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Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".
How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.
Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.
Thanks.
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Well my first time was not as romantic as you may plan it.First off, I will just tell you that birth control and a latex condom will work but you can not always depend on a condom so that birth control is relatively helpful.and i would not just do one.DO BOTH.I BEG THAT YOU DO SO. i di only one.the condom.not so bad..but the condom did pop.and it mad me scared for months now I have been scared of ther result for later...
WEll the condom is too help protect against the STD's and pregnancy.the birth control is just all pregannacy. DO NOT HAVE SEX ON YOUR PERIOD OR SOMEWHERE NEAR CLOSE.YOU COULD STILL GET PREGNANT.
my first time was on his layed out comforters on the floor of his room because he had no bed..then it was too loud rap music..to keep moans from echoing out of the room while his grand mother..his daughter and his cousin was on the other side.then he kept getting me too hide so his grandmother wouldnt be so nosey..I started to eave but then I just wanted it o be over with..you know..i made a mistake and I wish I could take it back but see i respect the guy that is giving you your time and space, so just be careful..alright.hope i helped.
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well im 15 too. and i lost mine last year. with a boy im still with.. he was exactly like yours is. saying i want it to be special and i want you to be happy all of that =]
the fact was.. it waset special.. we ment for it to be but by the time i said yes. we were into it to much and i was like go for it.. his parents were down stairs. but he was sweet and put on nice music and turned of the lights and if your both going to be virgins.. go slow casue it will be quick ahah..
its going to proably hurt. and he will cum fast.
but thats how it is the first time. mine wasent really secial but i wouldnt trade it for the world
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some ideas to make it Special are hard to say.. aha.. there is not much you can do.. go to dinner that day.. at a niceish place.. make sure everything just in a happy mood. not much you can do but a nice surprize he should do would be like just as you walk in the door.. dont turn on the lights. close your eyes and have him lead you upstairs. have love song ons.. you know the sad songs that just make you wanna cry.. dont rip your cloths of just take thm off of eachother slowley.when your the mood touching eachother is more sensitive.. so lightly brush your fingers over eachother before. trust me it feels amazing.. maybe he can even give you a message =] if he is good at those. and just go slow.. were a condom!! and make sure its like wet.. lubed..
casue you will be tight and it will be easer to go it. and after just lay in eahothers arms.. fall asleep.. and wake up..and feed eachother a sweet cake lol =D i always loved that..
kay hope thats good for you. =]
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well my first time was definatly not how i would have imagined it at all.
try to make your first time as special as it could be, bc you will remember it the most.
i was at a new years party with some guy i knew for a couple of weeks, and it just kind of happend.
i wasnt dating him or anything, so i regret that time more than anything.
it would be really cute if you guys had a romantic dinner first, and when your finally ready for the foreplay and all that, make sure the mood is perfet. dim the lights and have lots of candles all around the room.
cute music in the backround can set the mood too.
just do whatever you feel comfertable doing.
have funn!
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I cannot tell you how to make it special, because it is really an individual preference on how you want it to be.
I would like to point out a few things. First, I realize that you don't care about losing your virginity, but it is something not to be taken lightly. I was forced into my first sexual experience and wish I could have that moment back. I wanted to lose it my way, on my terms, to someone special. So, please reconsider the thinking on you don't care anymore.
Secondly, if you are going to have a sexual relationship with him, make sure you have birth control options taken care of. i.e.- condoms AND birth control. Unless you are willing to take care of a baby.
Finally, don't do it at your parents house. You will be worried the whole time if they are going to walk in. That will put a damper on things. If you have to wait until something more appropriate comes along, then by all means, do so. You don't want to have the unnecessary stress added to something as big as this.
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this might be long :) ok well if you feel the way you do, like i did, you most likely wont regret it at all. when your at his house alone, & you decide you finally want to, you dont have to tell him, jus start hXc making out on the bed..one thing will lead to another..then you can tell him you want to. be sure to have a condom with you, just in case he doesnt. theres nothing more dissappointing then preparing yourself to have sex for the first time, then not being able to =/. my first time was last year in january (i was about to turn 15..a little young, i know.) but we were up in his room alone (his parents were downstairs) and his sis & her guy were in her room. well stuff started happening & clothes came off..he asked me for a b.j. but i didnt feel like it, so i just said lets have sex. so he got a condom. it didnt hurt..but it didnt feel great either. but after litterally one minute, it was great. (for your first time, id do missionary, alott easier.) hope i helped :) <3ali
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