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so miserable.
14/f
I just lost my only two friends, and I don't have a boyfriend. So now i truly am alone in the world. (i always have felt that way but now it's 100 times worse)
These ppl where the only two "friends" i ever had, because i can't/don't want to make friends with anyone. THEY initiated this "friendship".
How can I handle this?
i'm bawling my eyes out. I want to commit suicide but i can't because of the pain.
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You will always have freinds even though i never met you, i know you can get trough this, im 15/m i hardly have freinds i lost many because of stupid gangs and im always left out of everything with my family sometimes i want to commit suicide to but i dont because i know i got freinds out there or some else that cares about me, i know you said you dont want any freinds but if you change youre mind ill be youre freind just hit me up
myspace.com/1clowny3 my myspace
hope i helped,
§Clowny§
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It will be fine eventually. i felt the same exact wa only like a month ago. Even my family didnt want me. i was at the point were i was cutting myself. If you are a sweet, outgoing person, then in no time you will gain a bunch of friends. i have a bunch of friends because i broke out of my shell and i was fun and i got involved in church and made a bunch of new friends. So no matter what situation, always look forward. Theres no way but up from here :)
i hope it all works out<3
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Ok, firstly, don't commit suicide. No matter how bad things may seem, they do always get better. I don't know what to really say about suicide, just don't do it.
Secondly, I'm sure you are a lovely person, and the people who have betrayed like this have made themselves at a loss, you are not at a loss for losing them, no matter how it may seem now.
You may not want to make friends with anyone else, but if you want to get yourself out of this rut, then you may need to. Just hang around with people who have the same interests as you. That's always the best place to start. Or, join an extra-curricular club either at your school or at a local community centre. Get to know the people there, see what you have in common and work from there :)
I'm sorry if I haven't said what you have wanted to hear, but I'm not going to spin you around with false hopes. If you want to talk me, add me on msn. My address is on my profile :)
Feel better yeah? Like I said, i'm sure you are a lovely person who's just a bit down on her luck. Thing's will look up for you if you let them :)
So, add me if you want to talk or just want someone to vent to. I'm more than willing :)
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Altough they say friends last forever I personally don't believe that. I mean sure there's some that do last a lifetime which are always very special but those that don't - well, when some friends go others come into our lives to take their place. We lose old friends to make newer ones. It does happen so really, you're not the only one to feel this way or for this to happen to. I know it must feel you're alone and it's the end of the world but trust me it really isn't as bad as you think it is. In a few months after you've made a losad of new friends and such you'll look back and think what was I thinking.
First I guess the main thing to ask is WHY did you lose your friends? What had happen? There may be a way to fix things or maybe just give them time to cool down and chill out and they'll come back. Either way, you WILL make new friends even if you never are the one to initiate the friendship. Just be open to it and it will happen. That's really all the comfort I can give you regarding this but I will say don't do anything foolish (like suicide) over this. It's really not worth it.
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