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i dont want to come off badly


Question Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 1:32 am

i'm 15 and have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months. i love my boyfriend but i also love it when other guys look at me. like, i have no intention of thinking of them in romantic ways, or even knowing the person, i just like being looked at. is that wrong?

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whatsherface answered Friday June 29 2007, 1:33 pm:
.. no, that's not wrong.

i'm trying really hard to figure out a way in which that would be wrong, but i can't.

so it's not :D

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askforanswersfromAndie answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 3:50 pm:
no lol im the same way i love my bf 2 we have only been together 6 months 7 on the first. but still i love him with all my heart but getting looked at by other guys is still nice it can never hurt to look good and have people think so 2. i know the feeling. :D

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Genrawks2 answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 2:41 pm:
Naw, not really.
As long as there are no feelings, there's nothing wrong with liking attention. :P

It's more like a self-confidence boost.

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BitsandPieces answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 12:05 pm:
It is human and we humans enjoy looking and being looked at...I can't say it is wrong or right, it just is. Your boyfriend is looking and enjoying being looked at, too.

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BecauseYouLivex3 answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 8:10 am:
No, this is one thing that is not wrong at all. It's not like your going "wow hes hott" blah blah now thats kind of wrong. You just like to be noticed, and have guys think your good looking. It makes you feel better about your self when guys do, im sure every girl thinks that way.

It's completely fine dont worry about it!! ♥

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orphans answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 4:25 am:
No it isn't. I love my boyfriend as well and I love it when other guys look at me. I don't have very high self-esteem so when guys look at me I feel as though my boyfriend isn't the only one that thinks I'm attractive which gives me a little self esteem boost. There's nothing wrong about that at all.

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chaoticchic15 answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 2:03 am:
There is nothing wrong with having good self esteem and to like being looked at.Its not like your dating any of the guys that are looking at you behind your boyfriends back.Plus,whats the point of good looking people if they cant be appreciated?
Enjoy the attention,i mean not too much or anything dont go up to the guys and ask for theyre numbers and stuff like that lol but its normal.Im sure your boyfriend doesnt mind being looked at either,so your not alone.

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TillToniteDoUsPart answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 1:57 am:
NO. Not at all! Everyone loves a little attention, and not to get you jealous or anything but he probably thinks about other girls on the side, haha. Everyone has in a relationship! But yeah, you shouldn't worry about it! <3

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christina answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 1:56 am:
No. Everyone likes to be noticed.

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alwaysmile answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 1:53 am:
not at all.. you like to be noticed. there's absolutely nothing wrong witht that. as long as you don't want them in a romantic way, let them look allll they want.
(:

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