So me and thus guy, Who ive been friends With for a While noW have recently been hanging out alot more.. and yes i do like him.. im just insure if hes into me.. like We flirt constanly and text alot...and today he held my hand! :) but hes one of those guys that one moinute you think hes completly into you.. and the next your completly unsure.. is there any signs or something that i can look for to see if he really likes me? any advice is greatly appriciated! :)
x_s_a_r_a_h_x answered Friday January 29 2010, 8:59 am: Hmm this is tricky, he does sound as though he's into you. Usually there's a certain look when you just know that the other person likes you and it's how they act around you. But there's no real way of knowing how he feels about you unless you ask him.
I know it sounds scary, but it's the best way to get the truth from him about how he feels about you. You could get a friend to talk to him, but it would sound a lot better coming from you as getting a friend to talk to him might seem a little immature if you know what I mean.
Also, have you thought about how this could change your relationship? you say that you've been friends for a while... well what if say you started dating and then something happened which made you fall apart, this could make your friendship awkward afterwards, you could end up losing him completely - however, I'm not saying don't go for it, 'cos life is short and you need to take risks, but it's just something to think about.
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