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boyfriend or no
okay well i see my best friend and her boyfriend making out all the time and everytime i watch them i really want to have a bf so i wouldnt be left out, but everytime my friends say they want to hook me up im just like nahh i don't know why im not scared to makeout or anything and i don't know what to do and it bugs me cause it seems amazing
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Ok i get how you really want a boyfreind and that. and i think if you really want one Just find someone you KNOW you will have fun with. Realtionships don't have to be based on making out. There spost to be based on love or weather your confortabole with eachother.
If your frined say HEY you'll like this guy let me hook you up.. I don't know- if you dont feel confortable dont do it. But it wouldn't hurt to meet them a couple times and see how they are. You might find a really good boyfreind or just a really good freind by doing this. AN ddon't get disuraged if they guys a jurk. casue some are. It might take you a while to find the RIGHT person. Not forever but just right for right now. =]
and when you do find that right person. It just WOW. exactly everything you always dreamed. Amazing. You will be so glad you meet him. and if he is right you wount have to worry about it ending so fast. even throught really rough times. I've been with my boyfreind for 10 months and we have been throght absolutly everything together. =] and i had the same problem you had before i meet him. I think you should give it a try. BUt dont let people force you into a realtionship your not sure about. Work at your own pace it might take a while but its ALL worth it =]
God luck. Let me know if you find someone =]
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I have the same problem. I really would like a boyfriend too. It drives me nuts when I have to watch a couple kiss or just walk together.
You're not scared to make out, so that's definitely not your problem. You said that the idea of having a boyfriend seems amazing. Key word: seems. It does seem amazing, but a lot of times it isn't.
I don't blame you for not wanting your friends to hook you up with someone. You should be able to pick out your own boyfriend, not one that your friends picked out for you.
I think the problem is simply that there is noone you really like right now. A boyfriend would be amazing, but you would want it to be someone that you really liked, and that really liked you back, right? That can sometimes be hard to find, especially if you're still a teenager. Everyone's hormones are screwed up, and it is impossible not to get your heart broken at this age.
I think that you do want a boyfriend, but you just haven't found the right guy. And you probably don't want to get your heart broken either if the relationship won't last. (Which most of the time, it doesn't last.)
Don't let your friends tell you what to do, or tell you that you HAVE to have a boyfriend. Your friends may seem like they're in steady relationships right now, but you'd be suprised how quickly a relationship can fall apart. Eventually, you'll find someone. Just take it slow, and don't waste your time on any losers.
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