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16/f
my parents keep such a strict eye on me, and i really just want to have fun. i got caught in my friend's car a couple of weeks ago when she was still on JOL, so i was grounded and now they're keeping an even closer watch on me.
tomorrow night, my friend is having a sort of party and i want to go. there will be alcohol there, and i want to have some to let loose and have fun. i don't know what to say to my parents, because i know they'll call me to ask what i'm doing and thoroughly question me. they need to let me make my own mistakes, but they don't understand that.
any advice on what to do about tomorrow night and in the future with my parents?
Thank you

I think you should lay low, they're only trying to protect you. and you're only sixteen. Not that I know any better, but I know that I would rather take the restriction, than ending up in Juvi... but make your own mistakes...

you only live once.
:D

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Okay so, Saturday was Old Home Day and at the moment Steven was dating becky a really close friend of mine but she really never liked him. Well they broke up the same day, and Steven ended up saying right infront of me to Abby that if I asked him out seriously he would have a hardtime saying no to me. and I guess all day we were flirting and everything.
I told a lot of people the day and the key points that they lovee to throw in my face cuz I say we werent flirting is
--I played with his feet.
--Wore his sweatshirt.
--Played Mercy and lost miserably.
--Jumped on his back to get back for losing Mercy.
--He baught me french fries and the guy behind the counter was like "You have your boyfriend rapped around finger." and I was like =Ohes not my boyfriend.
--We shared the couch together very nicely lol.

i didnt know i was 'flirting' at the time... and I donno if he thinks I like him but everyones saying that he likes me.. I donno.
I guess flirting is wanting to keep his attention all the time which i guess im good at and he never complained. and he was talking about him and me and group people going over his house to watch a bunch of scary movies and NO. I hate scary movies becuase im the girl in the back screaming her head off and Ill probably grab the first person and cuddle with. Told Becky that and she said that that is probably what he wants.
I donno if I like Steven. I love spending time with him, I hate it when he picks me up, and I scream bloody murder right in his ear to get him to put me down. He's always making me laugh and I dont need to watch what i do with him I ust do it.
I thought thats what friends were... but Im wrong. By A Lot.
What do I do? What relationship do we have Kimberly calls us Flirt Buddies. and, I donno how to act around him now.

Well if you like him, let him know...
and if you don't , than let him know..
Flirt Buddies? Thats like lame, as saying
Fuck buddies? maybe HAHA.

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So they have the new text book online at www.go.hrw.com BUT the code my teacher gave us is JUST for social studies!!! Help i was going to get my science homework off line.

SO what is the pass/username for the science section please try to help me before tomorow. THANKS

haha, i don't even start school for another 2 weeks.
weird. and that site i have never heard of.

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hello. well i have the Vintage MetalAxxe Warp guitar, but the black and yellow model, which has seemed to dissapear off the face of the earth. By that, to find any info on it, is impossible, as there is none on the internet. All that i seem to find is the black, or black and white models. Can anyone point me in the direction of a website selling this model, or give me a rough price for how much they think its worth (i am looking to sell it). cheeers :D

i seriously can't find it, but would guess around 1200$ maybe. :D

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I recently decided to start a notebook to help me through my days, especially at school when I get frustrated and feel like I have nowhere else to turn. Right now I have a five-subject notebook that I plan on working on tonight to get started for tomorrow. I want to divide my notebook accordingly to focus on different spiritual areas. I was thinking to have one section for verses, one for prayer and maybe one for reflection.

Does anyone have any suggestions about sections or just keeping up a prayer journal in general?

I keep a prayer journal some days.
But others I just vent in my journal *regular journal*, and sometimes to my boyfriend.

But maybe try your sections that you have, and use the rest for doodling... maybe? :]

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practically all my friends are sexually active and im not, ive never had sex. but i dont feel like i really fit in, unless i change my mind set to their perverted minds. like i have to act and talk like them to fit in. but im against that kind of stuff with my beliefs and stuff. so what do i do, continue being friends with those kind of people or make friends who are a little more pg? but its only adultry that im against and almost everyone in highschool talks about who they did, and im just a virgin :/

friends and sex,
well I would have to say. Try going your own way for a while, you shouldn't always be worrying whats going to happen either. I have a belief in God.
And so do a lot of people out there, but others chose to hide, and fuck around fitting in, sometimes you think its worth it, but in 5 years when all your friends leave you, or get killed. it's really not.

Just don't listen to what other people say, keep contact with your friends, just branch out and find some friends who aren't into sex until after marriage or whatever! :]

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is that unhealthy?
because i prefer to sleep in tampons, but i also end up over using them. if i wear pads, ill bleed all over the bed.

well, why don't you sleep in a tampon..
while a liner/pad under? thats what I do ROFL.
and it works for me.

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I'm a girl and i'm 13.. So there is a lot of drama in my grade... Anyway... I have a friend that is a boy and we always just hang out and talk... Like, i tell him all of my secrets cause i know he won't judge me or go tell everybody and talk about me behind my back.. Well, today, one of his other friends came up and told me that he liked me and wanted to go out with me... I like him too, but i also don't want to ruin our friendship when it don't work out.. (I'm an 8th grader.. Unless it is some meant to be together sort of thing... we will probably break up some day!!) Anyway.. I also like another boy. but i don't think he likes me.. Any tips? First, what should i do about my friend and what do i do about my "crush?" Please help me!!!!!!

Crush,
you're thirteen years old. i am seventeen years old and I still have these little problems all the time, if you like him. save if for highschool, because it will be worse if you go out, and than try to be friends if the relationship doesn't work. trust me. and it will hurt, completely. :[

so, just try and be friends, and just see what happens, experiment? that won't kill. but don't pour grass poison,over the trees.

:]

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Well...

My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex, However I am on the Marena IUD "form of birth control" 99 percent effective. During sex I came and he didn't I was just wondering if it was still possible to become pregnant.


Thank you

BahaiMa22

BahaiMa22,
I would say it's possible because some people think anything is possible. but living today, I wouldn't think it. have you missed periods? how long has it been? Because maybe you could be.

Try talking to a family planning consultant. and if you can't get to one, try a close friend or relative. :]

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i am 20 years old and i have never madeout with a guy and i am still a virgin and everything. I have kissed a guy but no tongue action. ITs not that i am ugly or anything, it`s just because i havn`t really found anyone or whatever. Sometimes i am kind of embarrased because i never have but do u think guys care if i am a virgin or whatever or do they prefer that because then i am sort of like untouched or do they think that i am a loser because i am still a virgin at 20 and still never madeout with anyone???
Plz Help. Thanks!

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.
And if people don't accept you for that, then they aren't human. Don't get bent out of shape, it will happen when it's the right time. and with the right person!

:]

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Okay so I've already asked a question regarding organization for school. I went to Staple's and I bought 2 5-Subject notebooks and a binder for math.

I was thinking about using 1 of the 5subject notebooks for Chemistry and English, and then the other for History and French, but I'm not sure how to split it up. Any ideas?

yeah, you might run out of paper...
but just split them up 2 sections for each,
and use the other one for whatever one comes across?

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i dont know if this is weird but i love talking to random people. not like, aol chat rooms where you talk for 2 seconds and then someone ims you wanting sex from you but just casual conversation. are there any websites that are safe and let you talk to people your age (16-18years old)??

p.s. i really love talking to foreign people. like from england, ireland or france (i speak some french)

You can go to all kinds of Pen Pal sites.
Or you could go to the usual myspace or facebook.
the question is about being safe? whatever information you give out, is the call. if you give random information out, that lets people know where you are from, and how old you are and where you live? or your cell phone number? thats the question. just don't tell anybody who you are unless, you know them...

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so my boyfriend and I goof around a lot and yesterday he was asking me like lets just try to have sex and if it hurts i'll stop
the thing is im a virgin and he isn't and hasn't ever taken anyones virginity away so would it pop my cherry right away?

Well I agree with everything everybody else has said. But only have sex if you really feel the need of it, and want to experience it. If you just wanna do it, because he's pressuring you? Than Don't. And use protection of some sort, even if he doesn't want to. because all it takes is one, and you could be a changed person completely.... if you know what I mean, not that that helped at all..

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For a couple of days now my hard drive has made the weirdest noises. I'm really worried, it makes like a buzzing sound, or something. I can't really explain the sound but it just makes one, what should I do? One day it started making the sound, then a while later it did it again, if the computer is on for a while, it makes the sound. I really don't want to get a new hard drive so can anyone name possibilities of why this happens or tell me what to do?

well for starters you could try turning your computer off for awhile. you shouldn't be on the computer spontaneously. & try to get it looked at in the near future before school starts.

-A.

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I am looking for a phone number for the Spirit of Milwaukee dinner cruise. I cannot seem to find it since the number listed on the website is not working. Please and thank you!(This is for my boyfriend..for our 1 year)

aw; I hope you find the answer. That's wicked cute.

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ok basically, i dont know how to makeout. i was at this one party the other night, and i hooked-up with this one kid, and not to mention this was likemy first time ever. haha i felt so stupid cause i was like doing the same thing over and over, but he was out of it so he really doesnt remember and cant give me pointers. but like, we started out slow, and then went into it. haha i kissed him like a cat drinks milk or something back and forth with tounge, i didnt know what else to do? and also, it was like really sloppery? is it normal to get like saliva around the outside of your mouth when you kiss? and please give me pointers on what i can do next time?! thanks soo much, i REALLY appreciate it! :]

Well I had gotten saliva on the outside when my ex & I kissed. But I guess that's common for some people and not common for some people. Some guys like tongue; others don't. My advice would be to use less tongue next time. If you do encounter a next time.

Hope I helped. ;)
-A.

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17/m If i'm a virgin, how long will i last my first time

Like that other person said; I guess it all depends on the type of person you are. I hope that you figure out if you really want this if you are a virgin. I`m 16/f & I can proudly say I`m a virgin.. not that it's by choice. I just haven't met the perfect somebody yet. & if you think shes the one. than you go hun. :)

Not that I helped any but; much love.
-a.

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my brother had this little tiny paper bag in his car which is now my car, the little container paper bag, is all different colors and it has like indian? writing printed on it, and all different colors, at first i thought it was a fire work, but i opened it, and it had a whole bunch of rolled sticks, kind of like joints but pretty small, but instead of like white paper there wrapped in like a dry green leaf, and i can feel something inside them, are they joints? or something else? , please only answer if you know what your talking about, or have messed with drugs before?

i would say that those are joints.
i`ve been around that stuff. not that'
i`m a pot head or anything.
but i would say they are joints hun.

=] if it smells like it,
if it looks like it,
and acts like it.
its probablly a joint.

-hope i helped.
♥ MandA lEe,

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Ok I feel i have to be perfect. I have to get straight As and everything and yes I DO want to get straight As but my parents get disappointed when i get like a B on my test cuz everything has to be an A and Im find as long as my final grade is an A. This one girl (who Im slowly distancing myself from because shes not respect to me, etc) was like "OMG SARAH GOT A C ON A TEST?" I was like "Whatever, I still have an A"

But in my one class I got a B, so now I have to get another A to get an A for the last semester and my dad is really putting pressure on me and I DO want to get an A (I get upset if I dont) but this year has been really negative this year and I feel overwhelmed and everything. I just want to cry because my dad got sick, i really have no true friends or anything,and i feel lonely.

and i have talked to my mom about this and shes like "No we arent." Ack. what should i do?

"Sarah" is it?,
what i would tell you is that life isn't about being perfect. and you shouldn't have to feel like it is. and your parents pressuring you trust me, i know what thats like. because my parents don't pressure me at all, i kind of wish i could get some acknowledgment some of the time. But, listen things will work out for you.

I would write down your thoughts, so that you aren't so closed up and coming to this darn site for answers. because when i re-read my entrys, i find my answers.. lol. =]

-hope i helped.
♥ MandA lEe.=]

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ok sorry in advance if this takes a while...
f/13

ok so i was best friend with this girl all thru 7th grade (now im in 8th)...like really really close. long story short, we spent a little 2 much time together over the summer, started getting in a lot of fites, and basicly 1 day she decided she didnt want to be as close ne more. we never stopped completely being friends cause A. we go to the same camp and skool and B. we are in the same "group" of friends. obviously, we got in a big fite about it at first, and some aftershocks for the next month or so, but after a while we calmed down into like just ok-friends mode. well a few weeks ago she told me she missed me and i told her i missd her 2 so now we stuck on the label "best friends" for a few days. but it felt like it was just a label cuz nuthin rele changed so we kinda demoted ourselves bak down. now lately, neither of us has said n e thing, and maybe im just over-reacting, but it feels like we mite b getting closer. we (plus her boyfriend and another of her close friends) went to the movies yesterday, and today i called her and we talked about nuthin for the first time in gosh knows how long. i mean it was only for like 10 minutes, and it was a little strained at times, but it still happened.
now i really miss her, and have for the past few weeks. i dont want to like talk to her about it (as u can see our relationship is complicated enough as it is) so what do i do?

any help appreciated! thanks!

hey there hun,
okay listen these sort of things happen all the time. and i guarentee that somebody else is going through the same thing. if you guys got into a huge fight. and you guys can't work it out than thats when you should be asking stuff like this. but i see that you don't know what to do. what i think is that you shoudl talk to her , because you telling us is like talking behind her back. and if she found out she'd be even more pissed off.


i would say that you shoudl definetely talk to her about this.


♥ MandaLEe.
-hope i helped.

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