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back on y own two feet...
14/f
well me and my ex just broke up a month ago and i'm not sure how to get back in the game. i mean he was an okay boyfriend but i knew the realationship wasn't healthy because we always fought about who's cheating on who. but other than that he was proud to be my boyfriend he would show me off and everything. i never had that with anyone else. i miss him i guess but then i'm over him to? we've had closure and i'm good with that because i needed it. but now when ever i find a new guy to crush on my mind goes back to my ex. i wanna stop thinking about him and move on but i don't now how. can you help me please? =]]
thanks! =]
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Think about all the hard times he made you go through,turn it into anger so you could lose the feelings once,for all,keeping yourself busy,having the time of your life with the new guys you meet.
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Moving on isn't something easy, so don't feel bad about it if you can't right away. You have to go out & experience new relationships. You should start casually dating again. Meet new guys, talk to them, ask them to hang out, go out with them to different places, etc. Basically if you keep yourself out dating & meeting new people, you'll most likely be able to get over your ex a bit easier. It might not be completely or even right away, but eventually it will start getting better. Are you friends with him?? If so, it may be a bit difficult at first since you'll still see him & talk to him. If you aren't friends or don't see him that often, it won't be so complicated. I'm not saying you shouldn't be friends with him, but it would definitely be easier if you didn't see him as much. That way your mind stays focused on your other friends & not him. Try going out with your friends that are girls too. They can also help you out & keep your mind on something else. Be around your family & friends. They'd probably be happy to help. Keep yourself focused in school & just stay busy. Start a new hobby or make new friends. The more you go out & casually date, the more you'll get used to it & have more fun.
-hope that helped!♥
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