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stuck with mental mother
im 17 and live with just my mother.
my father left my mother almost 2 years ago because she was so 'mental' he finally couldnt deal with it. now that its just me and my mother she has gotten worse.
she has no friends, no family that wants to talk to her (or be around), and dosent have a job. she stays home 24/7. im an only child and she dosent have anyone else to talk to except for myself.
every day its getting worse. we argue, and fight (physically), every day i feel like im loosing my mind a little more.
is there anyway i can move out, either by myself, or with a friend. my friend would be 21 if that helps any.
i just feel like im about to loose my mind ive turned to anything and everything. things just keep getting worse. please help.
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Well, i think that you should first try and talk to your mother about this. Giving her space may help and even letting her know that youre there for her, because sometimes when people feel alone it is hard for them to express their emotions in a healthy way. It may be a good idea to live with a friend for a little while, but after all your mother is your so it is in your best interest to try and worth things out with her to the best of your ability.
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First off the only way you can move out. Is your mothers permission to give up her rights or being emancipated. some startes dont allow emancipation. you can google it to find out if your state allows it. If your friend doesnt mind than you can live with them. Emancipation. you need to have a job. show you are capable of taking care of yourself.
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well you should start by asking your friend if you could move in with her for a while or maybe forever if she says yes then tell your mother that you are moving out you want to be responsible of your self so pack your bags and go,so you could move in with this person maybe go to your mums like once or twice a week see how it goes and be nice,maybe you could get Msn for you both and you could talk on that or ring her,you might just need a break!
i hope this helps
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