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gullable?
well first off i sorta like my friend "bob"
butt theres so many rumors going around about him.
they seem true.. butt i dunno.
like hes been texting my friend.. and saying the same exact stuff to her that hes been saying to me.
so im not really sure..
he says he loves me.. and wants to become a little more than friends..
butt i sorta feel like hes using me..
and i beleive stuff to fast..
so like when i hear something bad about him i get all mad..
then when he talks to me about it..
i believe him right away..
i just need someone who can be honest with me i just like him wayy too much..
its sorta cheesy butt i dunno. :/
help?
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i had this same problem
i was head over heels for a guy
that said the same cheesy lines to me and two of my friends
he was just trying to see who he can get with first
usually, guys like this are using you
if you truly think he's worth it
continue being friends for a month or so
if he likes you enough, he'll wait
and make sure you pay attention to what he says to your friend
if you end up doing this
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i'm going through the same thing. the guy is probably just playing you and wanting to play the field. any guy that would be stupid enough to say the same things to you that he's saying to his friends, isn't worth anymore of your time.
if you're really into him, talk to him, look him in the eye, and tell him you don't just want something that's not real. ask him about saying things to your friends. if he says it's not true, and you believe him, then go for it, but if he's sketchy about it, then i wouldn't waste any more of your time on him.
he sounds like a player.
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Most of the time "rumors" aren't true. They are exactly what their called, RUMORS. But, if he is texting your friend and saying the same thing to her that he is saying to you, then he is probably just wanting to mess around instead of dating. He's telling you he loves you? First off, when a guy tells a girl he loves her when they haven't been together dating wise, then he most likely is just saying that to make you feel special. Don't listen to that crap.
Not only is he telling you and your friend the same thing, but he is most likely telling every other girl in the world the same thing. Don't fall for his sweet talk because I'm sure every other girl is falling for it too. Be strong and find someone that is faithful and right for you. Trust me, dating this guy will lead you nothing but heartbreak and pain. Hope all goes well!
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