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Phone Talk


Question Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 9:24 pm

I'm 13yrs old and I'm a female.Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months and he calls usally everyday and do when he calls one day we have nothing to talk about the next so the phone conversations are silent......!We've already talked about the basics like our likes and dislikes,and the future,even random things like CHEESE!So if you have any advice than please help me!


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Ashumms answered Friday May 18 2007, 8:21 pm:
Talking every single day makes you run out of things to talk about. Instead of talking every day, try talking every other day or even every third day. That way, when things happen to you in the day or two that you don't talk, you'll have something to talk ABOUT when you DO talk.

Try doing this and see what happens. If you need more help, pop me a question in my inbox.

Hope this helps you!

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Noyeti answered Friday May 18 2007, 11:42 am:
Lol Talk About Your day. and whats going on. Watch a TV show together over the phone and talk about that over the commercials. Talk about what your going to do the next day or the next time you are going to hand out. Just find a topic. Tell him you want to cut your hair and ask him what he wants it to look like even if your not going to. Just find somthing. Be confortable and tell him anything. Did you tell him about your past. fun little kidstorys are always fun=] lol it will be easy to talk once you get the conversation going.
Good luck sweets<3

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Sparky_1 answered Friday May 18 2007, 10:42 am:
try and answer..what colour does a smurf turn when you choke it? :D
Nah not really..just talk about new things that have happened that day or other people..

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kdisncsbabe answered Thursday May 17 2007, 11:55 pm:
well, dats the same things as me n my ex-bf...he dumped me 4 sum1 else, but i dont think your bf is like dat. Im getting off topic... just be yourself and you start talking about something interesting, like wat happened at school today then maybe hed start talking then you n your bf are actually having a convo.

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AskJR answered Thursday May 17 2007, 11:16 pm:
Don't talk on the phone everyday. Problem solved.

It's like being married for a long time, sooner or later you know everything about each other and there's nothing left to talk about except memories.

Only at 13, there's no memories.

You both need space apart for at least 24 hours. Don't you see each other everyday at school?

Take a break- don't answer the phone, make an excuse you were doing something when he called, or get a family member to say you're in the shower. Something believable.

Unless you want to tell him you need space and enough is enough- like every night is toooo much!

You aren't old enough to have that much to talk about except school, friends, gossiping, music, movies and the like.

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