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AH IDK WHO TO PICK!?
ok my friend likes these 2 guys can she CANT pick who to choose so would u please help me. 1 man is evan- whos 2 years younger, hes a cutie and he asked her out twice and she denined him and wishes she didnt and ever since then she loved him for like a year but hes in florida now but hes coming back in middle of july. the only thing is she hasnt seen him in a year and she doesnt kno if he likes her. ok next guy is kevin- who just met her and hes in LOVE with her and obsessed. he cares about her alot and hes a year older. hes a cutie and they just started hanging out. shes torn between both of them and i doesnt know what to do. please help! any advice!? ill love you forever
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I would choose the second guy, Kevin because he seems very sweet and I used to have someone like him and my someone was perfect he never did anything to hurt my feelings always was there for me the perfect boyfriend and then turned into the boy of my dreams. I would most definatly recomend that to anyone because it feels so great just to be with them, but anyway kevin is my answer. Much luck.
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OMG! I was just in the same situation. Ok wat you need to do if you want to choose is list both of their pors & cons(goods & bads). Look at both of them when your done and then look at which one has the most amount of cons. This is how you choose. If you think about all the good ones and the bad ones and then you'll end up with an awnser.
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I think she should wait a little longer until making any final decisions. Just because she likes both doesn't mean she should feel pressured to choose. Maybe she should wait until Evan comes back and start talking to him again and see if things are still the same. But meanwhile, while he's gone, she can get to know this guy Kevin a little more before she just dumps a year's worth of affection for Evan for a guy she barely knows.
Maybe she should <I>date</I> for a little. NOT GO OUT BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND. but see one boy one night and the other another night. There's nothing wrong with that.
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i think she should just follow her heart, and pick who she likes more, and feels more connection with. i dont know how old you girls are, but if you 16 like me, a younger guy would be bad, their not mature yet. an older guy would be the best. but if your in your 20s then both would be a good pick. but really just tell her to just follow her heart and see who she likes more.. hope i helped<33
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I guess Kevin would be the right choice, since he's there with her right now. And it appears he cares about her.. so that wouldn't be a problem in the potential relationship. I don't think the looks should have anything to do with it, but continuing on! Evan is away, and she's having doubts whether or not he likes her. Tell her that it isn't worth waiting for, especially if someone like Kevin is there for her right now.
Hope I helped, and consider the love taken [forever].
;-D
--Jack
(15/m)
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you have one question you must answer yourself like..
- who do you see most?
it is important that you are close by to them so you won't be missing out in a chance to see him.
you say this evan guy is younger than you .. by 2 YEARS!! well i think it would be better going out with someone wither the same age or a year or 2 older.. but this kevin guy whose older seems alot more caring.
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Kevin is better for her since hes more her age and seems to be closer with her than evan was, but id also say that if she still likes evan more well then f*** how old they are,to wait till he comes back and if he still likes her well to should get together but first handel kevin first woulnd want him to get jealous, but if he dosent just go with kevin
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I would say Kevin. because he is closer to her age and also he lives closer. Since Evan lives in Florida. So id say Kevin. hope I helped<3
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i say Kevin, because you know for sure that he DOES like her. what if evan doesnt like her anymore? plus if she denied him twice then he probably moved on.
plus older guys are better in my opinion haha
SAM
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i'd pick kevin, hes older and he digs her so she wont have to worry about whether the guy likes her.
hope i helped =]
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i personally think that things between your friend and Kevin would work out better, because this Evan kid lives in Florida so you friend prob. wouldnt be able to see him that often. And the way you describe Kevin makes it seem like he really really reallly likes her =]
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