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14/f

Well, i started at a new private highschool this year and i've met alot of new people. In this pool of new people, there's one i think about all the time: We'll call him John.

So, i just met him this year and he's kinda quiet and shy around people he doesn't know well. But he does have a lot of friends and he's well known throughout the grade because he is just so cute. Some girls go right up to him and tell him he looks like a cute lil teddybear and how adorable he is. He just kinda shrugs it off and smiles a little. Of course, I've never dared to do this.

But anyways, back to the point. I really really like him. He's in 4 of my classes, and at my new school we have three classes a day and on one day i have all three classes with him. So we've become friends and can talk to eachother comfortably in school and sometimes out of school. Now, it used to be me starting all the conversations- but i've noticed lately he's been starting them too. On a certain day when i have spanish then modern history, we always walk with eachother from the 3rd floor down to the first. I try to hint that i like him, i smile alot and make eyecontact. The only signs i've been getting back are a few times i've caught him looking at me, and he walks with me to some of our classes, and we usually end up next to eachother when we're leaving one of our classes to go to the next. I dont know if its just coincidence, or if he's doing it, because i of course am also kind of shy and wont take the initiative to stay back a bit for fear that it will seem too obvious. ( although i do do this sometimes) An one time, just recently, it was a day where we usually walk from spanish to history together...and i was running a little late from Spanish and he was already out the door, and i turned to look at the door way and his head popped in, our eyes met, then he left. I wasnt sure what that was all about.
But though he is shy, he does talk to alot of other girls. He knows alot of people, and people tlak to him and he talks to them.

(( Sorry this is long ))

But we talk at least once a day and we joke around with eachother and he makes me laugh alot. I know i like him alot...but do you think he likes me back? Thanks for your help! (link)
i kinda think he does just by the way you describe the way you guys talk to each other and how much you guys are around each other, but what you can do is relax always be relaxed and get to know each other better get into a personal subject with one another so that you guys can learn to trust each other TRUST is one of the main things that makes a good relation ship.. and you obviously like him alot.. so do that and then maby in the future when you guys are closer and hang out a fare bit .. give big hints and ask him who he has his eye on you will notice him get nervouse and say no one if he likes you and hes shy but he also might want to play hard to get with you to see if you will fall for him but what he dosnt know is that you already have.. just relax dont put to much
effort into it because you could get stressed out .. do what makes you truly happy :)

no problem about it being long more info makes the question easyer to answer .. i hope i helps.. byee

15/m


I'm writing this because I seriously need help.I like this boy,but he dosen't seem to notice me.At one point,I think he wanted to go out with me.(Long story). But,now I can't even get him to look at me! What should I do to get him to notice me? (link)
relax give it time he will come to you if it is ment to happen
or you could go to him let him know how you feel .. not right up front but just get to know him beter TRUST each other.. any relationship needs trust dont sweat things like this you sound nice so its only a matter of time he gets a knok on his door and relizes its u standing on the other side


15/f

so i just found out the love of my life is goin away for 6 months. we were together for a month then we broke up but we still acted like we were together u know kissing and everything. he told me today that he was goin away. he wants to have sex and so do i but do you think this is rite?? so you think im gonna git my heart broken? all my friends think so but thats just because they dont know him. by the way im a virgin so this will be my first time. PLEASE HELP!!!! (link)
not nessasarly a good idea.. hes going away if you lose your virginity to him you will mostlikly become very atached ( all the girls i know have and it got messy when the guy ditched them ) not saying hes ditching you but.. you can wait .. no need to rush, if you love each other and acually LOVE him then obviously your going to see him again .. i wouldnt do it iam a virgin to and i have somone on my mind but you just have to wait for the right time, be smart


15/m


theres a guy whos in my math class who sits near me. He sometimes talks to me. Hes the kinda of guy whos just there. I dont feel too enrvous around him either. he often looks over at me and smiles at me a lot. He sat by me at lunch a few times, and i thought he was sitting by me cause there were his friends there. But I know his those arent the friends he talks to. so im kinda confused. he continues to stare at me often. any advice? thanks :) (link)
somone seems to have a crush on you ;) take advantage of the situation in a positive way get to know him maby somthing will happen it can never hurt to have another lover or friend in your life.. do what makes you happy.. he seems nice and he obviously likes you alot


Do you have to be a certain age to purchuse a vibrator im 14, and if so...where can i go to get one? (link)
you dont nessasarly have to purchuse a vibrator just yet considering your underage, im sure you can find house hold objects that you can use just put condom over things..i know it might sound grose but it could work for now,not having a professionaly made masterbating tool is not the end of the world so explore try things out buy somthing you are able to buy at your age.. somthing close to it theres objects that could be fun and exciting


how do i take my bestfriend back into my life again.. :( this is not the first time that this happend she forgived me alot of times but this time she got fed up now i have a really big problem because i did this.

i ending up telling someone... When i talked to her she just said that "i don't think you can earn it back" :( but shes open to be mutual friends and its up to me if i want to catch her the last words i heard from her is "catch me if you can" the hardest is I'AM FALLING FOR MY BESTFRIEND!!! pls... she means alot to me I'll do anything just to be with her i feel so empty without her i don't care if wer just friends or shes my girlfriend bottom line is im with her Plzzz.......give me advice to what to do.. :( (link)
let her know all this stuff and that you feel poorly that you dont have her as a friend anymore because if you guys were best friends at one point you guys will be bestfriends again they dont call them the BEST friends for no reason

then when you guys are friends again its up to you to ask or notice how she feels if its an open door go in and let her know how you feel about her interms of falling for her
dont sweat it shes probly just fustrated at the time she will soon see that you guys are good friends and it will be back to normal again





what does "playing tonsil hockey" mean? how do you play?? (link)
kissing,making out agressivly, not so much fun with somone you show affection for its not a fun game but also when people say it they could also be exadurating its. its basicly were you stick ur tounge down somone elses throught :P


over the summer....i met a boy. we liked each other and made out the swimming pool, bedroom, basicly all the time. We weren't bf/gf though (i was single)

I go back to his house about to get jumped by a girl who was his girl-friend. Is it my fault for not asking him if he had a gf of his fault for not telling me. i have been so depressed since then....i can't get over him, he seemed so perfect. (link)
definetly his,he must have hinted that he liked you at sompoint witch probly made you asume he was single i dont think thats fair for you or his girlfriend and if i was his girlfriend i would be beating him up not you, but yes definetly his fault dont blame ur self for that, and about him being perfect.. Not a chance if he screwed up that bad.. thats terrable for a guy to do it bothers me alot.. hope i helped you out..

15/m



14/f

Ok, I have dated this boy on and off since the fourth grade. Well the last time we dated was for 6 months steady... The last time I broke up with him he said he didn't have feelings for me anymore. For some reason I think he has feelings for me because we have been doing this for years. How do I find out if he still likes me without asking him or having my friends ask him. I of course still like him, but don't know what his feelings are... I need to know so I can eighter let out or try once more... PLEASE anything would be helpful, PLEASE help me!!! (link)
Ok, being a guy my self at the age of 15 if he likes you he would love to here that you care enough to ask if he likes you back .. im the oposite im really scetchy and sweat little things so if he likes you im positive he would be happy to know that your wondering how he is feeling,however dont get your friend to do it.. it would mean more to him if you confronted him yourself and you would feel beter about your decision

first loves are always the hardest you guys sound like me an a gurl im crazy about so iam more than happy to help you with your questions :)




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