I'm Sarah :)
I'm a student studying for a degree in Business Management. I have an amazing boyfriend and great family and friends who all mean the world to me. Honestly I don't know what i'd do without any of them! ♥
I don't really know what to do with my life as a career, but I do love to give advice to anyone and I always try to give my 100%.
I really enjoy writing, baking, reading, parties, playing piano and doing anything creative really.
Sorry if I don't get back to your questions asap, but I will try to.
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okay so i totally trust my bf, or at least i thot i did...to make long story short he went huntin in texas when he came back i found out he videoed a girl his age huntin by thereselves well shes on his facebook and his email says she tagged him in a pic...how can i see the pic w/o lettin them know who i am (link)
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Did he tell you that he'd video's the girl or did you look through his phone/camera to find it. 'cos if he didn't tell you then it could make the situation a lot more awkward - if you ask him about the girl & the video he will immediately think you don't trust him 'cos you've been checking through his things.
You could ask him about the girl to his face. Just ask who she is and how he knows her, then take it from there.
Its best to ask him rather than to sneak around, at least if you ask you'll get the full idea (hopefully) then if you feel like he's lying you should ask him why...
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Guess what time it is? Yep time to name the baby!
I found out today that I am going to have a girl, and I need help coming up with a list of girl names that end in the letter "Y."
It is what I always wanted but now that the time is here the only one I can come up with that seems fitting is "Accidentally" LOL!
Thank you please? (link)
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Jenny
Holly
Molly
Milly
Hailey
Carly
Sady
Zoey
Tracey
Whitney
Kimberly
Ally
Lily
Ceylie
Cortney
Torey
Kelsey
Ashley
Suzy
Audrey
Aubrey
Becky
Betsy
Betty
Brandy
Brittany
Cathy
Daisy
Emily
Hillary
Judy
Kelly
Tammy
Chrissy
Christy
Lindsay
Lucy
Mallory
Mary
Patty
Polly
Rosemary
Ruby
Sally
Sandy
Shelly
Sherry
Shirley
Miley
Beverly
Felicity
Marly
Harmony
Mindy
Stacy
Terry
Tiffany
Wendy
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so i want to go to this program this summer, which is already kind of risky seeing as i do not mAKE friends eisly and i went to a camp before but i was kinda a loner there. but ive decided i want to anyways. the problem is i have a twin sister and we have never been apart for the summer. i think if i go she will too. but she is even more unfriendly than i am and i know she is gonig to have a hard time. i really think that between my own problems mking friends and makking sure shes okay im going to be miserable. plus having eachother their might make it harder for both of us. what do i do? please please help me! (link)
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I think that if you want to go then you definitely should. Don't let anything stop you. Making friends isn't always easy, but at least you're not going to let it defeat you.
Tell your sister the truth, that you don't think she'd like the program and that she'd only be miserable there. Tell her that it's something you'd rather do by yourself or you want to have the experience of doing something on your own - you don't need to be attached at the hip all the time. She should understand.
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My best friend is moving away. :'( We are all having a big party and i am putting together a slideshow of everybody's pictures with her. But what song or songs can i use to make it really nice? I really don't even know where to start looking for good songs for best friend slideshows!
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Umm you could KT Tunstall - Suddenly I See or songs by Brand New go quite nicely with friend slideshows :)
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I'm a Christian but I love translating my dreams. Do you think translating dreams would be against God's word or that he wouldn't like that?
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No I don't think God would mind you translating your dreams at all - God comes to people in dreams and if translating dreams makes you happy, then why wouldn't God want you to be happy?
Dreams can be symbolic but sometimes they have no meaning at all. They can carry messages from your subconcious that need to get through to your concious. Also dreams are the way that your brain deals with problems and issues throughout life - so it can be a good thing to translate them :)
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hi! i need some help. I did very unhealthy dieting and about 2 months ago i started eating normally again. i gained some weight because i was taking birth control pills and now that i've got off of them i've lost some weight on my own... but i need a little help to get back at a comfortable weight for me.... but the thing is that it's just hard mentally. even though it's not so bad, i find it really hard to do it. especially, after all i've been through. it's not like i'm eating crap either. i mean, i eat pretty healthy. i just need to go on a structured meal plan. i have done it before, and i know i can do it again... but i need help to be mentally ready to do it. any advice? (link)
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Exercising is definitely a good way to start loosing weight and to tone up.
I think that you just need the motivation to loose weight. I find that you really have to want it to loose it. Don't think of it as dieting either think of it as a health kick or something, but don't stress about it.
I'm glad that you're eating normally again, because as soon as you stop the unhealthy dieting the pounds tend to pile back on again. Also if you're not eating right or skipping meals, your body stores whatever you eat as fat causing you to gain even more weight.
I find it best to eat little and often, that way your metabolism gets working very fast and you burn off more calories. Also remember to eat breakfast because that will kick start your metabolism. But don't eat rubbish snacks either, eat healthy snack foods like carrot sticks etc... in between meals and try to cut down on the amount you put on your plate. And when you notice that you feel full... stop eating, don't eat more just because you don't want to waste what's on your plate.
Mentally I'd say try not to worry too much about how much you weigh. It's how you feel and how you look that matter, not what the scales tell you - Someone can weigh 10st and still look as good as a person who weighs 8st.
p.s. don't forget to reward yourself for being good, that way you have something to look forward to.
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So me and thus guy, Who ive been friends With for a While noW have recently been hanging out alot more.. and yes i do like him.. im just insure if hes into me.. like We flirt constanly and text alot...and today he held my hand! :) but hes one of those guys that one moinute you think hes completly into you.. and the next your completly unsure.. is there any signs or something that i can look for to see if he really likes me? any advice is greatly appriciated! :) (link)
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Hmm this is tricky, he does sound as though he's into you. Usually there's a certain look when you just know that the other person likes you and it's how they act around you. But there's no real way of knowing how he feels about you unless you ask him.
I know it sounds scary, but it's the best way to get the truth from him about how he feels about you. You could get a friend to talk to him, but it would sound a lot better coming from you as getting a friend to talk to him might seem a little immature if you know what I mean.
Also, have you thought about how this could change your relationship? you say that you've been friends for a while... well what if say you started dating and then something happened which made you fall apart, this could make your friendship awkward afterwards, you could end up losing him completely - however, I'm not saying don't go for it, 'cos life is short and you need to take risks, but it's just something to think about.
Hope this helped in some way :)
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like most people, after some time our jeans stretch out and aren't as perfect as they once were.. Is there any way on how to shrink my jeans? Its so stretched at the waist/hips and so it doesnt hug me anymore..
Thanks..
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I too would suggest to put them in the tumble dryer. Keep taking them out every so often to check on them though or they might become too short/small for you!
Or you could try going to a tailer/dress maker where you live to see if they could do anything for you.
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summers here,
and i think i have some
[ewww!]
how do i get rid of it? (link)
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Exercise mainly just to tone up your muscles and try massage that should help. Also try cutting out some of the fat from your diet. and eat healthily. Just be patient and it should disappear soon.
Sarah
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this is from: Falling in love SUX!
i did tell her how i feel, do u mean tell her that i am trying to get over her? i told her the real reson why i am moving is to get away. but i didnt explain it of the REAL reson is to get over her. i want to tell her that but i will hurt her, she might think i am blaming her. i hate it when she is close to me as in leaning and touchy. becuase it messes up my mind about her, if she likes me too or just oddly close to me. i want to think of her as my other friends but my feeling dont let me to. Why is she still close? (link)
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Yer that you're trying to get over her, Might be best. If she's not into you sexually then it shouldn't her feelings too much and she should understand that you need to get over her to live your life and be happy. But you shouldn't just move away because this girl is messing about with your feelings.
You could just tell her not to get too close as it gets your hopes up, just be honest with her and ask her straight out about her feelings.
Hopefully she'll see your point of view and I'm not sure why she's still being touchy feely with you, maybe she's just that kind of person?
But stay postive and hopefully it'll all work out.
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There are days I wish I never meet her, and I wish I never help her from her issues.
But for some reason I was lead to this path to meet her and help her, but why!?
I am in love with my best friend that I know for 8 years. And I am a woman who found out that I am bisexual. I had past relationships with men but they never work out and I never got over her. It’s hard when I try to deny my feeling of her when she is a touchy close person to me. She leans on me and teases too. I know friends do that but she can go too far on being close. She is still very close to me after I told her ho w I felt about her. She was shocked about it and she told me she is fine with it and will still be my friend no matter how I feel in my heart. She doesn’t feel the same way about me and she not ready for a relationship and she isn’t sure what gender she likes her self. I ask her why that is and she said she doesn’t feel any towards to men.
When I try to get over her I just can’t! I cry because I can’t get over her. What should I do?
I am moving to Hawaii with my family and my plan was to never talk to her no more so I can get over her. But she is my best friend and I don’t want to break her heart. What should I do if I see her with someone elus? I won’t handle it well I know it I just wish I can find out what to do.
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Just tell her how you feel, I think that moving away would probably be the best idea and you'll find a new best friend. Just keep her at a distance. That's the only real way to get over someone. If you keep on having her in close proximity, you're not giving yourself a chance to move on from her and find someone else.
When you think you're over her, try talking to her or something and see how you feel. Maybe then you could become better friends again? Hopefully she'll understand.
Hope I helped, Sarah.
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ok so i am 13 and i have an amazing boyfriend, he is really sweet but i went to the movies with him today, we held hands and cuddled and stuff but i all the sudden don't like him and don't no if its just because i'm starting to like someone else or if he just isn't right for me...i mean i was thinking it was just lust but was it more and should i break up with him?? (link)
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You're still young so you have plenty of time to experience other guys.
Think things through properly and don't make any hasty decisions that you may later regret as it could just be a phase thing.
It sounds as though you're moving on, I suggest that you wait and see.
But in the end there's no point in being with someone that you don't want to be with.
Sarah
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if ur boobs r sore, does that mean they r growing? (link)
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Sore boobs can mean that they're growing or it can just be time of the month if you've started your period.
If the pain gets worse, try taking some paracetamol or see a doctor
Sarah
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What are symptoms of breast cancer? Be as detailed as possible. No website links please!! (I'm really squeamish so I don't want any pictures) And I would google it if I wasn't so afraid of getting pictures. Sorry.
Also in a cancerous breast, how does the nipple look? (link)
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Well the most common symptoms of breast cancer are:
-A change in how the breast or nipple feels
-A lump or thickening in or near the breast or in the underarm area
-Nipple tenderness
-A change in how the breast/nipple looks
-A change in the size or shape of the breast
-A nipple turned inward to the breast (inverted nipple)
-The skin of the breast, areola, or nipple may be scaly, red, or swollen. It may have ridges or pitting so that it looks like the skin of an orange
Early breast cancer doesn't cause any pain, But if you are experiencing any of these symptoms, it doesn't always immediately mean cancer, it could be another health problem. But I would visit your GP and they'll be able to diagnose you and then treated.
Hope that helped, oh and I typed in breast cancer into Google and there wasn't any nasty images : )
Sarah
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i keep getting logged out of myspace like every 5 seconds, is this just the site, or is something wrong? help! (link)
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It's probably just the site, it does happen from time to time, where they get a problem and it all goes slow/get signed out. Don't worry about it, it should all be normal next time you go on.
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dose a yeast infection cause you to NOT have your period? (link)
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No a yeast infection won't cause you to miss a period.
A yeast infection is most commonly caused by an imbalance of pH. The change in pH could be due to hormones, oral contraception or antiobiotics.
Sarah
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why do people say to not use petroleum jelly on a tampon if you want to make insertion easier? (link)
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Because it might pass on an infection. You could try using something like tampax compact, they're small and have easy insertion.
Sarah
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i dont know if im depressed but i saw this ( one advicenator put this in her/his answer stating it was 6 major signs of depression)
1-sudden change in eating habits
2-sudden change in weight
3-lack of motivation
4-dont care about self image
5-doesnt care about self anymore
6-doesnt care about others anymore
the problem is that i did gain weight a little, theres lack of motivation in my life but im not gonna comit sucide or anything, i dont care about my self image or the way i dress to school cause i believe im me and i dont need anyone else opinion on things
i have 5 out of 6 of those, am i depressed?
i do care about others(#6) (link)
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You're probably not depressed, all those things could be linked to something else. If you were depressed you wouldn't care about yourself image because you just don't care about the world or anything anymore rather than what other people think of you.
Other symptoms of depression are:
-exhaustion
-anxiety
-scared to be left alone
-no confidence
-loss of hope in life
-physical aches/pains with no direct cause
-difficulty sleeping/waking up
So it is unlikely that you have depression.
If you feel upset, then it could just be hormones or the time of year.
Try doing some exercise, that should boost your mood. Or hanging out with friends, they'll make you laugh.
Find something that you enjoy doing.
Make plenty of "me" time for yourself and surround yourself with the people you love.
Hopefully you'll feel a lot better soon
Sarah
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So I've had my period for over five years and I've never had PMS before. Last month, like a week before I got like really severe mood swings. After like two and a half weeks, they went away. Now they're back again. I went to the doctor last month and she didn't know what was wrong. The mood swings are the only thing I get and it's making my life and relationships really difficult. Any ideas as to what's going on? (link)
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Don't worry it may just be a change in hormone levels or something.
Sometimes I have bad mood swings and other times I don't.
It changes everytime, it's perfectly normal.
You could try some relaxation therapy, like massage or yoga to help with the mood swings. That might help
Sarah
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I've been like a jinx, curse, and bad luck to me and everyone else ever since I was born and i feel so bad about it! I
'm the most smartest and best student in my class everyone says and I'm the most careful but at home it jsut doens't seem that way.
Like I try to be careful and I just amke stuff worse! Liek today for fun I was just going to shock my grandma like a surprise but I forgot that she's really old and when i did she looked liek she was about to have a seizure!
And I was just playing with my sister, jsut for fun. And when she played with me she ran into a tree and now she has a terrible scar liek across her head to remind everyone about it! And it came form an inacent game of tag!
I don't know what to do any more. What's your advice i should do? Should i try to move to some where else to prevent even more worse stuff? (link)
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Aww don't worry about it, everyone goes through clumsy phases, mine seem to be pretty permanent though =/.
You didn't intentionally mean to hurt your family so it's not your fault and you shouldn't feel quilty about it. These things happen. Like they your sister could have run into a tree if you had been playing tag with someone else.
Don't move away, it will grow out of you in time.
Just maybe think a little more before you act, that might help.
Sarah
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