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who's fault


Question Posted Friday November 17 2006, 7:52 pm

over the summer....i met a boy. we liked each other and made out the swimming pool, bedroom, basicly all the time. We weren't bf/gf though (i was single)

I go back to his house about to get jumped by a girl who was his girl-friend. Is it my fault for not asking him if he had a gf of his fault for not telling me. i have been so depressed since then....i can't get over him, he seemed so perfect.


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ManDA_Lee answered Sunday November 19 2006, 4:12 pm:
i would say that it's his fault. it is not your fault at all because guys always do that to girls. they take a great girl out, think they can go twofaced. and then boom things wreck. it would have only been your fault if you knew he had a girlfriend. but you didn't so he can't blame that on you.

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xostarbrightbaby answered Saturday November 18 2006, 12:32 am:
It`s his fault! He didn`t even tell you. Don`t blame yourself and feel depressed about it. He`s not worth it. Hope things get better for you. ♥

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disasterxwoah answered Friday November 17 2006, 11:42 pm:
How were you to know ? It's his fault. He should have told you that he had a girlfriend before anything ever happened. He seemed perfect on the outside.. but think of it this way. If he did that to his girlfriend. Went behind her back and made out with you without saying anything, do you think he wont do it again ? Once a skumbag always a skumbag. That perfect guy had a major set-back. He baiscly cheated on his girlfriend, hmm.. not so perfect anymore. Don't be drepressed over it, it was a mistake. You didn't know any better. Don't blame yourself. You didn't know, the guy should have told you.. balme him & totally not yourself.

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t0xicParadiSe answered Friday November 17 2006, 11:13 pm:
It's not your fault at all. It's his. He was supposed to tell you he had a girlfriend, not just hook up with you. When you two hooked up, I'm sure you assumed that he was single. Don't be depressed over this, he's not worth it.

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clueless answered Friday November 17 2006, 9:18 pm:
definetly his,he must have hinted that he liked you at sompoint witch probly made you asume he was single i dont think thats fair for you or his girlfriend and if i was his girlfriend i would be beating him up not you, but yes definetly his fault dont blame ur self for that, and about him being perfect.. Not a chance if he screwed up that bad.. thats terrable for a guy to do it bothers me alot.. hope i helped you out..

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HypnotizexMe answered Friday November 17 2006, 9:14 pm:
its deff his fault. ifh e had a gf he would have told u. i mean how are YOU supposed to know if hes being all nice to you? lol so dont blame yourself :]

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Jolly337 answered Friday November 17 2006, 8:15 pm:
ok first of all its his fault becuase he didnt tell you and second of all you shouldnt of been around just kissing a boy every where ok so. Thats all i can tell ya

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karenR answered Friday November 17 2006, 8:11 pm:
I think when a guy is putting the moves on you, most girls will just assume he isn't attatched. I think its the two timing guys fault myself. Don't blame yourself. :)

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