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HOW I LOOK..
i am not sure this category fits, but its the best i could choose..sorry
okay..so im a 15/f...almost 16 in october..
i have always lacked self-confidence, and i think i am really ugly and fat..but everyone always tells me im hott, but i honestly dont get it. when i look in the mirror i hate what i see..
i dont know if me being REALLY fat last year has anything to do with it. i lost over 40 pounds, but i still feel fat, even though i am in the healthy weight range, and i also have double d's, if that has any effect.
so i was wondering what i could do to make myself feel better? should i lose more weight? or what? any advice helps, and please be honest! thanks!
here is my myspace, if you wanted to see a picture of me..
myspace.com/THISisWHYimHOTTdoubleD
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yeah, if you had no confidence when you were "fat", then that could be it.
just open up more, look at all the things you like about yourself and put those above the things you hate.
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Grab a piece of paper and sit in front of a mirror. Write down everything you like about yourself, physically and personailty wise. Read this list over once a day or whenever you feel down about yourself. It's a great exercise and it really works.
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I don't get the point of this question honestly. From the picture, all I can see is your face. It doesn't look as though you have multiple chins, so losing weight might not be THAT important but I'd need a full body picture to actually answer that.
You say you're "queen of the double d's" so obviously you must have SOME confidence in yourself because most girls don't brag about boob size on myspace unless they are conceited.
Anyways.. If you're in the healthy weight-range YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY. Most people can't even lose 20 pounds, so you should be happy about your goal. It wasn't easy losing all that weight so feel proud that you accomplished something that difficult. Don't ask people if you're pretty because usually people will be nice and say yes.
I'd say, forget about the whole weight loss thing because if you already lost 40 pounds, it seems like your doing pretty good. You can still exercise every day and eat well, but don't obsess over it. Make sure you don't slack off though because you'll gain it all back. Okay, I'm going off track. I wanted to say that if you wanna make yourself feel better you have to gain self confidence. Instead of noticing the BAD stuff about you, think about everything good. Your hair is gorgeous and your eyes are pretty. Maybe even write down everything you're good at, and what's good about your appearance. Try different make up, get another piercing, dye your hair, get your nails done... just try something new to make you feel good about yourself. I used to think "ugh I'm an ugly freak" but then I dyed my hair, tried new make up techniques, and got acrylic nails and I feel good about myself. It's okay to pamper yourself!
Just be happy with what you have because I don't judge girls, but I'm saying.. you're NOT ugly. Some people are huge, or have big noses or small ears, so feel good you're not them. When you go out with your friends, take a look around at other people and notice that some aren't as lucky as you. I know you're thinking "shut up you corny bitch" but it's true.
So to sum it up, to make you feel good try something new to make you look different (I listed some things above) and realize that some people only have 1 leg so you have it good. Also, about your weight.. you look fine to me but I can't see you but even if you're 80 pounds, if you don't keep up on exercising EVERY day and eating things like fruits and salads, you'll gain everything back. Don't obsess over it, but don't be too leaned back either.
-Candace
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I'm going to be honest with you, not that I would normally lie anyways. Usually I'm very open minded to questions, but questions like these anger me. I'll try my best to answer your question fairly.
1. I hope you're not starving for attention. Asking people on an advice sight what they think of you is not going to build your confidence. Most people are just trying to be polite.
2. Focus on your positives, obviously you have big boobs; you've mentioned it alot. So, be proud of those. Be proud of your weight loss. Don't focus on the negatives.
Now I'm not going to tell you how beautiful you are, and I'm not going to point out any flaws either. This is an advice sight, not an opinion column. Stop listening to what people think of you, focus on yourself and your own thoughts. Dress as you like, act as you like. Try new things and push yourself out of your comfort zone to increase your confidence. If you still feel you are unhealthy and fat, exercise and eat better. Just don't go to extremes to lose the weight.
I hope my honesty won't affect your approval of my answer.
Good Luck<3
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Your pretty to me.
You might still be struggling with your weight issues from back then.
You should focus on not wanting to be like that nomore not what you look likw now.
Should you lose more weight? Thats a hard question to answer considering your whole body cant be seen on your profile is private.
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