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i am a virgin but i really want 2 have sex,but i cant find any 1 2 have sex with wat shud i do have sex with a random person or just keep masturbating 13/f (link)
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whoa, definitely wait. You just feel like you need to have sex because you're going through a stage where your hormones are changing. It's kind of like a "horny" stage.
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18/F I'm so sick of the fact that I acknowledge my insecurities. I seriously can not go a day without wondering "Am I worth much...?" or "Am I seriously stupid...?" I can understand if it sounds like I have mega confidence issues, but I don't feel it's a huge problem. I know it's fixable, but how can I just live and stop with all these worries? (link)
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It's definitely self-esteem issues, especially when you start to ask yourself how much you're worth. I'm like that too sometimes. I think the best thing to do is do a little bit of soul searching, and focus of the good in your life.
It helps me when i realize how much i have, and how lucky i am. Hopefully you will to:)
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ok so theres this one guy who goes to my school and hes my bestfriend. we have been hanging out alotttt like every weeked and sometimes during the week tooo.
hes alot shorter then me which suchs and another bad thing about his is he gets with everygirl. and i mean literally. he is a whore. so im suprised he hasnt gotten an std by now and i think its pretty discusting.
but we have gotten alot closer this school year and i like it. we text alot more and he told me he wanted to have sex with me and i told him we shouldd (which was stupid) and i went to his house a couple weeks ago and we were making out and he was trying so bad to get in my pants but i kept saying no and he was getting mad cause he is used to getting with any girl any time he wants.
and then we hung out this weekend and we were suppose to get drunk and i was gonna sleep there but plans didnt go through so we just hungout and we made out again and then we went out with our friends and he kept talking about girls and stufff and like hes like what happened to your gray phone and im like i never had a gray phone and hes like oh that must be some other girl. and he wanted to drink so he kept calling girls and stuff and we went with my friends girlfriend and her friends were there and he told one of them to come sit on his lap. im just like woww. dont do that in front of me.
and i when i dropped him off at home i was giving him attitude and i just like left and he knew i was mad at him. and he ditches me alot for his guy friends. but i guess im kind of asking for him to use me since im letting him. but i dont know what to do?
i started to fall for him and all those comments about girls made me mad but like were not going out and no one knows we hooked up.
my question is, should i keep hooking up with him or should i just remain friends with him before things get way to akward? (link)
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This definitely sounds like a "want what you can't have" situation. If he's going to lead you on, and embarass you (by asking another girl to sit on his lap infront of you) then obviously forget about him. He's just playing with you, and by the way you decribed him-- if you ended up hooking up with him he'd probably just move on right after any way.
What i'm trying to say is, don't hook up with him again and try to let your feelings go. If that doesn't work maybe you should avoid him until you do because im sure no matter what happens your gonna get screwed in the end.
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can anyone give me some good makeup tips? or any picturess? i have a turquoise dress, dark/medium blonde hair, dark blue eyes and my skins light but i went tanning so now its more medium-ish.
i'm planning on doing eyeliner and mascara but idk if i should wear eyeliner on top and bottom or just bottom? and what kind of eyeshadow? and other stuff. thanks so much. (link)
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It doesn't really sound like you wear much makeup. i recommend going to a professional like MAC, but that's just me. :)(because i love makeup)
Anyways,
THE EYES
For dark blue eyes, i love purple eyeshadow, it makes it pop a little bit more. If you want something a bit more smokey, then you should probably go for a soft smokey eye, like black with a hint of brown to add warm touches. Oh, and golds are really pretty too:)
**Definitely mascara-water proof so it will last longer. (Curl your lashes if needed)
For top liner, it will make your eyes appear bigger. I prefer liquid liner with an extended line on my lid.
Bottom liner is up to you.
FACE: go for something natural looking like Bare Escentuals (cheaper version is L'oreal's Bare Minerals)
-since you are light skinned, but slightly tanned, go for a pink blush, it will lighten up your face and add some colour
LIPS: whatever colour suits your whole look.
anyway, it sounds like a lot.. but it all depends on your application and how much you put on.
hope i helped!
if you have any questions just ask!
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Well to start off, its hard to admit-but i guess its time i say it anways. I'm most deffinatly a socially awkward person. I mean, i'll have a close net of friends- but everything about me screams awkward. Hahah, all the conversations are so ridiculously awkward i just laugh afterwards, because i completely blew another chance of making a friend. How can i fix this?
Another thing is my lack of emotion. I looked up some things on it,and i feel almost as if i'm empty.(depression?) Theres some pressure on my chest that just makes me feel weird when i breathe,and i daze out all the time. It's gotten so bad i barely have the want to finish this sentance. I just lifeless most of the time,and dont feel like doing anything. I actually mentioned to my mom i thought i was depressed, but she blamed it on the seasons changing. Even though i've felt like this for awhile. The main thing is,i don't know what emotions are really. My mood all the time is just,blank. Boring. Bleak. Most people at this stage would probably feel like they want to just crawl in a hole and die. But not me, no. I want to do dangerous things. Extreme things, like skydiving. The way i see it, if i die, oh well, if i don't-move on to the next extreme thing. I just want to go crazy and do everything. But- i don't have energy. I wish i did, i just can't bring myself to even talk to people that much anymore. Ahh i'm very confused at life at the moment. If you have any advice on this subject i'd much appreciate it, i just want to feel something. How? Rah, hah this is the corniest thing i've written-ever. Thanks for reading,though ! (link)
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im exactly like this!
i think its maybe because youre aware of it, you try not to be awkward and you know that if youre not fun they'll think your boring which adds pressure! just relax, i notice when u dont think, thats where you make your connections with your friends. just try not to think, i know that sounds stupid, but seriously just relax and have fun.
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Right, so i really like this guy(who is 16), but the problem is he has a girlfriend, but liek two weeks before he started dating her he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said no cause i didn't think i lieked him liek that, anyway now i do. Would it be so dreadful for me to flirt with him a little and try n win him back? Any tips are useful, ty.
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Honestly, if that happened to me id probably try to win him back to. Anyways, talk to him more, be more attentive, so it will be more obvious that you like him and im sure you'll get him back, i mean he liked you first didnt he?
im 15, and i would do it, youre young and in high school too! have funn!
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is there anyway that i can loose some of the fat off my fingers?
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no, unless you lose fat in general, its just an extra place to store extra fat.
im a piano player, and by practising thats exercising my fingers and trust me it doesnt really help!
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16/f.
i recently went to the mall to go shopping, and i could not find anything. anybody know any stores with really cute stuff in it?
PLEASE do not say
American eagle
forever 21
abercrombie
hollister
delias
victorias secret
express
old navy
dillards
macys
jcpenny.
i looked, found hardly anything. anybody know of anywhere else? (price really doesn't matter.) as long as its not over like 500 for a shirt.. (link)
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Looking at the stores you listed, im guessing you live in the U.S. and i dont know that many stores, but if you came to Canada, or ordered on line here are some really great stores with really nice clothes(check out the websites if you want):
arizia-super nice store, the main website doesnt really show any thing- but still check it out)
urban behaviour
sirens
dynamite
those are really nice stores.
hope i helped:)
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i want to know if anyone can tell me how do i find the right foundation to buy and how to make up ur face. i'm pretty clueless about how to put on anything besides eyeliner and it's about time i know how to do my make-up. if anyone has tips plz share (link)
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If you go on to www.youtube.com
and search " michelle phan" she has some really good foundation reviews, and shes gives really good tips on make up:)
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what are some ways to get someones trust back??? i just lost it and i need to get it back. (link)
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Mabye if you said how you lost their trust it might be a little bit easier to give you some tips, but since you didnt just show you're committed in gaining their trust back. You really have to truly show it, and sincerely apologize for what ever you did. They'll be able to tell if you mean it or not.
hope i helpd:)
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so ive been using bareminerals for about a month now. sometimes i love it, other times it just looks WEIRD! i think sometimes i use too much and it will look weird cakey and oily. but other times it looks just perfect! but i never know when im using too much because i have some acne scars so i always feel like if i dont use a lot it wont cover. can anyone tell me how to apply it better maybe? and what mineral veil do you recommend? i noticed the feather light mineral veil gives a sort of glow but i have kind of oily skin so it sort of just makes my skin look more oily!? (link)
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As far as applying enough, make sure to do it in sunlight so you can see how the natural light hits it...and sorry but i cant say much about the oily skin, but maybe so oil pads? you can buy them for only a few dollars for about a hundred and they really help!
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hey im 15.f
i have 2 questions to ask in this.
so heres the story (and oh yea who ever answers ill rate high because i really need help)
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about almost 2 weeks and those 2 weeks he fingered me. i gave me head and we had sex. alot of sex. my question is can i be any chance pragnet since we didnt use a condom the very first time and we were in he shower and he felt like he was gonna cum so he pulled out and waited a little and then we went agian. but he never came. that same day we used condoms but we had sex twice after the shower incident. then i came over agian yesterday and we had sex twice again but with a condom he came but we had a condom and everything was fine. but im just worried that what if i am pragnet and if there is a chance i can be.. because since the first time in the shower my mood changed and i got a small pain like all the way in mmy lower stomach by my vigina. im really scared and i dont know what to do im going to wait ffor my period to come but i dont know by then it might be to late.
another question is i regret having sex with him so much he says he likes me a lot but i feel like our relationship is moving wayyyyyyyy 2 fast and it old him that he said everything is fine and that he wont leave me because we had a thing in the past where i was dating my other boyfriend and he tried to convince me to break up with him so he must like me but idont what to do bout the sex ...and the moving fast
any help ill rate high thank u so much =] (link)
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yea, you can be pregnant.
you should take plan B just incase there's any risk anyways, it should decrease your chances!
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what makes a person easy to trust and easy to open up to them? (link)
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definitely someone that's easy to talk to, which is a nice GENUINE person who listens. remember that.
trust me, ive learned this by telling the wrong people things i shouldnt have, and by that-- just keep in mind that a trustful person needs to truely be genuine(which should come along with trying to be a good listener)..ive dealt with a lot of "fakes"
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16/f
so. I'm about 5'6" and I weight 128 on a normal day. But the other day when i was looking in the mirror i noticed that I have like Celluliteo on the back of my legs and i just dont' like it. It's not like really gross and horrible, but I don't like it. how can i tone the back of my thighs? I wanna make my legs a lot skinnier in general. Any adviceee is appriciatedddd (link)
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don't worry too much, i have it too
im 15/f 5"6 and 117 lbs. and i have cellulite on the back of my thighs(my thighs are pretty skinny in general though) and i do exercise. To reduce the cellulite(read the bottom). But if you want skinnier thighs in general, you would need to tone your leg fat. You can do this just by doing squats, jogging, etc. any exercise relating with your legs
cellulite reduction:
-exercise: squats
-tanning: it makes it blend in
-MASSAGE IT! that's the really only way of getting rid of it.
(it does take time! so be patient)
hope i helped
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I am 24 years old and a male and my Fiance is 24 yrs old and a female. December 6 at 10:45 pm my fiance and i were laying in bed about to go to sleep when her cousins came knocking on the door. Now to help you understand. Her family has been trying to get her to leave me for some time now and they pop up every now and then. Well i begged Erica (my Fiance) not to go out there and put me through this...knowing that it was only a matter of time before she would give into them. Well i was on my knees begging and she walked up to me gave me a hug and told me that she loved me and that they were just worried about her and to give her 5 or 10 min and she would be back inside. Well that wasnt the case. She ended up leaving me. And the next day when i tried to email her. She just read the email and then blocked and deleted me. She never even told me that it was over or goodbye...what should i do and expect...please help. I havent been able to sleep, eat or stop thinking about how this is all my fault. (link)
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I'm sorry to hear about that and i feel for you. I really doubt it's your fault considering it seems like you really love her, and she left you because her family put thoughts into her mind which wasn't true(if u didnt do anything). I understand how you're stressed out and i feel so bad, but i think if you wanna figure out what they said and why she left you, talk to a source. A mutual one, like a friend that liked both of you, or a friend from her work.
u obviously love her and if she could get persuaded like that so easily she shouldn't be worth it. but you're the judge of that.
hope you feel better and hope u find the right way out of this!
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what kind of foundation hides freckles? DONT SAY THEYRE SO CUTE BLAH. i want to know foundations creams or podwers to get rid of them....thanks (link)
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mineral powders work. they dont blend in with your skin, they actualyl kinda change the colour of it. but there really good
and my friend has freckles and she uses it and it works really well on her
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First off, I do not see myself as fat. Nor do I think I am skinny. I consider myself absolutely average, with a little more fat then I'd like. Around normal people I feel great. But lately I have been exercising regularly at my gym that I have a membership to and eating less and healthier to shed those extra pounds, and since I started I've realized how many people in this world are the lucky ones..that can pig out soo much and never work out and just be so in shape. The more I think about it, the more it pisses me off. All of my friends but 1 are these "lucky" ones. I feel totally fine with myself (though still wanting to get skinnier for sure) until I get around those people and feel horrible! I want to lose weight for myself not for them, dont get me wrong but it honestly kills me to see those people! I was not born with stick genes and I will never be a stick. It's just NOT FAIR! I even use a calorie/exercise counter every single day. I admit I could eat a little healthier, but I should be allowed to eat a cookie or some chips or go out to eat once in awhile without worrying about it, like all those sticks! So beyond what I am doing now, I know there is not much more I can do to be tiny..but I guess I just need any advice you can give me. I am not even that big and I feel huge!!! I don't know what I am asking really, but any stories or opinions on how to deal or whatever is sooo appreciated! Sorry it's so long thanks =] And I am 16. (link)
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i used to be like that.
but now i realize you should work on your metabolism and the working out will help out a lot! trust me! and yeah a lot of things arent fair and it sucks it really does.
anyways to help your metabolism youre supposed to eat lots of meats and in the first hour you wake up eat something(it helps your metabolism so your body doesnt think ur fasting.. aka "break-the-fast" breakfast..) drink lots of water, it helps control your hunger, like before you eat, drink a lot and it will make you less hungry.
one more thing: make sure u keep working out! im 15/f 5"6 and at the beginning of the year i was 120 lbs. just from running and working out and playing sports i lost 10 lbs.
anyways hope i helpd!
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Advicenators!
Ive started taking dance clas for an hour every morning, & its intense & my whole bodys sore! Especially my legs. We streth before & evrything so im assuming its good soreness. Anyway, how do i ease the pain? I dont want to be sore all summer! Advil/heating? Any tips, let me know! Thanks! (link)
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stretch a lot! but dont over do it before. but usually you're sore when you first start exercising hard the first few times, after that your body will get used to it. don't worry too much it shouldnt last long
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I'm been bouncing up and down with my self confidence. I just truly wish i was less shy....I am talk I am black im smart and its hard to feel comfortable with myself and feel normal. How can i jus loosen up im kinda up tight and it bugs me but i jus wish i was more comfortable how can i do that? Please dont jus say let loose and love urself its easier said then done. (link)
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im kinda going through the same thing!
so sorry if this isnt the best advice but usually you're more uptight the more you think and the only way to not think and let loose if to feel comfotable, which seems to be hard fro you too.
so usually when im around friends the easiest way to let loose is to listen to music, trust me it helps a lot! if you sing to it, even if its out of your comfort zone you can act goofy with it or w.e you want, but it should help a lot. try it!
and boosting ur self confidence level, im like that too. you just learn to live with it and think about how blessed you are and the good things you have in life compared to others.
anyways hope i helped!
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Well my boyfriend has a wart on his finger. I was just wondering if he fingers me can I get warts....down there?
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well from my own experience warts are superrrr contagious so i dont think you'll even want to take a chanace with that. imean if it did happen wouldnt it also feel awkward knowing he has a wart on his finger too?
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