell you some things that drive my boyfriend crazzzzzzyy when i do them.
okay so, i think this might sound weird all my friends think it wouldnt work but my boyfriend always tells me how much it works, lol, bit his ear. lol like nibble on it and breath softly in it. its amazing! and then go from his ear to his neck, like behind his neck and down his collarbone and just kiss him. you can also like tease him, like rub his hipbone before going down his pants and just like lightly run your fingertips around that area. it will work dont worry. (=

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I had black hair before I bleached it and now my roots are platinum blonde and my hair is an orange color. I'm planning on going to the salon tomorrow, can they do anything to change the color/make it lighter? Should I add highlights to cover up the orange? What should I do?

okay so, (=
Im second year in cosmotology school so ive learned about thisss.
it depends if you were a natural black before, casue no matter what you do evetually your color is going to come show through and its gonna keep having an orange or coppper tint to it. You defently want them to strip your hair of the color. then dye it again. lol your hair is going to be dead from all the chemicals but it should be blonde if they do it right. you should defently get a color sheild shampoo to help the color to stay right and to rehealthen your hair.

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Okay, well I'm a virgin. But i like to try and get as much pleasure as i can from my guy. And we were together tonight, and he fingered me reallyyy hard. and gave me oral. And we do it all the time, and everythings okay. But when i got home, i was really uncomortable. and i went to the bathroom and looked down. and my left vagina lip was sooo swollen. I'd say like three times bigger than normal. This never happened to me before, I don't know what it could be? And it burns when i go to the bathroom, its really uncomfortable, and rubs up against my leg and really hurts. Its gross, and embarassing. Can anyone tell me what it is? thank you!

well i honestly dont know what it is, but i had that exact thing happen to me like a year ago. i went to the doctors for it and they didnt help at all. they didnt tell me what it was they just said it would go away. so if you try to ignore it just for a little im pretty sure it will go away on its own like it did for me. I think its from like.. friction, like it was to hard and it irratated you. But if it doesnt go away on its own, go to a doctor and see if they can help you. my doctor might have just been retarded. (:

hope i helped.

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okay last night i had "sex" for the first time.? but im not sure if you would call it sex. the head of his penis was in, but thats it cause the rest wouldnt fit. could you tell me if thats sex and what is actually considered sex? like, is it when the whole thing is in or what?
thanks!

What i have heard is that sex is when the penis is fully inside of the vagina and he pops your cherry. Its not considered sex untill the cherry is actually popped. When you Do what your doing it basicly preperation. Alot of girls have to do this before they are ready for sex. casue vagina is just not ready to expand so quick haha. Some girls have to do this more than once. SO basicly im answering your question no. its not sex yet.

hope this helps. IF you need anything eles please ask!!

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okay to start off,
1. im a virgin
2. my cherry is not yet popped.

me and my boyfriend were fooling around and i was giving him a lapdance in panties while he was wearing boxers. we were just doing that but then he said he was starting to get wet so we should stop because precum could leak through so we stopped. My stomach has hurt crampwise really bad the past 3 days like i'm about to get my period but its not happening. usualy after i get cramps for a day i get my period the next. i'm not sure of the exact date im supposed to get my period but its sometime around this time. whats going on with this? i'm so confused.

There is a Really small chance your Pregnant from that. cum has to get into the vagina to get you pregnant. and if it was going through two layers of cloths. and it was only free cum. i doubt that your pregnant.
How long ago did you do this.
and i am so sure You dont get symptoms that quick.
Your proably just paranoid. i know it seems that way i went through the same think you did =]
Just wait a while and im sure you will get it.
But if it takes a while.
You should get a home pregnancy test.
But when i went through this. i took it to soon. and wasted my money for nothing.
But i would say you have nothign to worry about. =]

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okay so ive heard from a lot of people that they iron their hair with a normal iron...but my questions are is it bad for your hair? are there any special tips or advice you can give me so i wont burn my hair or anything ? does it work better than straightening ? is it faster ?

Useing a iron is like a last resort.
it is SOOOO bad for your hair.
And it takes a lot longer. its hard to get around the fase. and its not a very good way to straighten your hair.

Use a normal straightner. =] There is this cool stuff you can buy at any cvs like a drug store or something. Its called finishing spray from Herbal Essance. Its really good for not drying your hair out and you just comb it in after you straigten your hair. and it helps it stay stright. =]

hope this helps

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Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".

How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.

Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.

Thanks.

OKAY..=]
well im 15 too. and i lost mine last year. with a boy im still with.. he was exactly like yours is. saying i want it to be special and i want you to be happy all of that =]
the fact was.. it waset special.. we ment for it to be but by the time i said yes. we were into it to much and i was like go for it.. his parents were down stairs. but he was sweet and put on nice music and turned of the lights and if your both going to be virgins.. go slow casue it will be quick ahah..
its going to proably hurt. and he will cum fast.
but thats how it is the first time. mine wasent really secial but i wouldnt trade it for the world

=D

some ideas to make it Special are hard to say.. aha.. there is not much you can do.. go to dinner that day.. at a niceish place.. make sure everything just in a happy mood. not much you can do but a nice surprize he should do would be like just as you walk in the door.. dont turn on the lights. close your eyes and have him lead you upstairs. have love song ons.. you know the sad songs that just make you wanna cry.. dont rip your cloths of just take thm off of eachother slowley.when your the mood touching eachother is more sensitive.. so lightly brush your fingers over eachother before. trust me it feels amazing.. maybe he can even give you a message =] if he is good at those. and just go slow.. were a condom!! and make sure its like wet.. lubed..
casue you will be tight and it will be easer to go it. and after just lay in eahothers arms.. fall asleep.. and wake up..and feed eachother a sweet cake lol =D i always loved that..

kay hope thats good for you. =]

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well my friend counts her calories and only eats 1000 calories a day. She excercises all of the time and weighs herself constantly. She also considers being 100 lbs fat. Shes 14 and 5,0
100 lbs isn't fat right? anyways I am just concerned that she may be starting an eating disorder. is it true? are these signs?

I did a report on eating disorders and what your telling me really sounds like somethings wrong.

thats just the beginning. your spost to eat 2000 calliories a day to be healty. 1000 isnet healy.
and if she is weighting herself constintly thats not good. and 100 pounds for being 14 and 5 foot. is alittle thin. If her family is a thin one than its ok but look and see if she is different. has she lost alot of weight latly? if so you need to talk to her.. shes alredy thin enuff. EXERSISINE ALOT is a really big sign. those ARE SIGNS to the begining of a REALLY seriuse eating disorders. so try and talk to her.

some more signs are:
if she is getting mood swings.
if she starts wearing baggy cloths to hide her figure cause she thinks shes fat.

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so i met this really cool guy last night. hes so cute and sweet and funny and i dont know if i like him but i deff. want to hang out with him again. my other friend i was with said hes into me and there like best friends. the only problem is he was a little tipsy ( he wasnt drunk but he wasnt sober ) and i dont think hes gonna remember me. i texted him today and he was like sorry i was all over you last night...do you think that means he regrets it or that hes just sorry?

He was just scared you think hes a perve. he doesn't want you to hate him for that so he was just saying hes sorry for the way he acted. Hang out with him again when hes not drunkish. and if he still seems like he kinda likes you. then he does.

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okay well i see my best friend and her boyfriend making out all the time and everytime i watch them i really want to have a bf so i wouldnt be left out, but everytime my friends say they want to hook me up im just like nahh i don't know why im not scared to makeout or anything and i don't know what to do and it bugs me cause it seems amazing

Ok i get how you really want a boyfreind and that. and i think if you really want one Just find someone you KNOW you will have fun with. Realtionships don't have to be based on making out. There spost to be based on love or weather your confortabole with eachother.

If your frined say HEY you'll like this guy let me hook you up.. I don't know- if you dont feel confortable dont do it. But it wouldn't hurt to meet them a couple times and see how they are. You might find a really good boyfreind or just a really good freind by doing this. AN ddon't get disuraged if they guys a jurk. casue some are. It might take you a while to find the RIGHT person. Not forever but just right for right now. =]

and when you do find that right person. It just WOW. exactly everything you always dreamed. Amazing. You will be so glad you meet him. and if he is right you wount have to worry about it ending so fast. even throught really rough times. I've been with my boyfreind for 10 months and we have been throght absolutly everything together. =] and i had the same problem you had before i meet him. I think you should give it a try. BUt dont let people force you into a realtionship your not sure about. Work at your own pace it might take a while but its ALL worth it =]

God luck. Let me know if you find someone =]

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Okay so my one friend keeps telling me that my other friends ( who doesn'treally get along with me anyway ) is calling me a whore behind my back. My one friend is standing up for me but she says that my other friend is saying that im a whore because my boyfriend of 7 months and i make out during movies - i understand yeah maybe she doesn't want to see it but the thing is his dad hates me and we can NEVER see each other and thats pretty much the only time i can do that with him its getting really hard ! i just want to know if i really am a whore for this or is she just being lsfijsdlf ?

you're not a whore. even if you had sex with him you wouldn't be a whore in my opinion. a whore is someone who sleeps around with many of guys, and you are with YOURS only. so you can tell her to shut the fuck up. she's jealous.

anyways, why does his dad hate you?
tell me in my inbox. (:

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My hair is really think and its starting to bug me. does anyone know if theres something i can do to make it less thick. also i have a poof issue, does anyone know a way to keep that down?thnx in advance

You Can cut your hair to thin it or if you dont want to do taht you can by Garnier Fructis sleek ans shine shampoo. it thins your hair and keeps it nice and smooth. I love it it works on my hair and i use to have the same problem.

umKay

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yesterday my best friend was really upset and she said she wanted to be left alone..should i do anything and if so what? i feel kinda bad just letting her be alone. help please?

the same thing happened to my guy friend. what should i do?

thanks soo much.

If i guy says he wants to be left alone you should. He wants to gather his thoughts and maybe he will tell you later. Just tell him you hope hes ok and leave him alone for a while.
With the girl. Sometimes they say they want to be left alone, and they think they really do. Do just think. But when your gone sh emight feel like shes too alone and no one cares about her. But On the other hand if you bother her she might think your annoying and really just want to be left alone. Try just leaving her alone for a while and calling her or talking to her. Juts asking if shes ok. And if she wants to talk. if she truelly dosen't. Just let her breath.

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I'm 13yrs old and I'm a female.Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months and he calls usally everyday and do when he calls one day we have nothing to talk about the next so the phone conversations are silent......!We've already talked about the basics like our likes and dislikes,and the future,even random things like CHEESE!So if you have any advice than please help me!

Lol Talk About Your day. and whats going on. Watch a TV show together over the phone and talk about that over the commercials. Talk about what your going to do the next day or the next time you are going to hand out. Just find a topic. Tell him you want to cut your hair and ask him what he wants it to look like even if your not going to. Just find somthing. Be confortable and tell him anything. Did you tell him about your past. fun little kidstorys are always fun=] lol it will be easy to talk once you get the conversation going.
Good luck sweets

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I'm on my period and my dance recital is tomorrow. I'm going to wear a tampon but sometimes I still leak even if I have one in.
I can't wear underwear since it sticks out under the costume when i'm dancing but I wear this nude colored leotard thing underneath. Do you think if I put a pad there it would fall out or something?

Were a Panty liner. Its a really thin kind of pad to protect against leakage. It wont fall out Cause of the sticky hold on the other side so everything should be fine =]

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How long should I wait after sex to get an accurate result for a pregnancy test?

Uh i guess you should wait Till after your missed Period. Thats the best time. =]

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