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old "friend"
okay so theres this boy, Ryan. and hes my next door neighbor. like next next door. and i went out with him in like 7th grade. i know its not really a relationship. but we just liked eachother and went out haa. but 8th grade he moved. i really never heard much from him. well, about a month ago he moved back into the same house! and its kinda weird because now hes a senior and im a sophmore. the age difference mattered more back then than it did now. so we just kinda started talking and what not. he siad he was single and so was i. well everyday he would ask me to come over and swim or just hang out. but i really never could. then i asked him to come to the movies with me and he said he couldnt. after that we really havnt talked and its been kinda weird. hes said hi to me a couple times and said sorry for not being able to come to the movies. but thats about it. then i find out that he might have had a girl friend from where he used to live. but i think thats kind of odd to ask out someone from his old school that he would never see again once hes already moved. so idk if he lied to me when he said he was single or what. i dont really have a spacific question but i just need some advice. my parents doesnt like him all that much. because hes into drinking and sex and stuff. and i cant really sneek out to his house sence he lives like right there. i know it sounds like it would be easier but it really isnt. so i cant really get involved with him but i cant really stop myself. and hes kinda flirty in a suttle way, which im not really used to. i just need advice on how i should talk to him. as a friend or be flirty? seeing how im kinda confused whether he has a gf or not. schools gonna be starting soon and ill be seeing alot more of him. so idk how things will pan out. but just how should i aproach things with him?
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when you talk to him, start out by being friendly. if he starts to show more interest, then you could probably start to flirt a little, but like you said, be subtle. he probably thought when you couldn't hang out with him, that meant you didn't want to so he may have been hesitant to go with you to the movies.
as for the whole thing about the girlfriend, just ask him. if you're uncomfortable with that, try to work it into a conversation.
as for your parents, you're.. what? 15? they should be able to trust your judgement. i'm sure they know how you feel about not being able to help liking someone. just tell them he's a nice guy, and if you do date, or take things further, prove to them that he's a good guy.
good luck, hope i helped (:
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