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Is it bad to not to have a commitment?
is it bad to not to have a commitment? because i dont have ANY commitment as in i flirt with guys and stuff i cant stick with one guy so thats why i dont want a boyfriend yet im just waiting for a guy who teach me how to love. i havent went out with anyone because of my lack of commitment, because i dont want to hurt them and stuff what do you think of this? im a girl
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There's nothing wrong with waiting, but you don't want to be a tease. Being a tease is one of the worst things you can be (other than a cheater). Whatever you do, don't lead guys on. Don't let them think that you'll go out with them or be sexual with them when that's not what you're going to do. So, keep your flirting down and if a guy starts flirting back a lot don't just think it'll go away. Make sure he knows what's really going on. Teasing can destroy people. Almost as much as a breakup! Good luck. :)
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no its not bad but youre probably scared of a commitment because youre sacred of getting hurt but if you dont take the risk you will never be in one
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You know what, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I'm guessing you're in high school. I was the exact same way. Guys tend to bore me a lot and I didn't want to be tied down to one guy. It was like I liked the process but when we were actually official, I wanted out. I wasn't exactly afraid of commitment I just wanted to have fun and I knew I could only stay with a guy that truly cared about me. That is extremely hard to find in high school. There are good ones out there but many just want to hook up with is the situation I found myself in.
But eventually you'll find a guy that you will want to commit to. I recently found my guy and it was worth the wait. It's fun and nothing like any of the relationships I've had in the past (where i wanted out). It's also not about the sex or fooling around so I know he's in it for me and not just the hook up.
So go out flirt, go on date, whatever. But don't force yourself into a relationship if you're not into it. You won't have any fun.
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