about

my name's leticia. [le-tee-see-a]. i'm here to give you truthful, honest answers & nothing more. i don't like to sugar coat the truth because that doesn't really end up helping you out. so yeah. if any of my answers offend, make you angry, sad, etc. well then.. oh well. i was just being honest. aside from that, i hope i can help you on whatever you need help with. :)!

but! yes. i'm sixteen. i go to a crappy school with crappy people who complain a lot. i'm really sarcastic & i love humor. funny people make me go like this :D

advice

Ok so there's this kidd in my summer school class and i dont know anyone in that class but he started talking to me and every class he talks to me and one time he sat next to me and said i'm gonna sit next to you cause your my friend he sat next to me when he could have sat anywhere else in the classs near the people he know's but then the teacher made him move to his actual seat and he was like ahhhh man does anyone think he likes me

he could like you,
or he could be like you were & not know anyone and he just stuck to you like glue.
that happened to me, it freaked me out.

BUT, don't freak out :]
he probably does like you.
don't assume things to quickly though.

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I am having daily "cumlike" smelling discharge from my vagina, should I be worried? and what may be causing this? I am 49, no kids, do not dink, but used to, and smoke about 1/2 pack a day.........

yeah, this happened to my mom, too.
she ended up having an infection.
so you should probably have that checked out.

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i'm 25 have a problem with letting go as i'm scared of pissing the bed when having intercourse with partner. i've never had the experience of a orgasam as my ex used to blow all the time. my new partner is getting upset with me cause i wont let go and he think's he is the problem and i tell him that it's me not him which is true. i go to the bathroom before intercourse and even when i first used a vb, and i get the smell of urine [after i think is a orgasam],using the vb when i'm home by myself. if anyone can help me with my fear that will make my realationship better, or if i'm doing it properly.

you really should just tell your partner why you're nervous about having sex.

don't be embarrassed.
i doubt he'd ever laugh @ you or make you feel bad in any way :)

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I get really bad razor burn on my legs. I use shaving cream and lotion and everything, but I still get it...

Anyone have any suggestions?

your legs are probably cracked & dry. my little sister had this problem. try applying more lotion onto your legs.

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See this is my first time of getting married. You see my parents have done everything to get this wedding on the ball since it is next month. But she thinks it should be all about her, I don't want to be a bad niece but I don't want to have someone that is gonna be taking the pictures to try to ruin my day just because she isn't involved in every little bitty thing we do in the wedding. She thinks that me and my sister in law(Matron of Honor) going out for a Bacholorette Party is so bad that she should be involved. But she isn't a drinker, she's a very negative person and I don't want that while we're trying to have a good time. Plus she's a nark. I can't deal with this anymore, please if anyone can give me better advice than talking to her about it I'd really appreciate it. Thanx.

uh, talking to her about it is the BEST advice. because it's really the best thing you can do.

don't just push her away, you'll hurt her feelings. cuz she's probably only trying to help.

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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.

Thanks so much to you all.

you could put the kid up for adoption once you have it, although you never know where you placed the kid after you put him up for adoption. you could have set him/her into a worse way of living than what you could've given it. it's really your decision. if you feel you're not capable of taking care of a kid right now, then maybe you should have an abortion. talk to your family, see what they have to say. don't end your career goals because of one night.

ps! be more careful when you're going out to a bar :)

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Does anyone know anything that provides the same things as Limewire? All I need is a place where I can download music.

And not Ares, please.


Thanks in advance!

don't use kazaa, bear share, or winmx. they suck, a lot.

why don't you use limewire?
it's greeat.

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i am not sure this category fits, but its the best i could choose..sorry

okay..so im a 15/f...almost 16 in october..

i have always lacked self-confidence, and i think i am really ugly and fat..but everyone always tells me im hott, but i honestly dont get it. when i look in the mirror i hate what i see..
i dont know if me being REALLY fat last year has anything to do with it. i lost over 40 pounds, but i still feel fat, even though i am in the healthy weight range, and i also have double d's, if that has any effect.

so i was wondering what i could do to make myself feel better? should i lose more weight? or what? any advice helps, and please be honest! thanks!


here is my myspace, if you wanted to see a picture of me..
myspace.com/THISisWHYimHOTTdoubleD

yeah, if you had no confidence when you were "fat", then that could be it.

just open up more, look at all the things you like about yourself and put those above the things you hate.

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how come whenever i get the mail, theres like most of the time, always a dog staring at me out the window, and it barks as i walk? that same dog has been doing that for ages and for everyone who walks by their house. and next door like twice THEIR dog did the same thing. do all dogs do this? why do they wait by the window alot anyways? i dont get it..

dogs like to protect their owners.
so if they see someone coming to their house whom they've never seen go into their house before, they will bark.

just like, if you saw someone coming to your house you would look out the window to see who it was :)

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My chocolate phone is broken, for like the 2390283 time this month. Its so cheap, I hate it, and I am going to do whatever it takes to get a new phone.

I have verizon wireless. No, I can't switch. What phone would you reccomend? If you have a new verizon phone, like the ones that are still avalible, please let me know what it is, and the pros and cons. Thanks.

:]

i don't think the chocolate phone is cheap. i've had mine since semptember and nothing has happened to it.
you must've gotten a crappy one, or maybe you don't handle it right.

but anyways, i agree with Rob too. go for a simple phone. unless you like all the fancy stuff, then.. go to one of the stores & look around, see what you like. ask about the phone first though, so you don't end up in the same situation.

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My ex-friend, Dylana, is so annoying! Somebody on this site said I wasn't a real friend just because I got mad at her for simple things! Do you call copying my every move, stealing, can't take a tiny joke simple things? I don't. Now, all she wants is a freaking pity party that I'm being invited to! I don't like Dylana at all. Everybody takes her side! If you were her friend you'd be blowing a gaskit too! I mean come on! Dylana says she never does anything bad. She does! I mean what the F is up with that?! I get a lot of attention that I don't want. She gets attention she wants, but doesn't deserve. I'm mad because she thinks that a real friend always says yes to her, kisses her freaking feet, does her every biding and what?! She likes to be pitied! I really don't like her, but I don't hate her. Hate is too strong of a word. Anyway, can somebody help me with this girl? I don't want to be her friend because I've already forgiven her... 88 million times! Anything will help! Thanx!

tell her to go away and leave you alone.
no use sticking around with someone you don't like.
they'll just make you all unhappy and negative.

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ok so its summer break and i am a future sophmore. last night i forgot to throw away the garbage and my mom got mad. she told me that i am not going out with my friends anymore because i dont listen to her. its boring here in my house. she said that i am grounded for the whole summer! i hate her. she just wants to ruin my life. i cant go out anymore becasue i forgot to throw away the garbage?! im so mad right now. what am i going to do i cant stay here for the whole summer its so boring. i told her i was sorry and that i forgot and now she wont even talk to me. she tells me that i am so lazy because i only want to be with my friends. but i help around the house i do! and when she sees me on the computer she gets mad and says thats the only thing i do. theres nothing else to do here. and when i tell her im bored and to please let me out she gets mad and says "no youre not going out. clean if your bored!" as if thats fun for a 15 year old girl. she wont even let me out. its so boring here. i dont know what to do anymore. help me please anything is helpful.

wow, that sucks.
wait till she's happy one day & talk to her.
tell her that grounding you for the WHOLE summer because of some trash isn't fair.

..wait till she's happy though.
my mom's pretty much the sme way, ..well, sort of.
but yeah. talking to her works, always.

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well does size really matter, i mean honestly its always love, understanding and respect that plays a major role in ,love and sex, and eventhough if size is not that great to boast of, but one is good in providing pleasure to the other person.....tell me would still size matter.
what are the other way of satisfying?

yeeah, i agree with everyone below me.
size doesn't matter unless you're some weird whore who loves big penis.

but when you're in love, it really shouldn't. and if it does, .. you're weird.

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basically i suck at holding a conversation. whenever i talk to someone, i come up short for things to talk about. and when i do talk, its usually about something boring lol. so what im asking is for advice on how to create conversation and keep it going so im not boring. thank you!

talk about stuff you like, see if they're interested. then they'll talk about stuff they like. & bam, conversation.

sometimes it's the person.
either they just suck.
or you have nothing in common, so the conversation would be awkwardly silent. :)

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i'm 15 and have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months. i love my boyfriend but i also love it when other guys look at me. like, i have no intention of thinking of them in romantic ways, or even knowing the person, i just like being looked at. is that wrong?

.. no, that's not wrong.

i'm trying really hard to figure out a way in which that would be wrong, but i can't.

so it's not :D

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Im starting a new school next year.
Im 16/f. Im pretty shy :) Any advice on making new friends and being more confident?

if you're afraid of introducing yourself to people, just talk a lot in class. as in, answer questions, volunteer etc. it'll make you feel a lot more comfortable speaking out in that class.

keep your head up high. don't look down at your feet. makes you appear confident.

and if you WANT to introduce yourself to people, just say your name.. and hi, of course. just don't worry so much about what people will think of you. they don't know you, so it really shouldn't matter. :)

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I'm going to high school next year, What are all the things I need?

It's better to ask here then ask like the secretary when they're not even real students.

Thanks.

or you could try asking people who already go to that school & see what you need. because you know, all schools are different. :)

usually you need something to stuff your books in, paper, writing utencils, some friends. transportation to & from school. a good attitude! :P um, yeah. books.

they'll eventually tell you in school what you need, but for the first day.
take a pencil.. and a piece ofpaper.

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o.k thers this guy that goes to my school and i kinda jus met him last year!well he works at the school durin summer with the janitors and i tink he lkes me! i meen ive been workin on the lokers at school for lke the past two weeks and hes been kinda flirty! well 2day he was really flirty! i meen evry tme he passed me he would cme up 2me and lke mess with me! he would lke pull my chair(it was on wheels!) and then he cme ova 2me and pretended 2 put soda on me and the he fliked water at me then when i was sittin down and he thought i didnt see him he threw a sock at me!it missed though!o yeah and monday i was nocken on the middle school door cus i couldnt get in and he cme to let me in and right before he opened the door he 'checked me out'. i meen he lke looked at me lke guys would look at grls if they thought there were sexy or sumtin!i think he mouthed god d@#$ but im not sure. i was wearin a t-shirt that hugged my curves with a jean skirt.it was a really cute outfit! i looked really 'grly'.but i was lke o my jeeze did he jus giv me 'the look'!well i think he lkes me but im still not sure. i meen alot of the signs r there but i cud b wrong!i lke him and hes beyond cool but then again hes a up cumin senior and i have a bf(its nothin serious+im not gonna cheat on him) and hes 18 and im an up cumin 9th grader!i tink if he does lke me i kinda wanna go wit him wen school starts! do u tink that would b bad!?!is it legal? i dont know wut 2do ir say!!!!HELP

good lord reading that made my eyes hurt. try spelling better, you might get more answers to your questions.

anyways, if you have a boyfriend.. why are you saying you want to go out wth this eighteen year old? & i don't think it's ILLEGAL unless you have sex with him. but yeah. if you have a boyfriend i do think it's bad t go out with someone else. i'm sure everyone would..

:) ask him if he likes you. be up front.

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ok so like about a week ago my boyfriend broke up with me and i have been haging out with my friends alot latley and some are boys and my mom thinks im boy crazy because i have a couple guys friends? what can i do to get her to stop acting like that. cause im not boy crazy i just have guy friends that i hang out with and i would never like that way.

lol.
all girls are boy crazy, just tell your mom to lighten up. she was probably boy crazy too when she was younger. she'll eventually get over it. in the mean time, ignore her. :)

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I'm 14/F and chinese. I don't have the straight black hair. After showers, I love my hair. It's curly and very pretty. When it dries up...its like a sponge...it's all dried up and huge! Normally I just put it in a ponytail...that's all I can do! I have bangs which are to my chin...Not a lot of bangs but med. amounts of hair...if you understand. When I straighten my hair...it's still kind of big but not as big so I tend to put it in a half pony tail.
My question is...what can I do to my hair?

try scrunching it up with gel/mousse after you shower. or curly it with a curling iron. buy bedhead products to keep your hair less frizzy. bed head works great with hair! my hair is a big frizzbball after it dries too, and products do help. just don't go overboard. but scrunching your hair up to give it that wet curly look always works. :)

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