Question Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 12:52 am
Okay, well I'm a virgin. But i like to try and get as much pleasure as i can from my guy. And we were together tonight, and he fingered me reallyyy hard. and gave me oral. And we do it all the time, and everythings okay. But when i got home, i was really uncomortable. and i went to the bathroom and looked down. and my left vagina lip was sooo swollen. I'd say like three times bigger than normal. This never happened to me before, I don't know what it could be? And it burns when i go to the bathroom, its really uncomfortable, and rubs up against my leg and really hurts. Its gross, and embarassing. Can anyone tell me what it is? thank you!
Noyeti answered Monday November 17 2008, 11:47 am: well i honestly dont know what it is, but i had that exact thing happen to me like a year ago. i went to the doctors for it and they didnt help at all. they didnt tell me what it was they just said it would go away. so if you try to ignore it just for a little im pretty sure it will go away on its own like it did for me. I think its from like.. friction, like it was to hard and it irratated you. But if it doesnt go away on its own, go to a doctor and see if they can help you. my doctor might have just been retarded. (:
ediemarie answered Sunday November 16 2008, 4:59 pm: Hi,
I wouldn't worry too much. I think he was too rough for you. If anything that someone does hurts, you should always say so. Sex, for the most part is supposed to be pleasurable at all times. It doesn't seem like that was your experience.
Tell and show him what you want.
Your urethra is not that far from your clitoris. He might have irritated it causing the pain when you urinate. If that doesn't go away, talk to your doctor. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
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