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The short term affair question
I said "one-time" because we only had sex 1 time. Through all of this, I realized how much I love my wife. I have not had a problem like this before and believe I will never again. I am just struggling with the thought of dropping this bomb on her. I have thought that maybe sometime in the future when this is way behind us. When we can look at this rationally and without the hightened emotions. Am I being too blue sky and will that open the wound again?
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personally, i would tell her now, because if you wait, that would re open the wound. she will feel like you've been lying to her for a long time, and your trust will be questioned more than it initially would be. if you really are in love with your wife, and want to work things out, then i would break it off with the other woman completely. no phone calls, no visits, no letters, nothing. let your wife know that you are in love with her and it helped you realize your feelings for her. if you can, and will mean it, let her know it will never happen again, because you know what you have with her and your children is everything you could ever want.
good luck, let me know how things workout.
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