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My aunt is trying to run my wedding
See this is my first time of getting married. You see my parents have done everything to get this wedding on the ball since it is next month. But she thinks it should be all about her, I don't want to be a bad niece but I don't want to have someone that is gonna be taking the pictures to try to ruin my day just because she isn't involved in every little bitty thing we do in the wedding. She thinks that me and my sister in law(Matron of Honor) going out for a Bacholorette Party is so bad that she should be involved. But she isn't a drinker, she's a very negative person and I don't want that while we're trying to have a good time. Plus she's a nark. I can't deal with this anymore, please if anyone can give me better advice than talking to her about it I'd really appreciate it. Thanx.
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uh, talking to her about it is the BEST advice. because it's really the best thing you can do.
don't just push her away, you'll hurt her feelings. cuz she's probably only trying to help.
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ok i am the kind of person who tells people how it is, i wouldnt hide your feelings i wouldnt totally blow up either just inform her you dislike what shes doing, and confront her on how much it bothers you, and if she continues to do this things might get ugly.
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Tell her that you don't know any girls, who were getting married, whose "aunt" went out with them on bachelorette night. (I don't know any either)
Wow can't belive she is so unsecure, she needs to be the center of attention, at YOUR wedding.
Can you have your fiance talk to her, or maybe to her husband? Can you give her false plans and date and time of the bachelorette party, then hold it without her.
I hope everything works out for you. It is your day after all. Good luck to you.
Michele
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She is just probably really happy for you.
But if you really want her to stay out of it.
You should confront her, and say that this is a major big deal and you would appreciate it, if she gave you some slack and backed off a bit.
Don't be mean because then they will end up not going to your wedding. But most of the time, they will understand.
My cousin had the same problem.
I hope I helped.
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