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How to get over him ?
Lately this guy who had never talked to me before, started talking to me. I realized that his best girl friend, that he likes so much was in florida when he started talking to me, as soon as she got back, we stopped. Now we barely talk at all. How do i stop thinking about this or how do i get over him ? What should i do to stop thinking about it, because he calls me ocasionally when she doesnt pick up her phone. What should i do?
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oh girl, i dont like this boy already.
i know you dont want to hear this, but hes using you. its like when he cant get what he wants from that one girl, your the rebound. im not talking about anything sexual, but this goes for talking too.
whatever you do, dont give in. hes being so selfish and is only thinking about what he wants, and your feelings arent concerning him one bit at this point.
guys can be total skum at times, and i dont understand why. i think they act a certain way just to make themselves feel better or something. obviously he needs a major ego boost so he feels like he can get away with playing two girls.
i like sharing personal stories of mine that sort of relates to the questions people ask, to show them a real example.
ok so during christmas break like a year ago i was at the mall shopping for presents with my family and i went into this one shop to find my litte brother something, and a guy that worked there asked me if i needed any help so i had him point out where i could find a certain shirt or whatever. so he started hitting on me and then he got my number. a week later he calls me and asks if i wanted to go see a movie with him, and i did. after he got the tickets, the first thing he said when we walked in the movie is "i think we should make out." i was kind of like..ok well thats no problem that he wants to do that, i didnt really think of anything from it. so we did. and then he was talking about having sex in his car, and he asked me if ive ever had sex in a theatre. he was seriously being such a skeaze, and not acting at all like he should have acted on a first date. i declined the sex with him, because im for sure not looking for a one night stand. after continuously asking to hook up, he finially got tired of being rejected i guess, so he got up and left.
i realized that when he first met me, he must have thought i was easy and thats the only reason why he wanted to go out with me in the first place.
that was kind of long, i really hope you still read it and try to take it in. i wanted to show you that sometimes guys dont think with their head at all. and they only care about what they will get out of something.
so my point is to just totally forget about this jerk, and move on to a guy who will appreciate you. someone who you know doesnt just call you because some other girl wont pick up her phone.
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He's using you. It's like if his best girl friend isn't around, he uses you to take her place. You're a substitute. The guy is a real jerk. Just ignore him, but if you have to talk to him, do it while his best girl friend is around so that you can all hang out and it won't seem like he's using you.
sorry if that's confusing =]
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I think a person falls for someone more when they know they don't have the same feelings back or can't have them. Which in this case is happening to you. So maybe just bring up casually why he only calls you when his best girl friend isnt around.. it will lead him into talking about it wtih you and you can solve it out with him.
hope i helped!
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Well you need to get over this guy because he is basically using you as a backboard. I know it sucks. But just tell him like it is. Tell him that if he is only going to talk to you if she aint there then you dont want nothing to do with it because you dont roll like that. Most the time the feelings you are hurting by, is what would make you feel better if you just said aloud. So it maybe hard but tell him how you feel.
-hayley
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