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Q: I am fifteen and i'm a girl. first of all, i know watching porn** is wrong... but i did it just to try it. apparently it jacked up our computer and my mom found out. she emediately pointed the finger at my dad who surprisingly told her that it was him. they got into a fight but they made up. i'm pretty sure my dad knows that it was me...but he hasn't said anything to me or even acted weird around me? my mom still has no clue that it ME who was watching porn on our computer and shes making my dad pay 200 dollars in repairs for MY mistake! now i feel so guilty and its awkard just being around him.. should i confront my dad about it or pay for the repairs? or should i come clean that it was me to my mom? or should i stay quiet and hope it all blows over? :)
-avingeline
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maybe your dad DOES watch it and is feeling just as
guilty as you are.
I don't really know your family so let's look at the different options:
1. Tell your Dad
- This would be extremely awkward, but it would show your dad that you are an honest person. Chances are he would tell your mom which could makes things even worse
2. Tell your mom
-Again, this would be awkward and it would make your mom feel guilty about yelling at your dad. Also, your parents would have to pay for the repairs anyways. and if you tell your mom she would probably tell your dad and it could make you seem dishonest.
Either way, you need to decide what to do based on your own feelings
feel free to message me if you need additional help and sorry this wasn't very helpful
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Q: okay so i am considering going to a casting call this saturday for season 13 of ANTM. I found out that its the first season for girls 5'7 and under only!! My twin sister and I have always wanted to try out but never considered it until now because we are only 5'4ish. What do you think our chances are ? We both have very long blonde hair, huge blue eyes, big lips, about 125 lbs and everyone says that we are different from a lot of girls because we're really funny & have a lot of personality. Is it worth a shot or a waste of time? because i know that some of the people they pick for that are very diverse and different. Or any suggestions as to how we could stand out as different at the casting call? Do you think they would cast twins since they already have on the show? Thanks =)
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GO FOR IT :D
you won't get an opportunity like this again. One thing that i think allows people to stand out on the show is their name. If you have very generic names, maybe try picking out a "stage name" if you will. Something that reflects your personality and who who you really are. Other than that, the only advice i have is to be yourself and don't be afraid of doing crazy stuff to get noticed :)
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Q: I have been dating this guy for a year and we got on really well and we didnt really argue at all. About a month ago he dumped me and I am mixed raced and he said he cant get to serious with me as I am mixed raced and it confuses things to much for him he said I should stick to blacks guys. And I have no idea what he meant unless he is saying I am weird.
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He is an idiot; A racist, ignorant idiot. I know how mean that sounds and i'm sorry, but it's the truth. He means that he doesn't want to be with you because you're "too black". Forget about this guy.
Hope I Helped :D
-M
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Q: I kind of lost my virginity on Saturday , it was just like a "fck" like we didn't kiss, it was just sex, but me and the guy are cool , I don't like him at all now I see. But I really like this boy W , like almost love we've been talking for like six months, we've only kissed but we stopped talking , and he's had girlfriends, done stuff and every thing, although we've stopped "Talking talking" , he knows how I feel about him, and in actuality it's like we haven't stopped talking. Now he's with this girl A, I told him about the sex thing w/ no details though, I just said "I had sex", I doubted he cared, he's with this girl and shows no feelings toward me even though he knows how I feel! Now he's super mad at me & I cant stop crying. Idk what to do.. Please help.
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I don't understand why he's mad. Although the sex was a bit careless, it was your choice and not his. Don't let him get to you. He has a girlfriend and he should not be preoccupied with who you're doing it with. In my opinion, he's just jealous that you didn't do it with him.
Don't let a silly boy get to you :D
And remember to always be safe!
-M
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Q: i just got done with my period today and we had sex he went inside me is it possibe that i could get pregnant b/c my fertail days r not til next week
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It is ABSOLUTELY possible that you could be pregnant. I'm not trying to scare you, but it is a possibility. Did you use protection? Because if you did, it is much less likely that you are pregnant.
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Q: so i was wondering how you buy back stage passes for jonas brothers concerts
i know they currently dont have a tour
but i mean when they do
and does anyone know about how much bkstage passes cost?
thanks in advance
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it is impossible to buy backstage passes.
unless you have insane connections.
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Q: I'm a pro photographer and I was going to do some "insane asylum" shots of people, but I need to get me and my models to watch these movies, so they'll know how to move, and what kind of attitude to have.
So can anyone recommend a good movie focusing around insane asylums, or psycho houses, or mental institutions?
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These are some fairly new ones:
Mirrors
Asylum
Insanitarium
And some others:
House on Haunted Hill
The snake pit (this is a very old one)
Girl Interrupted
Don't Say A Word
Good luck with your photography!
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Q: my dog is turning 10 this year. i've raised her since she was 6 weeks old. when she was less than a year, we moved her outside in a pen and got another dog who was a little older than her to keep her from bein lonely at such a young age. they've been together ever since. well, my older dog died on sunday. im afraid that my other dog, the one we've raised, is getting depressed. she doesnt seem to be eating or drinking any water. and she lives outside in the Georgia heat so i know she's gotta be hott and gettin hungry. i dont know what to do. i read up on dog depression and it basically says spend more time with them, take them to a dog park/day care, or get another dog companion for them. there are no dog parks around here, we cant get another dog because my mom said so, and i try to spend more time with her now, but i do work and have other things to do too, and she whines when we walk away from her, which she didnt used to do. i know she misses him, but i dont want her to get depressed and have something happen to her too. how can we get her to eat & drink again?
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why are you leaving the poor thing outside in the summer in Georgia?????? That is just cruel. You should let her live in the house. She is feeling lonely, obviously.
If you can't spend time with her, then either give her to a family who will love her very much, or make the most of the time you can spend together.
You need to talk to her, play with her, take her for walks, pet her, give her compliments, and be with her.
You're going to have to do this a lot and for a while to make her happier.
I mean, she is really sad because the other dog died so recently. Give it time, and let her know that you are there for her.
=]
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Q: okay so does nick and selena have a thing...
and does anyone know if they will be at disney world for christmas? thankkssss
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Nick and Selena have not said that they are going out, but because of her recent role in their "Burning Up" music video, it's kind of obvious that they might like each other.
I highly doubt that they will be at Disney for Christmas. They usually spend Christmas in New York or New Jersey with their family.
hope i helped!
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Q: So I think I am going to switch from my enV to the pink lg venus. Does anyone have this phone? Do you like it?
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I HATE that phone!
I much prefer the enV. Or even the enV2 because that's really cool.
The Venus is hard and awkward to hold in your hand when it's open to text.
The touch screen buttons are confusing and it has been having a lot of software issues.
I don't recommend it.
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Q: what color looks best on a firl with light tan skin, brown eyes, and brown hair? im trying to figure out what to wear to this really important thing of mine. thanks :)
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Pale pink, pale green, or aqua. At least those were the best in my experience. you could even pull of a pale yellow
Those are good colors I think, they work good for me.
Try out different things until you find one you like!
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Q: i have a really crappy life. my parents are assholes to me all they care about is if i clean and work for them. and my mom gossips about me everywhere telling people that i am mentally retarded and a freak of nature sent from god. And she told my sister that she wants me to commit suicide so she wont have to deal with all my issues anymore. and besides that i have high funtioning autism and im awkward and clumsy so no matter how hard i try to make friends i can never say or do the right thing and no one wants me around and everyone thinks im a freak. i have next to no friends and the friends i do have are pretty crappy they always eventually find people they like better than me. and guys never want anything to do with me ill probably never get a boyfriend and i have to watch everyone else have one and be so loved and i have to go home to my god forsaken parents while everyone else gets to go out and party and be loved by their guy. i could probably stand all of this except for one thing im in love with this guy and i just cant forget about him and he liked me at first and i thought he was different and for once in my god dammed life i was actually happy so happy i was on air but then just like everybody else he now doesnt even want me around at all and now that i no what it feels like to be happy i just cant stand having that feeling taken away from me and being thrust back into this hell :( :( :( I just cant stand it i really dont know what to do i really dont want to die but i dont want to live like this either. all i want is a fair shot at life like everyone else or in the least just one good happy thing in my life to look forward to cause i have nothing and no one cares about me at all so i just dont know what to do should i kill myself or not? what do you think?
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Well i think your parents need therapy. That is no way to treat your own child. I'm pretty sure every teenager has felt like this at some point in their lives. I know i have felt it. I've questioned suicide because i thought my life could not get any worse.
But then i thought about all the people who didn't have what i have. There are so many kids just roaming on the streets with no food or water and no place to stay. You have the essentials to lead a happy life. You have everything you need to stay alive now all you need to do is be happy.
If you think it is necessary, get professional help. It might help you and they would also be able to help your parents.
I was at a point in my life where i thought i needed professional help but i was too scared to ask for it. So i came up with a method to make myself feel better.
Try sitting in a calm place, preferably outside. Then i want you to notice every little detail about your surroundings. Take time to notice the little things. Then, write down how you are feeling. That sounds corny but it really works.
PLEASE DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!
i'll be your friend if you want =]
and remember: You were once the fastest, strongest sperm out of millions =]
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Q: ok so my english teacher is not really the
most liked person but i behave in her class because she will make your life a living hell if u piss her off!well i talked to her alot afta school because when shes not in one of her pissy moods its fun to chit chat with her!well i hav her as a homeroom and study hall teacher and my bf is in there to. we had a talent show and me&my bf were sitting really close 2-getha and he had his arm around me.well the security guard person that i talk 2sumtimes told him to take his arm 4rm around me.well then that teacher came and told my bf she needed to talk to him.well he comes bac and said that she said to lean up and she kept sayn that we wudnt be sittn so close if my dad was here(hes the principle).well the whole talent show she was jus starn at me the whole time.then afta the show she told me the same thing about how we wudnt be doin that stuff if my dad was there and shit.then she was like well if you dont want me to say anything to u guys then ok and i said no that wasnt the case.then when we got back to school in homeroom i didnt say anything to her which most times im really talkative and she said so i guess were on a non-speakn term and i was like no but she kept askn me the same question like she didnt here me so i just didnt say anything to her.well i got home and my dad was like someone told me that you were all layn on some boy and that i cant go anywhere which i never do anyway so it didnt really fase me!but i was jus really pissed that someone would tell.well the next day i asked her if she told and she said yes and that just really pissed me off.before that i kinda trusted her and i came and talked to her alot aND then shes gonna sit there and tell on me.and it wasnt even that i
important .she kept sayn that she told my dad that it wasnt anything to get overly upset with and hes a reall good kid but my dad doesnt care.jus the fact that he had his arm around me makes him overly upset.she keps telln me that if i wanna continue to giv her the cold sholdier thats me but she will still treat me the same way and she still loves me and all that otha shit.and she was like i only told him because i care about
u and all that crap which i didnt understand. well im still really really pissed and i dont know if i wanna talk to her again!! do you think i should give her a second chance or continue to keep to myself seeing as how she kinda betrayed my trust with her!! please help!!again sorry for being so long!!
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Well if the boy only had his arm around you, that's nothing. It's not like you were making out. That teacher had no right to tell your father just because he's the principle.
I'm sure if it were another student, she would have brushed it off but she told on you for some odd reason.
That was really crappy of her to do and i'd say that you should just do good in her class, participate in class and leave it at that.
You don't need to be best friends with your teacher especially if she's going to report to your dad about everything you do.
=]
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Q: I'm not sure if this in the right category, but I need some tips on things/ways to get ready for prom. It's on May 24, and I need to start getting ready. I'm going to get my dress this weekend, but besides that any tips on things to do or things to buy would be greatll appreciated. Thanks!
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well as the person above me said, make your plans now with full permission. That's always a good idea.
I would also start playing around with different hairstyles that way you can find the perfect one for prom.
If you have any skin issues (ex. redness, acne) I would suggest that you start getting rid of it. Those can take some time to get rid of, so definitely start now.
Teeth whitening. If you want the pictures to come out gorgeous, i suggest using crest whitestrips or other whitening products for your teeth.
If your tanning. I know a lot of people who want to be tan for their prom and they wait until the last minute using a spray tan and it looks awful. Start trying products now if you want to be tan. ( If you don't need to be tan then skip this =])
Make sure that everything that needs to be done is finished a couple days before prom. People stress out over it way to much. If you have everything set up, the night will be nothing but fun =]
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Q: Alright, I'm well aware that teens go through different confusing stages. They're unsure of themselves, they get depressed..blah blah. But what if I actually thought I had some kind of mental disease? What if I read about it and found the symptoms to be true in my case.? Like..I've found myself to be bulimic, depressed, anxious..all those things. But how can I tell if it's true or not and not just one of those "teen" things. Because my mother won't even listen. She brushes it off and says its just another teen emotion and stage.
Any advicee? I'm 16/f by the way.
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It's kind of impossible to know right now if it's just a teen thing. I think once you get into adulthood and look back, you can discover whether this was a mental disease or just a phase.
However, you still need to see a doctor about those symptoms. They are still medical and need attention. If you can't get to a doctor, go to the school nurse .
=]
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Q: 15/f
My family and I are really close. My parents divorced when i was 5 and my brother was 3, my brother and i live with my mom and we see my dad about 7 times a year.
I am SO worried about my brother now. He has a close relationship with my mom and still sort of does but lately i think he has been hiding a lot from us. since he has entered middle school, he is slowly starting to become a bad kid. My mom was randomely checking his phone when he was sleeping and it had text messages to and from this one girl with him swearing (which i don't care too much about) and talking about masturbating, and the girl sent a picture of her boobs and he sent pictures of his penis. HE IS ONLY 13 AND IN SEVENTH GRADE! this really upset my mom when she saw this but she didn't mention it to my brother but sort of talked about the subject of that and i can tell it scared him and he thought that we might possibly know.
today i found out his myspace email and password and only looked at it for a second because it shows if he is on or not but i quickley checked his inbox and it had a threat from an 8th grader sent to him 12 days ago that said "i'm gonna f*ck you up" i am near tears right now and i am extremely worried about him. i don't want to tell my mom about it because i don't want to worry her anymore...it's hard enough as it is being a single working mother.
i am scared he is going to get into doing drugs and going down the wrong path, as much as he denies it. what can i do to help him? i mean, we go to church like every sunday (catholic) and sometimes my mom will let him skip and just let him sleep. i don't want him to get a bad reputation...i have a really good one and i don't want him to be known as the rebellious messed up brother. what should i do? please help me...i care so much about him!!!!
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Well because he is so young it could just be the novelty of a new school and new things in life that he wants to experiment with. It might just be a phase because when we get into middle school and high school we like to try new things. I think if you are truly worried you and your mother should sit down and talk to him about it. To be honest though, looking through his myspace was kind of invading his privacy. I understand why you did, but you don't know the whole story behind the threatening message so i wouldnt jump to conclusions.
If talking to him straight up won't work, you can go to his school and talk to his guidance counselor who can then talk to him.
I wouldn't worry to much, but make sure you talk to him and ask a lot of questions about whats going on in his life and if he starts to get out of control, talk to the guidance counselor. They are really helpful.
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Q: hey i want this guy to notice me we talk a lot! i mean we are best friends but i want him to notice me and want me to be with him. i don't want him to feel like im following him. which im not i ignore him sometimes well sometimes lol... i need help i want him to notice me as sexy and cute with out being vulgur and slutty. thanx
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Be yourself haha.
But most guys like girls with individual styles. Don't be an Abercrombie clone. Shop at new places and try daring things with your outfits and hair. A new look with the same you would make him see you in a whole new light =]
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Q: Lately this guy who had never talked to me before, started talking to me. I realized that his best girl friend, that he likes so much was in florida when he started talking to me, as soon as she got back, we stopped. Now we barely talk at all. How do i stop thinking about this or how do i get over him ? What should i do to stop thinking about it, because he calls me ocasionally when she doesnt pick up her phone. What should i do?
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He's using you. It's like if his best girl friend isn't around, he uses you to take her place. You're a substitute. The guy is a real jerk. Just ignore him, but if you have to talk to him, do it while his best girl friend is around so that you can all hang out and it won't seem like he's using you.
sorry if that's confusing =]
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Q: Hey everyone!
ok so im going on this trip to a fancy banquet in like 2 weeks (with alot of cute guys there :] ). but here is the problem: i have ALOT of acne!!!! so much that it is not even funny!
so what i am asking is that is there any quick way to "poof" my acne away??? if so, can you please tell me. i am very desperate, and will try basically everything! by the way, the banquet is in like 2 weeks. so please please please help me.
thanks in advance
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Well I'm sorry to say that there is no way to just "poof" your zits away. However there are a number of products you can use to try to clear up your face.
(i used to have bad acne so i know how good these work)
If money isn't an issue:
-Zeno (it is a little thing that you put on a pimple and it makes it wayyy less noticable)
-ProActiv (takes a bit of time to work)
If you have a low budget:
-Use a hydrating, herbal mask ever few days and then once before your banquet. It will make your skin smooth and it takes my acne away)
-Use the Neutrogena Wave. It exfoliates and it is AMAZING.
-Put a pimple cream or toothpaste over each individual zit before going to bed every night.
-USE MOISTURIZER! It will hydrate your skin and help make acne less noticable.
Finally, throw on a little concealer or mineral powder to hide the acne. But not too much!
=]
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Q: Well here's what I've been debating with myself for the past couple of weeks:
This girl and I briefly were seeing each other last summer. We hung out at least once a week at the end of May through the middle of August last summer. When mid august came around she decided that she was not ready for a relationship so we decided to remain friends. We still hung out, probably about once a month August through November, but still kept in touch on a weekly basis through e-mail. She even hung out with my friends and I in October. The holidays rolled around, so we really couldn't hang out. We tried to get together a
couple of times, but things didn't work out. One day at the end of February I
sent her a text and asked if she wanted to hang out and catch up. I usually get a response back, so i figured it may have not gone through. So i sent her an e-mail asking if she had received it. She replied back a couple of days later and said that she did and was just really busy with work and other things. However out of the blue in the e-mail she also said "I don't
want to be anything more than friends" and ended the e-mail by saying that she
was going to hang out downtown in a couple of weeks and that i could join her and her friends of i wanted to. This really confused me since we already had this conversation back in August, so i replied back and told her that I wasn't looking for anything more than friends and i am sorry if i came off that way. She than responded back: "now that I am confident that we're friends, we should catch up, i didn't want to lead you on by texting you back or hanging out with you, we should catch up" I responded by telling her i didn't think that she was leading me on, and that the next time there's an issue that she should call me so we can talk it out. I haven't received a response since and this was at the end of February.
Now she did come off as a little vain, which surprised me. She's actually a
really sweet girl. The debate I've been having is whether or not to shoot her an e-mail and invite her to grab food, so we can talk or should i just
consider this a loss and move on? If i should e-mail, what should i say?
Thanks
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You've probably heard this a million times, but honesty is the best policy. This girl seems to be very confusing haha.
I would send her an email because if you were friends it seems like a horrible thing to waste. However, if you're scared of leading her on on you're scared she'll do something that you won't like, i wouldn't. But i think that you should just type a wicked long email telling her everything you just told me. Be HONEST. Let her know your fears and your wants. Tell her everything that's in your head. I'm telling you, girls love that.
If she sends a nice reply, move forward with that. If not, i think its time to move on.
Best of Luck!
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