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Q: should i ask a guy to marry me? becuase I'm so in love with him so bad, we been together for 3 year, i want get married, but should i ask him or wait?

if you love him so much, make sure hes the perfect guy for you, then forget about that stuff about the guy always asking the girl, go for it i alays thought it was cute when i girl asks a guy

Q: ok so im 13...im 115 lbs. and 5'1 .... is that a normal weight for someone like me???? and if not can you please tell me some exercises i can do???
thanx :)

youre alight im 15/m 5'3 and weigh about 115 too

Q: is it bad to not to have a commitment? because i dont have ANY commitment as in i flirt with guys and stuff i cant stick with one guy so thats why i dont want a boyfriend yet im just waiting for a guy who teach me how to love. i havent went out with anyone because of my lack of commitment, because i dont want to hurt them and stuff what do you think of this? im a girl

no its not bad but youre probably scared of a commitment because youre sacred of getting hurt but if you dont take the risk you will never be in one

Q: So we have to run a mile (4 times around a big track) for a time (meaning it's a race!!!) I am not that good a runner...what can i do to get me a good time and not get cramps or out of breath?! help asap! i need it by tomorrow

yeah keep a joging at a certain pace and at the last lap at the end just sprint it,sometimes looking at the lines on the tracks helps, breath in trough youre nose and out trough youre mouth, and always remember to just keep youre legs moving no matter the pain or how dry youre troat feels,

Q: Hey, does anybody know a good site/program where i can download movies and put them on a dvd where i can watch in my actual dvd player? A good quality program/site with a selection to choose from. If not transferable to a dvd, then just where i can watch movies on my computer. I tried peekvid, but the videos never load. Any help?
Thank you very much

This place is pretty good;
http://onlinecinema.org/

this place too:
http://stage6.divx.com/

This Place too:
http://www.bangvideobang.com/

use this program to download videos files from youtube or some of this sites and even music off the web
http://orbitdownloader.com/

Q: 13/f. I know most guys are probably getting so overly annoyed with these questions, but no answers have been directed to me, and I really need to know what a guy likes in a girl. Anything at all would be helpful.I want to know what they like in looks and personality. And how to be less shy around them. Because I'm very very shy. So please please don't hesitate to write anything =/

im 15/m what i like in a girl is pretty simple to have a great personality, pretty and alright body, dosent have to be hot just normal, i dont like girls who are sluty or anything like that, and about you being shy im like that to be when you realy get to know someone or the person you like youll talk more

Q: im friends with two girls who are best friends, stacey and olivia. i met olivia through stacey, and lately i have been hanging out with olivia pretty often. the two are still best friends, though. i don't have a problem with it. stacey called me and wanted to go to a movie, but i said i couldn't because i already made plans with olivia, which i did. she got annoyed. does she have a right to be upset with me because i made plans with her best friend? i invited her, too, but she was mad that i didn't want to do what she was doing.

she feels like youre taking away her bestfriend from her, so in a way yes but mostly thats kinda dome to think that so no

Q: i got this layout that hides my friends apparently. is there a code that can make them show up again?

no but look at the layout code evntualy youll find something thats says something like freinds list hiden or somethin you have to erase that entire part of the code, or you can send it to me ill fix it for you
-israel

Q: i need some help....anyone know of a protection spell against curses?

http://www.luckymojo.com/spells.html this website has tons of spells good luck hope i helped
-israel

Q: Hi to every body.I am from Kuwait
really i m in trouble thats y now a days i m searching internet for my solution. Problem is that i have hairs on my whole pennis. i started using Hair removal cream but after 2 or 3 days my hairs get hard and after two months i will be a married person. if i will shave my whole pennis then it may cause injury in my wife's vagina. Plz can any body help me that how can i get rid of those hairs completely.

trim it with some scissors it wont get rid of the hairs but it make it look like you have alot less hairs, and it wont irritate depending on how small you cut the hairs
-israel

Q: Ive known this guy for like 2 years now. We've been best friends since we first met. Over the time i've fallen in love with him. He says he only loves me as a friend. But, sometimes he acts like he wants to be my boyfriend. Hes starting to confuse me. He'll do anything for me. Hes soo sweet. When I make him mad at me, he'll end up giving in because he hates not talking to me. He says it kills him.
How do I get over him? everytime it seems i do, he draws me back in. Even if i have a boyfriend!

yeah, but since hes youre best feind i woulnd recommend it youll just ruin youre freindship after you break up, it ruined mine evn though i thought i could keep us together even after we break up i couldnt, so i would recommed just keeping youre freindship as it is

Q: 14/f

I just lost my only two friends, and I don't have a boyfriend. So now i truly am alone in the world. (i always have felt that way but now it's 100 times worse)

These ppl where the only two "friends" i ever had, because i can't/don't want to make friends with anyone. THEY initiated this "friendship".

How can I handle this?

i'm bawling my eyes out. I want to commit suicide but i can't because of the pain.

You will always have freinds even though i never met you, i know you can get trough this, im 15/m i hardly have freinds i lost many because of stupid gangs and im always left out of everything with my family sometimes i want to commit suicide to but i dont because i know i got freinds out there or some else that cares about me, i know you said you dont want any freinds but if you change youre mind ill be youre freind just hit me up

myspace.com/1clowny3 my myspace

hope i helped,
§Clowny§

Q: i am giving my boyfriend a gift for our 6 month anniversary and i don't know what to get him! I know for a fact that he is giving me jewelry

i'm already baking him cookies but i also want to do something else for him

i'm 14 and i don't have a job so it cant be something expensive

get a picture frame with a picture of you and him, hope that helps- §Clowny§

Q: ok my friend likes these 2 guys can she CANT pick who to choose so would u please help me. 1 man is evan- whos 2 years younger, hes a cutie and he asked her out twice and she denined him and wishes she didnt and ever since then she loved him for like a year but hes in florida now but hes coming back in middle of july. the only thing is she hasnt seen him in a year and she doesnt kno if he likes her. ok next guy is kevin- who just met her and hes in LOVE with her and obsessed. he cares about her alot and hes a year older. hes a cutie and they just started hanging out. shes torn between both of them and i doesnt know what to do. please help! any advice!? ill love you forever

Kevin is better for her since hes more her age and seems to be closer with her than evan was, but id also say that if she still likes evan more well then f*** how old they are,to wait till he comes back and if he still likes her well to should get together but first handel kevin first woulnd want him to get jealous, but if he dosent just go with kevin

Q: i need a good heading for my myspace. any ideas?? plz & thank you. :)

put some of those little symbols on them i dont know the codes for them but i just copy and paste seem my name is like this §Clowny§ but you can find the codes for them on the web.

Q: I want a drop down menu for my myspace profile but I want it with a black background and colored writing. (Just one fluroescent colour) What site can I use to do that or how can I do it?
Thankyou

http://layoutpimper.com/old_gen.php layout pimper is what i use to make my layouts and pimp my profile is what use to make my contact table
http://www.pimp-my-profile.com/generators/myspace-contact-table.php
check out my myspace to see an exaple of the layouts you can make myspace.com/1clowny3

Q: okay. if a girl say like 13-14 was walking around where a lot of people are, say a carnival or fair. they said hi and waved like losers [haha] and were just trying to get people to say hi..what would you do if they said hi to you? me and my friends were doing it and 2 people said hi, one group gave us a dirty look, 1 person said bye and another person just looked at us..(they were around guys that 14-15) hah just want you opinion. thanks (:

yeah it depends on the people you wave to, everyone will react differently like gangsters (thats how i am) will be like wtf, but others will wave back

Q: I want to gain weight. I'll even take fat.. Any tips? No, I can't just pig out on junk food. It is unhealthy and it does not work because of my high metabolism. Is there certain foods to guarantee weight gain or some pills to take?

I don't really want muscle. I'm kinda bony. I'm 16. 5 feet and I weigh about 85 pounds. i never had an eating disorder. I really want to fill in my curves more. My hips are bony and blah. I really want to feel more confidence in myself.

I can't go see my doctor because she's booked for a while now. I really want to do something over the summer. Help please?

it wont work youre matabolism is to good all you do is get an eating disorder, then if it does work the eating disorder when make you gain waight more than you wanted to, i want to gain weight to but no matter what i eat im still small and skinny

Q: Ok this is kind of long so sorry. well i have this cousin lets call him frank. frank and i are reallllly close we tell each other everything and we have sooo many memories but after he turned 15 he wasn't fun to hang out with anymore and he started calling me names and just being mean to me. and so i finally just decided to stop talking to him. im 14/f btw. i mean he wished that when i went to florida my plane crashed! ridiculus right???? well the thing is we used to talk on the phone for like 3 hours everyday and we were like each others diaries and he keeps sending me emails guilting me so i will forgive him but he makes me sad. should i forgive him? or should i just forgive him so i can talk to him? I havent talked to him in a week and a half and im a wreck! how do i get over him? i just need advice! and im on vacation with my family so i cant just hang out with friends.

yaeh you should forgive him but you also have to tell him how you feel about him telling you that stuff, after all he is family and family shouldn't fight they should always stick together
.:CLWONY:.

Q: it's going to be long, but please read; i'm desperate!
i'm jackie. 14/f. i was best friends with this girl "jaime". then she just started being a bitch. i knew who she liked, so at this party, i started flirting with "joseph" and his friends. but, they turned me down! they just walked away! so i went and had some fondu and everything was better. but my question is: what's wrong with me? is it because i have kankles? a big nose? helpppp!!!!!!!

its not you or youre freckels or the way you look its just pobably them or youre personality

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Im israel 15/m im not new but i hardly come here anymore only when i need advice or in the mood to give advice, well theres not much else to say i like girls who are nice cute, great personality and hate girls who are kinda sluty or when someone tries to act all tough or something like that, either way i would never hurt a girl or id feel like shit inside and regret it all the time. well any questions or if you like to get to know me hit me up, -bye
-israel