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Not sure- and i a whore?
Okay so my one friend keeps telling me that my other friends ( who doesn'treally get along with me anyway ) is calling me a whore behind my back. My one friend is standing up for me but she says that my other friend is saying that im a whore because my boyfriend of 7 months and i make out during movies - i understand yeah maybe she doesn't want to see it but the thing is his dad hates me and we can NEVER see each other and thats pretty much the only time i can do that with him its getting really hard ! i just want to know if i really am a whore for this or is she just being lsfijsdlf ?
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None of that sounds very whore-ish to me. You're not selling your body for money, and if she's using the term 'whore' to insinuate that you're being slutty or whatever, she's wrong.
You've been going out with the same guy for 7 months now, it's perfectly okay for you to kiss him, wherever you want. It's not like you're kissing 4 different guys every day, or having sex with a bunch of people.
I think she's either jealous of your relationship or she's just a bitch. You need to cut out your relationship with her, or she's going to say even worse things to hurt your reputation. Just tell her you don't appreciate the way she talks about you behind your back, and that you don't want to speak to her or hang out with her any more -- and leave it at that. She doesn't need any explanations, or your forgiveness. Just drop her.
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It sounds as though your friend is probably jealous of you and yeah she might not want to see it, but that's no reason to call you a whore.
You're deffinately not a whore, because you've being going out with your boy for 7 months. A whore would be someone who has frequent short-term sexual relationships, which doesn't sound like you at all.
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Dictionary.com says
"1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet."
Do you have sex with a lot of people?
Do you have sex for money?
"�verb (used without object)
2. to act as a whore.
3. to consort with whores."
Do you engage in the act of selling your own body, or that of others? (EG, "I'm going to whore my friend out")
"�verb (used with object)
4. Obsolete. to make a whore of; corrupt; debauch."
Are you regularly into making a mockery of some art form, lifestyle, or other interest that would most likely effect her? ("She's totally whoring up the goth subculture." etc)
Smells like envy.
But it also counts as defamation, considering that she's spreading untruths about you in order to injure your reputation.
Whatever her reasons, referring to you in this way is unnecessary and uncouth on her part, and I would suggest telling her so.
Tell her
A. You are using the word "whore" to spread untruths about me, which is defamation, a form of illegal harassment.
B. You can tell everybody that you don't like me, but you need to stop defaming me.
C. If you don't, I'm going to destroy your high school career using the proper authorities.
If she continues, take point C to your parents and school authorities. Explain that you have a boyfriend you are highly affectionate with, but that you are not promiscuous or engaging in prostitution, so you shouldn't have to deal with such public defamation.
Tell them that this is effecting your social life, your high-school career, and your personal confidence, and if they can't deal with it, you want a lawyer.
These big words will usually get adults to take your plight seriously and respond with the necessary actions.
Best of luck. :)
[edit] Actually, having thought about it and remembering certain instances of my own, it's perfectly possible that the situation is getting blown out of proportion, or that someone else is trying to stir shit, or that someone was misunderstood, etc ...
So, in the case that this girl is spreading nasty things about you, the above answer still stands. Before you can know that, though, you need to ask around:
1. What does she say?
2. When does she say it?
Hell, she might be joking around.
The important thing is to figure out whether she's being a threat to you, and if so, defend yourself. If not, let everyone know that something got blown out of proportion, and that things work better if that doesn't happen.
And really, really, most importantly, above all else, and absolutely paramount:
do not let the idea of someone bad-mouthing you effect your self-esteem, confidence, or definition of yourself.
If they're wrong, they're wrong. Dead wrong.
You know yourself as well as anyone, you don't have to put up with crappy treatment, and you don't have to take part in hurting yourself.
No, you're not a whore.
Now, remind yourself, and find out who's worth proving that to. :)
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You are definatly not a whore, you are the farthest thing from a whore. That girl may just be jealous that you have a boyfriend, or actually kiss boys ( im not sure if she does lol ?) So just forget about it, and confront her, or just show her you don't care. And yes she's just being lsgfjghk :) hope i helped
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no youre not a whore but if i were you i go up to that girl and see whats up with her saying that.
.:Clowny:.
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Noyeti is me. (Britney.) I was accadently on my friends name, so post the answer (if you want.) in MY inbox. (:
Thank you veryy much.
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you're not a whore. even if you had sex with him you wouldn't be a whore in my opinion. a whore is someone who sleeps around with many of guys, and you are with YOURS only. so you can tell her to shut the fuck up. she's jealous.
anyways, why does his dad hate you?
tell me in my inbox. (:
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you are definatly NOT a whore. He's your boyfriend, you're definalty allowed to make out with him whenever you want to. a movie is teh perfect place for that, its dark, your not disturbing anyone. basically, the majority of people, make out during movies. its totally normal. especially that hes of 7 months, i know people who date alot shorter than that, and do alor more than make out. to some people you could be considered taking it slow.
dont worry about it, shes probably just jealous she cant get any action for herself xD
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First of all--this girl calling you a whore is not your friend.
Second thing is, you need to go up to this girl and tell her straightout "If you have a problem with me, say it to me right now. You don't have to go around calling me a whore."
Lastly--you're not a whore. More than 80% of teen couples do that during movies. Your friend's just uber jealous
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Personally i don't think your a whore. Sometimes it can be hard to look at someone else doing it so maybe she just feels uncomfortable. She might also just be jealous that you do that with your boyfriend and she doesnt [ unless she does ] I doubt this girl is a good friend so don't pay any attention to her. Shrug it off and she will eventually stop. Some people mature later and wont go as far as other people so it's really just a matter of prefrence. Its not her fault she thinks thats weird but she still shouldnt be calling you that. Don't let her make you feel like one and just forget what she says and live your life.
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shes just being retarted.
shes jealous.
just about every couple makes out in the movies.
wtf. dont listen to her. she obviously has nothing else better to do with her time than come up with ways to be retarted.
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