Ok this is kind of long so sorry. well i have this cousin lets call him frank. frank and i are reallllly close we tell each other everything and we have sooo many memories but after he turned 15 he wasn't fun to hang out with anymore and he started calling me names and just being mean to me. and so i finally just decided to stop talking to him. im 14/f btw. i mean he wished that when i went to florida my plane crashed! ridiculus right???? well the thing is we used to talk on the phone for like 3 hours everyday and we were like each others diaries and he keeps sending me emails guilting me so i will forgive him but he makes me sad. should i forgive him? or should i just forgive him so i can talk to him? I havent talked to him in a week and a half and im a wreck! how do i get over him? i just need advice! and im on vacation with my family so i cant just hang out with friends.
Israelb13 answered Monday June 25 2007, 2:06 pm: yaeh you should forgive him but you also have to tell him how you feel about him telling you that stuff, after all he is family and family shouldn't fight they should always stick together
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whatsherface answered Monday June 25 2007, 1:15 pm: Yeah, I think you should forgive him. I mean, if you were like best friends for most of your life I'm pretty sure you can go through this little phase he's going through. You might get a little more distant, but he'll still always be there. And when he gets over the phase of calling you names/ and putting you down, you can get back to normal. [ whatsherface's advice column | Ask whatsherface A Question ]
nikitathecheetah answered Monday June 25 2007, 12:36 pm: yeah he's your cousin you should forgive him and tell him how you fell. tell him that you didn't like how he was being mean to you and that he should never do it again.
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