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Candace Rae- the topic of everyone's coversations. Keep my name in your dome & out of your mouth. :] My parents were blessed on March 31st, 1994. I'm 13 years young, but I stride to act mature but it's not usually easy. I'm a good time. I'm a learning wakeboarder and my longest record of staying on the board is 13 seconds. WOOHOO! My second home is the soccer field, no lie. If I'm listening to hip-hop/rap/r&b I'm usually happy. Try to take my music away from me & see what happens. I can't stand people who haven't listened to 2 minutes of my music & assume it's negative. I will speak my mind until I knock some sense into them. Anyways I live in New England so I'm at the beach A LOT. Don't be stupid and ask if I live in England because I will tell you to pay more attention in geography class. I'm the type of girl who'd wear Red Sox clothes to a Yankee Game. Now let's see you top that, biotch.I have a problem with liars & ditchers. I also have a problem with people who diss soccer. Soccer is the national sport in every country except the United States. Yeah foo' I think that speaks for itself.
I love love love Dunkin Donuts. Yummy! Coconut iced coffee & Tropical Fruit Smoothies make my day. Speaking of things I love, Abercrombie and Fitch is definitely one of them. I have a Sidekick and I treat it like my baby. It comes with me everywhere and that's the way I like it. =)
Ima huge flirt & if I see a hot guy, I'll go up to them and say "I'd tap that, bang that, slap that." Haha I don't care. [:
I tend to cause a scene.... EVERYWHERE. =]
Ask me for advice, I promise I won't give you the answer you want to hear. I'll do my best to help you though.
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Anyone have any tips on getting more ungrossed out with doing stuff with a guy that involves his penis? Cause its not like i dont want to do stuff with him, its just like..i dont like penises. i find them gross. so we'll dry hump and grab/touch each other but i want to do more but i dont like the thought of touching his bare penis. can someone tell me how to get over that? thanksss. ill rate high!
It's obvious that you're either too young to be doing that stuff or mentally, you're just not ready. If that stuff grosses you out, why would you do it? Just wait until that kinda stuff DOESN'T gross you out, and that's when you know you're ready. Jeeze, just don't rush that kinda stuff. You want it to be enjoyable right? Not only for your boyfriend, but for YOU too. Wait please, you'll be thanking me one day.
=]
Are exercises like donkey kicks going to eventually make my butt look bigger?
My butt is so small, it looks terrible in jeans.
Also, what other exercises can I do for this?
Stuffing your face with twinkies is a good exercise if you want a larger butt.
Other than that, your butt ain't gonna get any bigger, sorry hun. If gaining 20 pounds isn't your "thing" then you're out of luck.
=]
I'm 22F, and I've been having sex with my boyfriend of several months for about a fortnight. Unfortunately the sex has been a little rocky because he is very jealous about my past. I believe this is an ego thing - I have been with 3 other guys, he has been with around 20 other girls, yet he is the jealous one - go figure!
Anyway, the way he likes to do things in bed is weirding me out a bit, and I was wondering if any of you can tell me if I'm just inexperienced and this is "normal" or if I'm right to feel this way.
The sex starts pretty normally, kissing and foreplay. He tends to put my hands on his penis - I'm a bit shy - and it goes from there. He likes giving me oral sex, and I, him. Then the actual sex starts, and things seem to go downhill. He is the first person I've been with who doesn't seem to want me to *do* anything during sex (is this usual?). Despite his experience and apparent confidence, he has problems holding on (which I suppose is a compliment?). He can go for about 30 seconds to a minute before he has to pull out, breath for a bit, then go again. I try to be supportive and show that I don't mind, but secretly, I find it frustrating. During the sex, he won't look me in the eyes (he never has problems holding eye contact normally). Usually he comes after about 5 minutes, with no warning. The only reason I know that he's come is because he stops pumping (sorry, this is getting graphic!!) and he never shows any pleasure from orgasm.
We usually go through this about three times a night, each session as short. He usually initiates sex but I never refuse - I want to try and make it work. Sometimes (often the third time) he won't come from sex - instead he pulls out, then puts my hand on his penis, or asks for a blow job to finish him off. This is the bit I REALLY don't understand. I thought sex was supposed to be way more pleasurable for guys than blowjobs or handjobs - why does he suddenly want these instead of sex? I don't mind giving him a blowjob (I want him to be happy), but obviously I get nothing sexual out of it, so that's the end of any pleasure for me.
Also, I have never been able to orgasm from sex (or any stimulation that doesn't involve a vibrator, actually), and I told him this at the start of our sexual relationship. This was a mistake, I think, because he doesn't even try with me, or see that I'm quite sexually frustrated. So he gets to orgasm 3, 4, 5 times a day, and I never get to, and he doesn't seem to care....
SIGH! Any comments would be appreciated!
Damn girl looks like all he wants is for HIM to get the pleasure and he doesn't care about you. He's being self-centered & rude. Tell him how you feel. Obviously you've been doing so much for him and having sex whenever he wants to but tell him YOU want pleasure too. Ask if you can try sex a different way and tell him the way it feels good for YOU. If he won't care then leave the bitch. Haha.
You gotta tell him. If I was telling him I would say "when scientists discover the CENTER of the world, don't be surprised when it isn't you." Haha, you probably get that but maybe if you said that to him jokingly he might get that there's a problem. Next time he wants sex, tell him what YOU want, and how YOU want to be pleasured. Be firm and let him know it's bothering you or it will never change.
=) Peace, love, Candace.
My soccer team nEeDs a new cheer. make it cute
here are some hints:
-our colors are blue & yellow or white
-our name is Twisters
PS we r girlss
thanks :)
This is probably really retarded but here it is..
GO BLUE, GO WHITE, FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!!
Haha that's what our team uses. Hope you like it.
My Mom keeps saying she's leaving. She's so selface and blames everything on me. Jason and Scott( my brothers) ones a drunk the other can't hold a job do nothing wrong and when they do they shuve it onto me. I got an air conditioner and I have to share my room with My brother Jason. He broke my alarm clock, my light, destroyed my favorite books and I just want to go a night without crying. Im 14 I want my own room.. he messing with my pads and tampons, whips my bra's at me so I kicked him out and he broke my door! And they dont even care..
My cousin Laura said a while ago when she got her new apartment Id always have a place to stay. She lives 2 towns away tho how am I gunna get there? ANd she has a kid anda boyfriend and a life that and at the moment Jason and Her both work at the same place so It wouldnt me like its a secrete I live with her and my Mom might flip if she knows Im planning on leaving. She wants to so why cant I. Im thinking about walking there.. I have a bank accont with some money in it.. but Ive saved up and Its not really my money I have a neighbor I grew really close with and shes dont alot for me and her names carolyn. Shes already said she would take me in, but my Mom would like call the cops about a runaway and get Carolyn in trouble and I wont let that happen so I was thinking that because I was with family maybe my Mom can't do that. I know I cannot stay with Laura long, she has her own life, and I would only be getting in the way. Shes kinda understanding but I was never really close with her but she offered so If i ask about spending a couple nights to get away from the family.. I cant stay with friends, not a lot of them because If my family doesnt ask questions there going too and I dont want my problems pawned off to other people.. So if i pack a bag I have a cell so anyone could call me but running away doesnt solve anything.. And my dad basicly blames me for my Mom wanting to leave. This is long but is there anyway that if i ask laura to spend a couple nights to get away and id babyset, clean do laundry for her all for free...if my Mom can get her in trouble i wouldnt want that soo PLEAse I dont need that happening so If someone who answers this is a cop Id love that : ) or just give your opinion on the madder on how I can slove this.. I dont have a talking relationship with my Mother never have never will so please dont say just talk to her because I tried that and it didnt work!My family doesnt care about me, there selface and want only there way so they would to things in spite and to hurt me (not really a family I knoww)
Please give your opinion and im sorry this is so long but i havent gone a night in about maybe sence school closed without crying.. so anything is helpful! Thank you!!
Aw hun I feel so bad for you. I'm not in a situation like this so I don't know how to answer.
I almost always say, running away will get you no where, but if you wanna just stay with your cousin for a few nights to clear your mind & get away from your life, then I say there's no problem with that. But don't stay there for a long time. If you don't tell your parents they're gonna flip when they see that you're gone. And then they will get all pissed & call the police & make matters worse. I don't think your cousin will get in trouble, but I'm not a police officer so I really don't know. You need to tell either your mom or dad (I don't know who's easier to deal with) that you need to spend a few nights with your cousin. That way they know your gone and won't call the police & start drama.
I know you probably think "I can't TELL them I'm leaving," but you can. You can't walk 2 towns away! That's ridiculous. You could get kidnapped, raped, or a bunch of other stuff. And if your parents don't like you (those were your own words) then wouldn't they be glad that you were leaving for a few days??
Well, I have to go so you can take my advice, it doesn't matter. Just remember if you don't tell them it's considered running away and you run the risk of getting in trouble with your parents and the police.
-Candace
13/f hi, i'm in need of some help. well, firstly i like this guy and i've liked him since the 6th grade. i was very positive he liked me since then too.(i'm going to the 9th grade now) i didnt really start hanging out with him until 8th grade.(because i didn't even know his name in 6th grade, and he was on another team. then i went to stay with my mom in florida for 7th grade) well anyways, we became friends and all since he was in my class and his uncle was in my class in 6th grade... to the point now. He moved on october 6, 2006 and the last time i saw him was october 18, 2006. i talked to him on the phone about a month ago. and he's going to a different school than i am. currently, i am in florida with my mom for summer, and i have to choose which parent i want to live with for the next four years of highschool. if i lived with my dad i'd be closer to my guy and i'd have all my friends and i'd be going to a top school. if i stayed with my mom i'd have to meet new people all over again and i wouldn't be looking very forward to it since i don't have a very stable childhood. (i keep moving.) but i kind of want to meet some new people. and my mom is a female, so yeah. i've never really had a stable boyfriend, the longest was a week and that was in 5th grade the only time i've ever had a boyfriend! i'm rambling now sorry.
so here are my questions.
1.) should i call the guy again and ask if he likes me?
2.) where should i stay?
You're in a tough situation so I'll try my best to answer this...
1. You definitely should call that guy and see if he likes you. Why? Because if you've liked him for 3 years it's obvious that it's not just a "crush." I usually can't like a boy more than a WEEK! And if you choose to go with your mom, you won't have to regret not finding out how he feels. The worst that could happen is that he says no. Just call him up and ask!! If you move, you might not have that chance again.
2. I don't know what it's like where you live or the people you live near so I can't tell you where to go. It's up to you. Don't put this decision in my hands because it could effect your whole life... You should make a list and put the bad and good things about staying with your dad and the bad good things about staying with your mom. If you love your friends to death and can't see yourself being away from them, then maybe you should just stay with your dad. The boy you like should have nothing to do with your decision of staying or going because relationships don't usually last more than 6 months to a year and if you guys do go out, you're most likely going to break up so it's not worth basing your decision on him. I'm sorry to be negative, but it's the truth. Anyways.. do you wanna stay with the people you love or meet new people? Do you care about going to a top school or not? Ask yourself these questions. I understand what you mean about wanting to live with a female. It's easier to communicate and moms are more understanding about things. Okay, so really all I can say is follow your guts. If there's more good things than bad with staying with your dad, than stay with him and vice versa. Do NOT base your decision because of the guy. It's too big of a decision to base it on a boy that you don't even know if he likes you!
Just make that good things and bad things list. It really works.
If you need anything else just ask.
-Candace
i need a new screename
my name is nicole
and i like it simple
xx NICOLES ON
yay nicoles on x
xo nikki ox
coleyyyyy x0
0mG nicolez 0n
nikkisURaddiction
That's all I could come up with.
Hope you like them.
i have a group of friends we're like 16,17 years old.
some boys, some girls.
we're going to go away on vacation.
where?
anywhere in the u.s thats cute and fun.
i thought of disney and hershey, but i kinda want a place that like 4 to a room can stay, even more. we dont care.
where can we go?
i thought of seaside n.j, but we need things to do.
any ideas?
Hershey Park is my favorite park ever. There's SO much to do and it's very big. I stayed at a hotel about a minute away from Hershey Park and it was a Marriott and the room was booked for 4 people. If you have like 6 people you might need 2 rooms, I don't know.
NYC is so fun too! I go to Canal Street every year and they sell the knockoff purses like Coach, Dooney, Chanel for $40.
Hm, and the other place I would choose is Atlantic City. You can go on the Boardwalk and they have tons of shops & malls & restaurants. It's a good time.
Disney World in Orlando, Florida is always a classic. So is Hollywood.
Canobie Lake New Hampshire was surprisingly fun. It sounds like a small amusement park but it's good-sized and the Corkscrew roller coaster is the BEST. It's pretty cheap too.
Make sure you find somewhere that fits your budget! Have fun. =)
i hate soccer
I love soccer.
im a female and 18 years of age
i lived with my mom from the time i was born until i was 13. then i went to live with my adopted dad because was a physically and emotionally abusive person. well, when i was 17 (i am 18 right now) i went to visit her and her husband, which is my step dad, because i thought maybe she had changed. what happened was she abused me again, and cut me with a knife. also, she let my step dad try to rape me while she helped. even though all this happened, i still have feelings for her and i feel bad getting her in trouble. is that wrong? should i go through with the court and press charges?? some good, honest advice would be really helpful.
Hun, I know she's your mom and you love her, but come on. She really needs help and if you tell on her, hopefully she'll get some help. She deserves to suffer because she made you suffer. If she's helping your step dad rape you then hmmm, don't you think she just doesn't care about you?! I know it may be hard to believe but she has no right to abuse you. Call 911 right now and get proof that she hurt you and show the bruises. She could have killed you with the knife!!! I mean seriously, she obviously has some problems (no offence.) Bottom line- if she was my mom I don't know HOW I could love her, but if you still care about her, you still need to help. Maybe they will get her help but she'll definitely face time in jail. Just please tell! You really don't deserve this. You do the crime, you pay the time...
Hey Dudes & Dudettes ,
Is it possible to go out with your ex again ? After you like dated 3 times already..?? Because everyone tells me that me and my ex are so cute together and that hes the perfect guy for me.. and I was wondering because I still REALLY like him.. is there any ways to get him back ? Please help.
Thank you so much.
Betty.
Um, yeah you can go out with him again if you really want to and he likes you. If he still likes you I say go for it, unless he cheated on you. What made you guys break up? Did he cheat? Or did you cheat? Or did you guys just wanna be friends? If he cheated, he'll probably cheat again so don't go out with him again. But if he's trustworthy and you really like him a lot, sure go out with him. =) If you need to get him back make him jealous and kiss another guy in front of him. =)
I've been getting this clear like goo stuff in my underwear (i think it's called discharge?)
well I know it happens before your period... but how early? like how long does it take for your period to begin after that?
14/f
It could be anywhere from 2 days to 2 and a half weeks. It's different for everyone. I usually get discharge a week before my period. There's no specific time, but keep pads around because you could get it any time.
=)
ok here it goes i am 15/f and well i think i could be pregnant i don't know for sure but i have no clue what i would do if i found out for sure that is all i think about lately but what would i do my family well we already have family problems the way it is right now and a baby would just ruin my family and i wouldn't be able to go to school where i go now because i couldn't dare listen to what people have to say about it i don't know what to do and how to cope with it um lets see if i was pregnant abortion is out of the question and adoption would be way to hard to do maybe i should just take a pregnancy test but i don't know how to get one without anyone asking questions
If it's been 2 weeks after having sex, take a pregnancy test. No one will find out, it's all a secret. Don't talk to your family or boyfriend about it until you're definitely sure you're pregnant.
If you didn't use a condom, you have a good chance of being pregnant.
Be more careful next time! You're still young.
-Candace =]
i dont no but this is how it went me and b.f were hanging out the hole day and it was fun nothing was wrong untill this evening this feeling came over me like i didnt care about what happend to me ..im 14/f and it was really weird cuz my b.f kept asking are you ok and all i cant say is yea i was smilling walking i dont no what was happening and he asked what am i thinking about and i answered " how lucky i am to have you " he said something but i wasnt paying attention ..im sroyy if its to long but i no it has nothing to do with him i just dont knoe why i was acting like that and when we came home i went upstairs and went on the computer and then i got to my normal self like i was asking my slef wat was wrong with me??? and my b.f spent like 30 minutes sitting outside just staring on the street ...i dont no wat it was plz help !!!
sorry if it was to long but i will really appreiciate all the answers ..thanx !!!
Haha, I think you were just so over excited to be with your boyfriend and didn't know what to do with him. Most people don't have a nice boyfriend like you, so it's okay to feel lucky. Next time just try to act normal because he doesn't know what you're smiling about. But yeah, it's not a huge problem. It just means you're in love or close to it.
I really want to go to Brown U. in Rhode Island. I read once that theres about a 10% chance of getting in. I'm only going to be a sophomore in high school in the fall but I'm pretty interested in colleges already. The only problem is that I dont think I am smart enough to get in. I get A's and B's and I think my GPA is 3.4, but it might be like 3.5 or 3.6 but I don't know for sure. (Our school doesn't do our GPA's until senior year I think so I calulated online one day and thats what I came up with.) I'm not too involved with school, I'm going out for a sport next year, don't know if I'll make it though, and then I might join a club or two.
If I continue to get all A's and B's is there a possibility of getting in by the time i apply?
If you think I probably wont get in, what other colleges would you recommend? (I live in the northeast, but I'm willing to go almost anywhere.)
Thank you in advance.
I live in Rhode Island and my dad went to Brown U. I asked him and he said his GPA was 3.4 and he got in pretty easily. They will also look at SAT scores so if you did high on that you could get in. Also, playing sports or participating in any activity outside of school will help you get into almost any college. When you're applying just make sure you mention you're a hard worker and you always get the job done and they will probably let you in. Your grades seem pretty good because you have the same grades as my dad and now he's the vice president of a bank.
If you want any more good colleges I would try..
PC (providence college)
University of Rhode Island
and that's basically all you need. I think you will make it in Brown personally.
Good luck!
Well i know this boy for almost 8months but his my online bestfriend im in sydney and his in victoria and i want to send him something but im scared is dosnt give me his address i really want to send it to him but im ton scared to ask himm any advice ?
He could be a 50 year old stalker or an undercover cop. Okay, you can say "but he sent me pictures" or "I talked to him on the phone" but that really doesn't give you proof that he's lying. Any one can go on google and find a random picture of a hott guy and send it to you. Online relationships are retarded because first of all, he could be a huge pimp and he might cheat on you with 20 girls but you wouldn't know because you're not there to stop it. Or even worse he could be lying to you and be this 60 year old man living on the streets and you wouldn't even be able to tell. So just stay away from online relationships and don't give him your address!!! Don't even give him your name or number or school. If he's a stalker he could come to your city and find you and rape you. And don't say it's impossible because it happens A LOT! So if you wanna keep your life, forget about him and find another boy that goes to your school. =)
Never give our personal info. to anyone you don't know!!! You could know him for 30 years but never know who he REALLY is. It could be a she!
Ever since I was born, I've been a super slower eater and I don't know what do it that can help!
Like a simple little breakfast, takes me an hour to eat.
Help!
Don't listen to what Juliet said!!!! If you don't eat for a day, you're starving yourself and your body will go in starvation mode and might start eating away at your muscle and storing fat which makes you GAIN weight. You have to eat! Waiting until your hungry is okay, but don't wait until your so hungry that you're going to pass out because that's not healthy. I would say that eating slow is good for you, but if you have a time limit just eat as fast as you can. Chew faster and put more in your mouth at a time. Don't over do it though.
Happy fourth!
why when a hot song comes out and it makes a lot of money and becomes really popular they have to make a remix of it? i know some of the remixes turn out to be bigger then the original song but it seems that lately every popular song has its own remix!why?
If people like the regular song so much, they will probably like the remix too so they make even MORE money by selling copies of the remix. It's all about money. =]
Everytime I go on my computer, about 10 minutes later my computer drive gets really loud..I can't explain it but it's like an echo or vibrating really loud sound and it's annoying the heck outta me!
Any ideas? I sticked my pillow on the side and it seemed to help butthen my head hurt when I slept on the pillow afterwards =S
http://tech.yahoo.com/blogs/null/26487
That basically says how to stop it, and the rules are different for each part of the computer that's rumbling.
i`m a 16 year old girl and i watch porn. is that weird? i also have a boyfriend who will do whatever i want with me whenever i want, but sometimes i still like to masturbate. is that weird?
No that's not weird.