My name is Kelly and I am 16 years old. And I am here for anyone and everyone. I have been through my fair share of hard and good times. I am really understanding and I can help pretty much anyone with anything. Giving advice is one of my favorite things to do, I am always avalible if needed, so feel free to ask me anything. I am not a judgemental person at all and I can understand basically anything, feel free to ask me whatever is on your mind.
Sincerly, kelly =]
Gender: Female
Member Since: April 12, 2009
Answers: 5
Last Update: April 12, 2009
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Okay So Today Is Easter Sunday And I Didn NOT Sleep At All Because I Was Talking To A Guy Named Anthony All Night And All Morning On MySpace IM And Yahoo Messenger. It Was For Like...More Than 10 Hours. Even Though We Have Never Gone Out With Eachother,We Tell Eachother We Love Eachother So Much All The Time. Then He Tells Me Something That Left Me Motionless And Breathless. He Told Me That He Wanted To Spend The Rest Of His Life With Me. I Was COMPLETELY Amazed By Him. I Didn't Know What To Say But "Oh" And "Really". And If Anyone In My Family Found Out I Was Engaged At 13 Almost 14 To A Guy That's 15 Almost 16...Then They Would Kill Me! But I Love Him Too Much To Let Him Go. Despite The 13 Mile Difference,I'm Going To See Him. I Love Anthony So Much! Tell Me If I Should Wait Or Go For What I Believe In And For Who I'm In Love With(: (link)
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Being in love with is a beautiful thing, but youre only 13, and considering you don't really know this anthony person besides from talking to him on the computer I don't know how safe it is for you to go see him. I don't mean to put a downer on things but I honestly think you should get to know him first and make sure he isn't just some creep online. I know that you're young but you need to understand that getting engaged at such a young age is probably not a good idea, you have your whole life ahead of you. So, please do not rush into things too soon, wait.
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Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 9 months. Me and my gay bestfriend hungout the other day and got drunk together alone. Me and my gay bestfriend had sex. For like 1 minute then I stopped and said I cant do this. We were both really drunk and didnt know what we were doing. And I really love my boyfriend and if I tell him he will dump me and beat my bestfriends ass and I dont want that too happen. But I cant have sex with my boyfriend now not thinking about what I did with my gay bestfriend. What should I do? (link)
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You really do need to tell youre boyfriend. If you have been together for almost 9 months then he will understand i am sure. You just need to tell him that you do indeed love him and things just got way out of hand, he may be upset for a while but it is best for you to tell him yourself. You will always have guilt if you don't or worse someone else could tell him and he may be even more upset then he would have been if you just told him.
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im 17 and live with just my mother.
my father left my mother almost 2 years ago because she was so 'mental' he finally couldnt deal with it. now that its just me and my mother she has gotten worse.
she has no friends, no family that wants to talk to her (or be around), and dosent have a job. she stays home 24/7. im an only child and she dosent have anyone else to talk to except for myself.
every day its getting worse. we argue, and fight (physically), every day i feel like im loosing my mind a little more.
is there anyway i can move out, either by myself, or with a friend. my friend would be 21 if that helps any.
i just feel like im about to loose my mind ive turned to anything and everything. things just keep getting worse. please help. (link)
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Well, i think that you should first try and talk to your mother about this. Giving her space may help and even letting her know that youre there for her, because sometimes when people feel alone it is hard for them to express their emotions in a healthy way. It may be a good idea to live with a friend for a little while, but after all your mother is your so it is in your best interest to try and worth things out with her to the best of your ability.
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I am a 24 year Male from India. I am a Gay and I always wanted to live a bachelor life in peace. I graduated 1 year back and I had a problem with my family regarding my post graduation and future career. And I fractured my right elbow 6 months back in a motorbike accident because my brother forced me to learn to drive motorbike. I told him I was scared to drive. I had to undergo surgery to fix my elbow with pins and screws. It still hurts. Nobody else know that I am gay. I dont honestly want a gay marriage either.
Doctor told me I cannot lift heavy weights again. It feels terrible to think that I have to live alone with a compromised right arm all my life and I spent 3 hours finding out ways to commit suicide in google. The thought of the moment of accident is just painful. I need someone to encourage me and advice me. Please help!!!!!
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Being gay is not something to be ashamed of. I really think you should see a therapist to help sort your problems out, but remember you are you no matter if you like men/women or if your tall/small or fat/skinny. It does not matter people will love you for who you are no matter what and if they do not accept you for who you are then they are not worth your time. I am also sure that your brother was not trying to hurt you he just wanted you to try something new, i also can see that he is probably very upset about you getting hurt in the first place, don't worry everything gets worse before it gets better. So, just take everything day by day, it'll get better. Just really think about seeing a therapist it'll help.
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I'm 16 years old & I totally suck at befriending guys. All my friends are girls & i dont have one guy friend at all, its that bad. I go to a all-girls school but i do outside school things like church & going out with my girlfriends (sometimes my girlfriends bring guy friends along, but i never end up talking/being friends with the guys). Firstly, I'm too shy to strike up a conversation and secondly I'm quite an awkward person at times so I wouldn't know what to say if we did have a conversation. Also, is there anything else that's preventing me from befriending guys? Thankyou! (link)
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I used to have the same problem! It's easier than you think to come out of your shy shell. All you need to do is talk to guys as you would talk to your girl friends. Have a friend come with you and talk to a guy, it'll make it easier for you to talk to them. And since there is both you and another girl there things won't get awkward and if you don't know what to talk about just bring up the first thing on your mind. He will also talk too, so thing shouldn't get awkward.
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