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Sex with my gay BFF.
Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 9 months. Me and my gay bestfriend hungout the other day and got drunk together alone. Me and my gay bestfriend had sex. For like 1 minute then I stopped and said I cant do this. We were both really drunk and didnt know what we were doing. And I really love my boyfriend and if I tell him he will dump me and beat my bestfriends ass and I dont want that too happen. But I cant have sex with my boyfriend now not thinking about what I did with my gay bestfriend. What should I do?
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i wouldn't tell the bf. maybe if you had a one night stand at a party or something. but i don't see much good out of telling. plus, i think the friend should get a vote in this. if their ass is going to get kicked, i think you need to know if they can deal with that. i'm just guessing that you probably have always been very open with this friend. maybe even undressing around them before and such. it just seems that it was like two friends letting themselves be vulnerable. then once it went past a certain point you two kind of forgot the situation. boyfriends come and go. you stopped this. yes it went further than you'd want it to. but you were also drunk and thinking slower than if sober. three people may get hurt if you say anything. only you hurt if you don't
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You need to tell your boyfriend the truth. If you don't, it'll just be like lying to him. If he finds out from somebody else, the situation will be much worse.
Be honest with him. He'll be mad but after he gets over it, he'll respect you more in the long run because he heard it from you.
There's no way to avoid the anger, the disappointment, the betrayal & the break up that's going to happen when you tell him. Just be honest.
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okay so by now i hope you know that your boyfriend has to know about this. If he finds out about this from someone eles its going to be so much worse. He has gonna know this was a mistake casue if your bestfriend is gay then obviously it wasnt spost to happen. you have been together for a long time im sure hes going to understand, but he will be mad, and you should understand hes not going to let you get drunk alone with anyone anymore. its gonna take awhile for him to trust you again casue hes just gonna be scared its gonna happen again. but you should get him alone and tell him everything your thinking, have a talk and just work it out. good luck.
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well, everyone makes mistakes. but as hard as it will be your going to have to tell your boyfriend. he will be mad and hurt and all of those lovely emotions but you will feel better from telling him. hiding things doesnt help. and if he truely loves you then he will stay with you. as hard as that will be for him to trust you he will. and you have to tell him it was an accident. you eed to tell him everything that happened. and if you and your friend didnt know what was going on then you need to include that part. you should tell him before someone else finds out and tells him because thats happened in a lot of situations. and hearing it from another person makes it worse. i hope things work out for you. if you need anything else ask me.
-tamera.
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You really do need to tell youre boyfriend. If you have been together for almost 9 months then he will understand i am sure. You just need to tell him that you do indeed love him and things just got way out of hand, he may be upset for a while but it is best for you to tell him yourself. You will always have guilt if you don't or worse someone else could tell him and he may be even more upset then he would have been if you just told him.
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is ur gay bestfriend a girl or guy?
IF GIRL: then just say we were playing around.
IF GUY: tell him it was an accident and u were wasted. Good luck!
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