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Q: I think my boyfriend might of cut me with his nail while fingering me... but im not sure. It hurts extremly bad when i pee, and its like an irritating pain all the time. It doesnt itch or anything it just feels extremly different and annoying. Im also discharging a lot but its clear... no color or odor but i did have a little blood when i wiped after i peed. Do you have any idea?
He probably just ripped you...or tore your skin.
It will be healed up in a day or so.
Nothing to worry about..it happens to me all the time.

Q: Hey, A guy I like wrote on my facebook wall and said that I "have an awesome movie taste", does anyone know of something clever and kind of flirty that I could write back to him? But not too much because I work with him. Thank You :)
"I also have a very good taste in guys ;)"

Q: Im getting a tattoo on friday. I'm going to a respectable place, but I'm afraid of risks! Like what could happen? Whats the WORST things that could happen to me? For example, what if I get hepatitus? Can that be cured? I've tried researching tattoos (I've been researching for a month), but so many articles don't include enough information for me.
So please help me out, what are the risks?
Experiences would also be good
Thanks so much :)
As long as you watch them open a new needle, and you watch them pour NEW ink into the tubes, you should be just fine.
I got a tattoo, I'd say, about 2 years ago. & I was freaking out too, but just watch what they do.

Q:
I am 19 an a guy. Ok so about a month ago i went out with two friends of mine, with one being a girl i really like.We sat in the her car waiting for our other friend to come out.As we waited, we had small talk an jokes going, but she kept putting chapstick on her lips like 4 times the entire time while we talked.I didn't say anything about it.I just thought, man is she trying to tell me something or does she really likes putting chapstick on her lips? Do you think she is interested in me?
Theres a slight chance she's interested.
Or maybe her lips was chapped or she has fever blisters and they were hurting.
Srry.
Hope I helped?

Q: Theres this guy who has told me he really likes me, we flirt alot but he doesnt know the feelings I have for him! I really really really like him but he smokes and thats whats putting me off going into a relationship with him! He knows how i feel about smoking and he told me he had stopped just for me! But then one of my friends told me he had tried to stop but couldnt and he was still telling me he had stopped! Do I just ignore his smoking habbit and focus on the feelings I have for him?
if you want to be with him
try your hardest to look over it
who knows, maybe further into the relationship you can ask him to try to stop smoking.
my boyfriend smoked, i asked him to stop like a million times, he's finally quit.
hope i helped

Q: Okay i got my toenails removed due to ingrown toenails. It kept occuring so the doctor's removed them completely. This is only on my two big toes. My highschool prom is on thursday and i want to wear toeless shoes but am too scared to show off my toes. Is there anything anyone knows of that i can buy, i know you can get fake toenails but they are all put on by glue and are for nail to nail contact it says nothing about skin.

any ideas?
my best advice,
if ur dress is long, no one will even see your toes.
if its short, paint them anyways, you cant tell the difference, or put nails on.
it wont bother it.

Q: I just got on birth control a month ago.. I have took all the blue pills and three of the green pills in the center.. I know this is really gross, but over the past couple of days i've been bleeding like brown blood instead of red cus by now I should of already started my period.. The only person i've told is my mom and she said she would take me to the doctor if it didnt get better.. But i dont wanna go unless its something bad.. I'm so scared and dont know what to do cus I dont want to be pregant if thats what it is. But i have no clue... Has this ever happen to anyone else? Or does anyone have any ideas what it might be? Thanks so much..
I'm almost 100% sure that its just the birth control reacting with your body, if its your first period, then its just getting use to your body, and the way it works. Nothing to worry about it, my birth control did the very same thing.
Hope I Helped!

Q: haha this might sound stupid but i needs some guys to answer this, what do you guys like more for kissing, burts bees chapstick or burts bees lip shimmer? thankss
im not a male
but i know from experience that most guys dont like lipgloss or chapstick, it gets all over them, and you.

hope i helped

Q: well i saw this commercial for some sort of big car sale for luxury sedans, and there was thing song playing that i really liked. theyve been playing this commercial moderately for about 2 weeks..the song is kinda soothing n mellow, and i think it sounds acoustic, but i dont really remember. it was sung by a guy, if that helps. does anyone know the name of this song? id reallllly love to have it :) thanks
Well I'm shopping for a new car, which one's me? A cool convertible or an SUV.

Too bad I didn't know my credit was whacked, so I driving off the lot in a used sub-compact.

F-R-E-E, that spells "free", credit report dot com baby. Saw their ads on my TV. Thought about goin' but was too lazy.

Now instead of lookin' fly I'm looking fat, my legs are sticking to the vinyl and my posse's getting laughed at.

F-R-E-E, that spells "free", credit report dot com baby....


if thats not it i have no clue what your talkin about haha

Q: sory if this is gross. I hurt myself when i was playing lacross with my friends and i had a scab on my leg. yesterday it fell of and bleed alittle but now there is an indentation where it was, and the skin is red, but its not a scab its like normal skin. i was wondering how i can get the redness away and get it back to normal looking as fast as possible becuase i have to wear a dress on friday thanks.
I have one on my leg, they wont go away, the redness will fade and itll turn to your skin color, or look sort of like a scar, but it wont go away. Hope I helped.

Q: what is oral sex
sexual activity involving oral contact with he/she's parnters sex organs

Q: um aright i was just wondering, when you get ur cherryy popped, how long does it bleed for. i mean i know theres a "liner" thats broken when it gets popped. but when you get it popped, does it start bleeding right away? and u can pop it by getting fingered right?

anndd onee more thingg. i have a hard time using tampons. i just doesnt go up, if you know what i mean? i was just looking for some one to give me some direction on thatt.

thanks soo much
First of all, your cherry can get popped from doing many other things besides anything sexual, for example, horseback riding. Yeah, I know, weird, but true. When your cherry gets popped it may bleed anywhere from 5-15 minutes, it starts bleeding right away and like I said, it may get popped from various activities. Movin on to the tampon..



Tampons come in different sizes (slender, regular, super, etc.) and use different types of applicators (card board, plastic, no applicator). At first, you'll have to go through a "trial and error" process to see which one works best for you. The first one you might want to try is a slender form or one that says it's specifically designed for teens. As for the applicator, a plastic one with a rounded tip may be the most comfortable.

When you purchase a box of tampons, and instruction booklet comes with it, read the instructions.

Once you're ready to insert the tampon the most important key to remember is to relax. It's not painful to insert a tampon, but if you're tense it could make the process a little uncomfortable.

There are a few different positions you can use to insert the tampon. Two such positions are either placing one foot on top of the toilet or squatting over the toilet; again you'll have to figure out which technique is best for you. Holding the center of the tampon between your thumb and ring finger and using your index and middle finger to hold the string in place, gently insert the tampon.If you feel pain or discomfort, slow down and relax.

Once you've inserted the tampon and the center (the part you're holding on to) is at the entrance of your vagina, using your other hand, gently start pushing the exposed end of the tampon. This releases the actual tampon into your body. You know it's fully inserted when the end of the part you're pushing meets the center part you were originally holding.



hope i helped =]


Q: whats that song its sorta goes like "you should have been getting high?" it was on a rock radio station last night
is it because i got high by afro man?

Q: how do you hide your last login/age/location on myspace? and also, what are some other image holders besides photobucket and tiny pic? thanks!
http://www.whateverlife.com/hiding.php

thats a website that has everything to do with myspace. it shows how to hide your last log in but nothin about age and location..sorry

Q: I just had sex with my bf of 5 months.
We had it and it felt amazing for the first time.
It hurt a little at first and they we just started going and I got wider.
After we were done it hurt to take his dick out of my vagina..
Now my vagina is sore and their was a little blood on the condom.
Is that normal for me to be sore? Also, do you think I popped my cherry? (Earlier today I had just got done with my period. So maybe it's a little bit of the leftovers, possibly.)

Thanks!
Its normal.It probably means your cherry popped. Or if it was your first time, just the reaction. It was your first time, your going to be sore. I was. There is a slight chance it might be the blood from your period, but I think your cherry popped.

Q: im going to a kenny chesney concert soon.
and i wanna know what are some cute saying to put on a t-shirt?
like rewording his lyrics into cute and funny sayings.
thanksss.=]
I don't know many but here's one I love..
(front) [with a possible picture of kenny] Kenny, this is as close as I could get...
(back) [with a picture of boyfriend. or guy you like]
but, (boyfriends/friends name) will do just fine..

so together it would be

Kenny, this is as close as I could get...

but Bob will do just fine..

Q: is it impossible to make out if both people have braces?
Its not impossible..its just a little harder..

Q: there's a led zeppelin song that i cannot think of and i've asked like 50 people and no one can think of it..it's a pretty famous led zeppelin song they play it on the classic rock station a lot and the only way that i can describe it is that it's really light and it has kind of a piano type thing in the background in the chorus or something...and i remember it being something about love. yeah does anyone know what this song might be??/
freebird
stairway to heaven

Q: I am inlove with this song, and I don't know what its called. I only know one part of it. And its not much..Please Help..Thanks In Advance...

We in the car we ride slow...sumthin...doing what we girls gon Do.
Its called...ShowStopper
The Artist...DanityKane

Q: Whats some good songs for a break up? like missing someone after they've been gone for a while.. thats rock or acoustic or whatever..
Say Yes-Dusty Drake
Let Me Go-Three Doors Down
I don't want to miss a thing-Aerosmith
Don't Matter-Akon
I don't want to-Ashley Monroe
Pieces of me- Ashlee Simpson
***Sorry-Buckcherry
Truly Madly Deeply- Cascada
***I'll Be- Edwin McCain
Why- Jason Aldean
***I wanna be your everything-Keith Urban
You Save Me- Kenny Chesney
How Do I Live- Leanne Rhymes
Probably Wouldnt Be this way-Leanne Rhymes
You And Me-Lifehouse
Free Bird-Lynard Skynard
Everywhere-Michelle Branch
Walk Away-Paula DeAnda
***Im Broken- Seether
***Everything Changes-Staind
Teardrops on my guitar-Taylor Swift
Right Here Waiting- White Dawg
Everything You Want- Vertical Horizon

*Really good songs. 90% chance they would work if you wanted someone back.

I hope I helped.XOXONikki

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