my name is elizabeth. i love to have fun. i've experienced a lot for my age. i love too easily. i have goals for myself. i'm an open book so ask anything you'd like.
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My boyfriend loves recieving oral and I love giving it to him. But I want to do something that will send him over the top. Please give me some ideas thanks.
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go to wikiafterdark.com and in the search box type in what you're looking for.
it's really good and really detailed.
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well first off i sorta like my friend "bob"
butt theres so many rumors going around about him.
they seem true.. butt i dunno.
like hes been texting my friend.. and saying the same exact stuff to her that hes been saying to me.
so im not really sure..
he says he loves me.. and wants to become a little more than friends..
butt i sorta feel like hes using me..
and i beleive stuff to fast..
so like when i hear something bad about him i get all mad..
then when he talks to me about it..
i believe him right away..
i just need someone who can be honest with me i just like him wayy too much..
its sorta cheesy butt i dunno. :/
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i'm going through the same thing. the guy is probably just playing you and wanting to play the field. any guy that would be stupid enough to say the same things to you that he's saying to his friends, isn't worth anymore of your time.
if you're really into him, talk to him, look him in the eye, and tell him you don't just want something that's not real. ask him about saying things to your friends. if he says it's not true, and you believe him, then go for it, but if he's sketchy about it, then i wouldn't waste any more of your time on him.
he sounds like a player.
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15/f
i've been thinking about drinking a cup of warm green tea everyday before school. does it have any good health benefits? like will it give me more energy? thats what i need, it has caffine. thanks! (link)
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green tea speeds up your metabolism, and gives you natural energy. i know it's good for you skin, too.
i'm sure there's more, but that's just off the top of my head.
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My life is, to me, a living hell right now.
Backstory will be neccesary. Ive lived with my girlfriend for over a year. I love her, and we've tried to make it work through alot of trauma.
But I'm sick of it. I am sick of her. I want to leave her, and I can't.
By can't I mean functionally can't. My credit is shit, partly because of my parents back blading me and forcing me to pay debts incurred under the promise of them paying them off and then refusing too later. Partly because I ruined what little I had left spending money on her, helping her out, I even paid for a semester of her school.
I have only a few good friends in my life and while most of them WOULD help me, none of them can. I don't have any friends who could cosign (hell, half of them can't sign for a lease without a cosigner themselves) so I am completely incapable of getting my own apartment.
The worst... I just moved. Four hours away from all the friends I have in the world to another city. I don't know anyone here, we moved to be closer to her parents and family and the support they can offer her (and through her, me)
So now I am in an unfamiliar city with no credit, no ability to get an apartment, no car (the one we share is in her name and is hers)and little money (I just got a job here as a server, but I'm still in training)
And so I don't know what to do. The apartment is in her name. She can kick me out legally if she wants to. I have no where else to go. I am completely trapped in this, and while I don't think she WOULD kick me out (she'll keep trying to make it work) I don't have a refuge of my own.
If I weren't Christian I'd be contemplating suicide right about now. Thats how far down this has taken me. As it is, I'm almost to the point of leaving all my stuff, this apartment, and her, and just going be homeless to get away from it. I literally have no other options.
Help would be appreciated. (link)
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you're in kind of deep right now, but if you can hold out for a little while longer, i'm sure you can come up for air soon.
while you're still with your girlfriend, open a savings account, and put any money you can into it. before you know it, you'll have accumulated interest, and you'll have money you need for a downpayment. honestly, if you don't want to be home a lot, you could try to pick up a second job. it'll give you more money, and you won't have to be there a lot.
as for a car, look for something cheap that someone's selling by-owner. if you can't find anything, the bus is always an option.. not a great one, but beggers can't be choosers.
take your religion, and have faith that things will work out. don't ask for things to be easlier, just ask to be stronger. suicide is really a permanent solution to a temporary problem, and it would hurt your family, no matter how much you think they hate you.
being homeless would be harder than the situation you're in now. and once you're there, there's usually no turning back.
so keep your head up, and take your faith and go with it. i'm sure you'll be okay, just keep trying. that's all you can do right now.
good luck, let me know.
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okay so theres this boy, Ryan. and hes my next door neighbor. like next next door. and i went out with him in like 7th grade. i know its not really a relationship. but we just liked eachother and went out haa. but 8th grade he moved. i really never heard much from him. well, about a month ago he moved back into the same house! and its kinda weird because now hes a senior and im a sophmore. the age difference mattered more back then than it did now. so we just kinda started talking and what not. he siad he was single and so was i. well everyday he would ask me to come over and swim or just hang out. but i really never could. then i asked him to come to the movies with me and he said he couldnt. after that we really havnt talked and its been kinda weird. hes said hi to me a couple times and said sorry for not being able to come to the movies. but thats about it. then i find out that he might have had a girl friend from where he used to live. but i think thats kind of odd to ask out someone from his old school that he would never see again once hes already moved. so idk if he lied to me when he said he was single or what. i dont really have a spacific question but i just need some advice. my parents doesnt like him all that much. because hes into drinking and sex and stuff. and i cant really sneek out to his house sence he lives like right there. i know it sounds like it would be easier but it really isnt. so i cant really get involved with him but i cant really stop myself. and hes kinda flirty in a suttle way, which im not really used to. i just need advice on how i should talk to him. as a friend or be flirty? seeing how im kinda confused whether he has a gf or not. schools gonna be starting soon and ill be seeing alot more of him. so idk how things will pan out. but just how should i aproach things with him? (link)
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when you talk to him, start out by being friendly. if he starts to show more interest, then you could probably start to flirt a little, but like you said, be subtle. he probably thought when you couldn't hang out with him, that meant you didn't want to so he may have been hesitant to go with you to the movies.
as for the whole thing about the girlfriend, just ask him. if you're uncomfortable with that, try to work it into a conversation.
as for your parents, you're.. what? 15? they should be able to trust your judgement. i'm sure they know how you feel about not being able to help liking someone. just tell them he's a nice guy, and if you do date, or take things further, prove to them that he's a good guy.
good luck, hope i helped (:
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14/f
Last year I started cutting myself. My friend told me why she cut, and after I was extremely depressed and so I decided to try it. To my surprise it actually calmed me and felt good. And for the next year it was a coping mechanism for me. But I stopped three months ago and vowed never to hurt myself again. But it is so hard not to. Sometimes its all I think about. what can I do to keep me from cutting again?? Please help me. (link)
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i know what you're going through and the fact that you don't want to hurt yourself anymore is such a big step already. try and find something else to help you cope. try art, or just working out when you're angry or upset will tire you out and hopefully calm you down. find something you're interested in and go with it.
also, if you can find someone to confide in, and help talk you through it, it might help you out alot.
i hope i helped, and good luck with everything.
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what doesnt break you only makes you stronger.
what does that quote mean? (link)
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it means that any hardship that you have to face that you get through okay, will make you stronger and you'll have more confidence and security knowing that you'll be okay.
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Jason is eighteen and my favorite brother. He dropped out of school and got a job at Burger King. He'd been working there for a little over a year when he realised it wasn't the job he wanted. He has his GED but now its to late to go back to school. Soon after realising that he gave up. On Life. Then one night the cash register wasnt working and he punched it and completely broke it. Now he owes BK 2,500 dollars and had a warrant for his arrest and his court coming up. Well everyone thought if he got a ob before court he would have a chance of paying... but He told my Mom he wants to go to jail.
Jasons been my everything, and I would do anything for him. Im planning on telling him Ill give him 500 to get a job but I dont want him going to jail because my Mom will kick him out.. and he'll have no place to live and Ill be on shit with my Mom bcause ill kill her.
But why does he want this for himself.. I love him and Im not willing to let this happen. What else can I do? (link)
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tell him how much he means to you. let him know you believe in him, and you're there to help him and do whatever to help him get back on his feet. talk to your mom and tell her it'd really upset you if he left. hopefully he would see that people are there for him and he can work harder to make you proud of him.
good luck, and best wishes to your brother.
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i want my haircut like this,
http://i280.photobucket.com/albums/kk167/alyssaweil/yo-2.png
http://i280.photobucket.com/albums/kk167/alyssaweil/yo1.jpg
what do you call that?
i want to find better pictures so i can show my hairdresser exactly what i want, but i don't know what to search for.
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tell your hairdresser you want long layers with angled side bangs.
she should know what you're talking about.
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What are some other bands like,
I am x-ray
Metro station (sp?) (link)
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forever the sickest kids, all time low, the academy is..., hit the lights, motion city soundtrack.
those are just a few.
a lot of bands under fueled by ramen, and clandestine records are really good.
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okay so i was just wondering if someone could explain this to me.. my friend was 15 and put in foster care and when she turned 16 she moved out and lived with a friend who was somewhere between 19-23 and her father didnt like write anything that said she could.. but the police officer at our school check it out and it was i guess legal for her to do that.. but i thought you could leave until you were 18 years old? but she was able to leave foster care as soon as she turned 16 and she moved in with her friend.. how does that work? where in the state of Connecticut if that helps.. im just wondering because my mom said it was legal when your 16 but.. everyone has always told me it was 18 ah im so confused haha someone help? (link)
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you can usually decide who you want to live with when you're 18.
she was probably emancipated and chose to live with her friend who is 18, which is the legal guardian age.
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im 18 and i maybe gay over the last few months ive been hanging out a lot with a another guy and
weve become close and he started coming on to me
i wasnt sure if i gay but i really like him and he says he likes me a lot weve started touching each other and weve giving each other blowjobs
and the other day he says he wants to have sex i am bit nervous but i do want to have sex with him
so am i totally gay is that not weird is it?
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you may be gay, or you may be curious. just try to wait a little while before you have sex with him, just so you can figure things out in your head. it's not weird if your gay, things just happened to go that way for you and that's fine. i know it's been a few months, but just get to know him a little more and in a little while if you want to have sex with him, go for it.
good luck with everything.
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Alright, this is embarrassing. But, I'm curious.
How do you give a blow job? I mean, I get the gist of it.. but I'm curious how to go about giving a fantastic blow job. Help? (link)
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for a guy to get a faster orgasm, keep your rythm the same, until he gets really excited, then you can speed up a little.
use your tongue, NOT your teeth. covering your teeth with your lips is probably a good idea.
depending on how big he is, some guys like to be deepthroated.
if he's too big for your throat, it will hurt him if you try.
use your tongue on his tip, because that's the most sensitive part of the penis,
just a little add on, it's a bad idea to brush your teeth before or after giving a blow job because that causes tiny cracks in your gums and an STD can be transmitted.
also, swallowing gets the taste out of your mouth faster.
goos luck (;
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I want to eat out my gf but never did it before besides licking should i stick my tongue in her also (link)
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let her know that it's something you actually want to do. girls are really self concious about their area. first you'd want to start with foreplay. stroke down there to get her excited,and once she wants more kiss your way down her torso. to tease her, you'd want to start with the outter lips and work your way to her clit and gspot. you'll want to lick her clit. while your doing that, a lot of the time, to reach a faster orgasm, you can use your fingers on her gspot while your mouth is on her clit. sometimes, girls like to be "sucked" on, others hate it, so communicate and have her tell you what she likes and what she doesn't.
if you need a more detailed explaination, go here http://wikiafterdark.com/index.php/Eat_A_Girl_Out
hope i helped (:
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I guess I need more of an answer than I need advice, but here it goes anyway:
What is "cloning" when it comes to chatrooms? And why is it bad?
Sorry if I sound like a noob... And sorry if I made it worse by actually acknowledging the word "noob." (link)
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"A procedure that copies the RAM contents (configuration, formats, fonts, pages, and graphics) from the memory of one printer(computer) to the memory of another."
that's google's definition.
like.. taking the memory and all the software from one computer and put it on to another one. it's bad because a lot of the software you usally have to buy, and just by copying it, the company looses a lot of money. i guess it's like.. stealing? kind of.
sorry if that didn't really answer your question, but that's all i really could find.
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what does ftw mean? i know it could mean fuck the what or fuck the world, but what else and why do so many people use it? o-0 (link)
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it means for the win.
people just use it to say they like something the best.
(ie: what kind of ice cream do you like the best? chocolate, ftw)
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ok. just wondering, but is it dangerous if you take like 10 advil in a day? i didnt take them at the same time, but all within 24 hours, like 4 hours between. Is it still dangerous to do that? Or is it only dangerous if you take them all at once?
And if you dont do anything to help overdosing the day you took all the advil can it still affect you for awhile??
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taking aspirin in general is bad for your stomach. it eats away at the lining. but taking 10 in one day really depends on your weight. if you're tiny, it's probably not too safe, but if you've got some meat on your bones, it's still probably not too good for you, but it shouldn't harm you.
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I said "one-time" because we only had sex 1 time. Through all of this, I realized how much I love my wife. I have not had a problem like this before and believe I will never again. I am just struggling with the thought of dropping this bomb on her. I have thought that maybe sometime in the future when this is way behind us. When we can look at this rationally and without the hightened emotions. Am I being too blue sky and will that open the wound again? (link)
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personally, i would tell her now, because if you wait, that would re open the wound. she will feel like you've been lying to her for a long time, and your trust will be questioned more than it initially would be. if you really are in love with your wife, and want to work things out, then i would break it off with the other woman completely. no phone calls, no visits, no letters, nothing. let your wife know that you are in love with her and it helped you realize your feelings for her. if you can, and will mean it, let her know it will never happen again, because you know what you have with her and your children is everything you could ever want.
good luck, let me know how things workout.
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I had an affair for a few weeks and we did have sex 1 time. It blew up horribly when my spouse found things. She does not know we were intimate and I really do not want her to know. She is a wreck and so am I. I am afraid that this will kill her - she is a little unstable right now. Why does she even need to know these details? I can carry this secret to my grave. If this were known, I believe we will end up in a divorce and our home w/kids will be destroyed, and I do not want that to happen! It seems like I remember Dr. Laura mentioned once that a one-time affair (not a long lasting one) didn't need to be disclosed. Why burden your spouse with this. Why dump these rocks on them. Its your burden to carry. Help. (link)
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if it's been going on for a few weeks, it's not a one- time affair. you're obviously not happy with your wife if you're going to someone else for intimacy and sex. she deserves the chance to find someone else so she herself can be happy.
it may be really hard, but you should tell her.
if she found out from someone else, she would be so much more hurt.
you may want to tell her, but make sure she knows that you want to work things out for the sake of your kids.
good luck, and i hope things work out for you and your wife.
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so i'm kind of confused about my sexual orientation right now, but i think i'm bi and i think im in love with my best friend [who is a girl].. i told her about it, and she said she was fine with it, but she didnt feel the same way. she said she only loved me as a best friend, but nothing more. i went to visit her in california for a week and at first we would be really affectionate towards each other. like we would hold hands and cuddle a lot. sometimes she would bite my ear and i would kiss her on the cheek. then one day, i just asked her if i could kiss her, and she said i could. so ever since then, we would make out like all the time, but we would try to hide it from our other friends. the thing is, i asked her if she loved me, like if she was "in love" with me, but she said she doesnt know. she just said she knows she loves me, but not if she's IN love with me. so i just said okay. but then i also asked her if she was bi, and she said "i dont know. only with you i guess.." so i dont know. it's so confusing...when i came back to new york, she would tell me she missed me and stuff and she wanted me to come back..the thing is, i really dont know how she feels about me. she makes it seem like the thing that happened between us while we were there was nothing to her because she does it with other guys; like theyre not even together or anything.. and more recently, it seems like we're not as close anymore. like we dont talk on the phone as often, and when we do, there's a lot of silent, awkward moments. i dont know what to do.. how can i tell if she loves me more than just a friend or not at all? do you think she's just in denial or not?
i'm so sorry it was long. i really need help though..thanks. (link)
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i think she's just as confused about her sexual orientation as you are. the reason she's doing things with other people just might be because she's trying to figure things out for herself. you just have to wait it out. talk to her about it. ask if she has done anything with any other girls.
and if you're in different states, you have to think about long distant relationships.
good luck with everything.
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