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First off: I am by NO means a song writer! I admit that now.
Ok, I wrote a pretty corny song for my mom on mother's day. Seeing how corny it was, just made me want to do better. I just now put pen to paper and came up with this. I want your HONOST opinion. I tried to think about how it would actually sound as a song, but self critisism has always been tough for me. I want your 100%, completely honost, first-thing-that-you-think comments. Also, help on improving? I'm learning to play the guitar by the way, which is kind of my inspiration for song-writing. ANYWAY, here it is:
Going nowhere fast
time stands still
push away the past
try no to feel
you're not worth the effort
not a dime
so why's this stupid heart
breaking every time?
I've thrown away the gifts
ripped all the pictures up
pushed you out of my mind
burned that stupid close-up
Stop creeping back
into my mind
can't you see the
"turn back" sign?
I've gone through a lot
but not so much like this
heart's all cracked up
many things to miss
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and that's all I have. I also have no clue how to organize this thing. I guess it was just sort of spur-of-the-moment. Anyways, yeah, critisism!!!! (link)
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wow its pretty good, but like someone else make a chorus :) good luck, keep it up :)
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Is it wrong to make out 1 week after the first date? (link)
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16 f. well me & my bf have been goin out for almost a year and we started goin out on homecoming night. but 3 days before that, i hung out with him at his house, and we were watching tv & teasing each other, and he leaned in & we made out. (before we were even dating) as long as its not like, you know, groping each other or anything, but just a nice romantic french..most girls i wouldnt mind that. but i dont know, it just depends on the girl. read her body language to see if shes comfortable with it or not. hope i helped, good luck! -ali
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hey, im being dragged to key west this summer and if im going i'd like to go to a teen club. does anyone know of any because this could make my vacation a whole lot more interesting. (link)
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i wouldnt consider it being dragged.. id be jumping on the plane! consider how lucky you are to even be going on vacation, most people i know (including me) have never had the opportunity to go anyplace fun like key west.. but, if you google the exact location youre going, some websites should have a list of things to do there. or try googling "teen clubs in (name of city here)" im sure something will come up. good luck & have fun on your vacation!
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I like songs that describe my mood(s) or situation... Well right now I just feel betrayed and hurt by my friend. She WAS my best friend but now we're not really good friends anymore and it's because of something I guess. I don't understand it. She's moved on, and has changed a lot. It annoys me and also makes me sad. Everything is confusing and has changed a lot. I also feel left out and feel like "my friend" doesn't really even care about me anymore. It's like we were never "bffl"..... It seems like everything's a lie... I dunno how to describe it, but weird things have happened and I don't understand, cause never in my life would I think it would actually happened. I'm just surprised by it. I'm also sick of fake ppl. Or, posers, and copycatters!!!!! I'm annoyed by them and wish they'd just stop the act..... oh and no, I'm not looking for detailed advice, I just need songs. I'm wondering if anyone knew some reallyyyy goood songs that talk about everything I just said, or something like that. Songs that have good lyrics, and make you really think about them. They could also be sad songs...... Some examples are "Welcome to my Life", "Untitled", and "Perfect", all by Simple Plan... You know songs kinda like that. xD Thankkss! (link)
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try "inside out" and "empty apartment" by yellowcard, "makedamnsure" by taking back sunday, anything by the all american rejects, "numb" by linkin park, "just a kid" and "when im gone" by simple plan, "all that ive got" by the used, the "still searching" album by senses fail, "im not OK (i promise)" by my chemical romance, most newfound glory..on most music sites they should have a "similar artists" list. try looking at those if you look up some of these.. if you like these & want more, just message me :) hope i helped! -ali 16f
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How do you find a therapist and are they expensive? I don't have health insurance and I haven't been to a doctor since I was a little kid so I don't have a doctor to ask. I'm in college and I make barely enough money to buy food and pay rent. I think I'm bi-polar and I want to learn how to deal with it and handle it better - it's already ruined alot of friendships and I can't handle homework/class when I'm really low so I've already failed/dropped way too many classes because of it. If I can't afford a therapists where can I go to get diagnosed or at least someone to talk to? I'm not religious so I can't talk to anyone like that. Give me some advice :( (link)
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does your college have anything like a counsler? you know, like in highschool? if so, talk to them. i dont know what else to tell you, because therapists are pretty expensive..and since you dont have money, well.. a therapist would probably just prescribe medication - another thing to pay for. sorry its not very helpful, but its true. good luck! -ali
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I feel like my mind is messing with me. I am 5'5'' and about 135lbs ( 15/female) . Now, technically that isn't overweight, but I used to be 4'6'' and 140lbs a few years ago, and my brain is stuck on that.
Back then I told myself I was healthy, but now whenever I look at myself in the mirror or in a picture I think I look obese. I can usually keep this to my self, but when I am PMSing, it gets worse. I feel like such a fatty all the time. I dont really have any confidence. I dont wear make-up because I have a disease on my skin on my face , so that doesnt help. My family and friends are concerned, but I just cant help it
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how can I make my self think I am normal-looking? (link)
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your not fat, your healthy, but if you really want to tone up, shed a few lbs, and be healthy, then all you have to do is eat right and exercise. i know that sounds cliche, but i did, and i lost 10 lbs in a month :) all i did was eat healthy and run/walk for about an hour 3 or 4 times a week. trust me, youll see results :) as for makeup, try just wearing mascara, if you can. it can make a WORLD of difference, if put on right. also it would really even out your complexion if you got a tan, they make your face look slimmer and deff more pretty/girly. but as i said, only if you can. if not, try using jergens self tanner for face. it will give you a healthy glow :) good luck! -ali 16/f
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when a girl gets an orgasmn what does it feel like in the vaginal area? (link)
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its like a deep contracting pull, then a release. its different for everyone but it feels amazing and you can always tell when youve had one
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everytime i sign on aim from my cell, it signs me on, then signs me off and says my time has expired, but i can sign right back on, and the same thing happens again. why is this? (link)
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ive had that happen to me too. its something with the connection, and all you can do is wait it out. you can always text though :)
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what do i do to learn an accent like southern british etc what do i do (link)
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watch alot of british accented movies. like bridget jones diary 1 & 2, candy, that show the saddle club.. (its really gay, but they have accents) when i watch movies with accents, i usually pick them up on accident haha. hope this helps :) -ali 16/f
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okay, is it true that is you give a guy head, then her explodes, then you swallow, that swallowing can make you sick? if you go to the doctors can they tell what you did (link)
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semen contains a sort of "bodily bleach" to dissolve through vaginal secretions to ensure the sperm can get through ok. thats why it can sometimes have a bleachy smell. it might make you gag, but thats about it. it can sometimes make you feel a little, because every guys semen tastes different. depending on their diet and what they take in (i.e. eating lots of red meat or smoking) but no, the doctors cant tell what youve done :) hope this helps :) -ali 16/f
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How do you do it?! I don't really understand it all advice and tips welcomee!! (link)
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well when you go to kiss each other (which starts the making out) first youll most likely open mouth kiss, but with no toungue. then, when he put his toungue in your mouth, put yours in his, and just copy his movements. remember to breath through your nose, NOT your mouth! and dont slobber lol. and if either one of you does, pull back, say, "gross!" jokingly lol. and laugh and smile, like youre joking. that way he (or you) wont feel embarrassed, and you can go back to making out. it seems scary, and youre all like, "how do you do it??" but once you start, its really very easy. hope this helps! -ali 16/f
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15/f. okay first off im a teenager so body image is something that really matters to me. everybody tells me how skinny i am and it always make me mad. and i guess since im not like everyone else guys dont like me cause if it either. im like 5'4 or '3 and i way like 96 lbs. well are there any ways i can like gain weight? or like any stores or style i could wear to kind of fill out my shape. i wear like to wear tight pants and stuff but it hard to find the right pair, i wear like a 0 or 00 long. oh and everyone make fun of my long legs :/ so yeah . well any store for like smaller people, or any tips i would be really greatful for. thankss (link)
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ok well this is a bad habit & i wouldnt recommend it, but since your trying to GAIN weight... eat when youre bored. because being teenagers, we get bored alot. so, youll eat more. i could tell you to eat lots of mcdonalds and fatty food, but dont, because that will clog your arteries & give you a heart attack of something. :) uhh well the only thing i really know is to eat alot. just dont get too unhealthy or anything.. good luck :) -ali 16/f
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What types of cologne are cheap, smell good, and would fit a guy in his late 20's? Something subtle so you can't smell it from ten feet away, but still noticable. (link)
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try 'Jake' from Hollister. its not super expensive ($35) but its amazing, and deffinetly worth it. you cant really smell it until you walk past someone, or are close to them. and, being a girl, i can personally attest to the fact that its amazing.. i got my boyfriend into using it and i practically jump on him haha. its pretty much age appropriate through mid-30s, or more, depending on how old you look. its a great product :)
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im 15,16 in like two months
im 5'6 almost 5'7
i weight 110
i also have 34dd boobs
if that makes any differance
im contantly thinking im overweight
sometimes my friends will make stupid jokes kinda hinting at it
but i dont know whats normal for a girl my age and height and everything
soo yeahh what is?
am i normal/overweight? (link)
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well im jealous :) im 16, 5'8", and 127 lbs. i was 130, but am losing "winter fat" haha and im trying to get back down to 110. youre deffinetly not overweight - at all! you sound like youre at a healthy weight for your age & height. i would not recommend losing any weight, youd probably end up looking anorexic =/ and thats not pretty haha. so love your body & be confident! hope ive helped in some way; take care :) -ali 16/f
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the longest an orgy ever lasts for me is liek a few seconds, and then it takes a while to have another one.. is there a way to make it last longer? (link)
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umm... welll... an ORGY is a bunch of people having sex at the same time.. i think youre talking about an ORGASM. haha. theres a few things you can do to make them last longer. do your kegals every day (exercising your vaginal muscles, they can be felt when youre peeing, its the muscle that makes you stop.) that will make your vagina more sensitive & orgasms will last longer and feel better. try reading this months issue of GLAMOUR. they have a section in there for that. have fun :)
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Ok, so I know it sounds bad considering I'm planning on going to college in Australia, but can someone please explain to me the geography of it? I mean, Sydney is just a large city located in New South Wales, right? And are New South Wales, Northern Territory, Queensland, ect. states in AU like we have here in the US?
Sorry if these are obvious and stupid questions, but I honestly have no idea.
Thanks in advance :] (link)
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well sydney is the big city haha youre right about that. its in the southern half of the country, i believe. secondly, i dont think they have states; because most of AU is dry and like, barren. the parts like youd see on the crocodile hunter. theres just main cities and towns; queensland, brisbane..etc. at least im pretty sure. hope this helps you :)
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you know how on americas next top model they go to different countries around the world [china, thailand, africa, england, etc] well does anyone know a website with information on fashion shows all over the world? i'm doing a report on it so anything would be awesome! thanks (link)
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im big into modeling..but i dont really know of any websites with a list..try google..? however, i can tell you that fashion shows are more often in or around a fashion capital : milan, paris, madrid (spain), thailand, tokyo, indonesia, bejing, brazil, NYC, australia.. etc. sorry i couldnt help more, but try researching the high-fashion runways shows in those countrys, youre bound to find good information.. good luck! :)
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So, I could do a left foot front splits, sometimes all the way, some days an inch or two off the floor. Well, I pulled a muscle in the back of my left thigh and it pretty much hurts to reach down and touch my toes. I can touch my toes but that's it, and I could put my palms on the floor. But, anywhos, how long would it take for my muscle to heal and would I still be able to do a left foot front split? Because I heard something about pulled muscle = not able to do flexible stuff with that leg anymore..
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well no one can really say for sure, because we cant see the severity of the pulled mucsle. your best bet is to go to your doctor, or a sports medicine specialist. they do cheerleading, football, etc, so they see this kind of stuff a lot. dont attempt a split just yet, you might end up making it worse in the long run. time for healing varies, depending on how badly youve pulled it. hope i helped, good luck! -ali 16/f
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so i can send songs and recieve songs if i have the headset attachement. (link)
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so whats the question here? call the verizon 1 800 number and tell them your problem. they can help with almost anything wrong with your phone. its their job, afterall x.
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when im with my close friends im all weird and crazy and really loud and i have a good time. but when im with other people im all quiet and stuff and just in the corner. im kinda okay with it but i want to be the way i am with my close friends with other people. if you get wht im trying to say. yupp =] (link)
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im kinda that way myself, but it all has to do with confidence. your obviously comfortable and confident when your with your friends, you just need to be like that around everyone. trust me, youll come off as more interesting; a leading-persons type, if you will. you dont have to be crazy and loud, because sometimes that can be inturrpreted as annoying or immature to people who dont actually know you. just smile, be friendly, make comments or jokes. start a conversation with someone; ask questions. ask for help with something (a for sure convo starter.) just have fun wherever you go, and keep your high confidence; itll show! -ali 16/f
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