Theres this guy who has told me he really likes me, we flirt alot but he doesnt know the feelings I have for him! I really really really like him but he smokes and thats whats putting me off going into a relationship with him! He knows how i feel about smoking and he told me he had stopped just for me! But then one of my friends told me he had tried to stop but couldnt and he was still telling me he had stopped! Do I just ignore his smoking habbit and focus on the feelings I have for him?
sarahx2128 answered Tuesday June 10 2008, 7:19 pm: It is a nasty habit, but it's also a hard habit to break. Even if he says he will quit for you, it will take time. He can't just quit cold turkey. The most you should do is just request he doesn't smoke around you. If you really like him then yes, you should just focus on the feelings. He obviously likes you enough to attempt to quit!
SweetTemptations answered Tuesday June 10 2008, 7:18 pm: if you want to be with him
try your hardest to look over it
who knows, maybe further into the relationship you can ask him to try to stop smoking.
my boyfriend smoked, i asked him to stop like a million times, he's finally quit.
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