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Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

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O.k. I have a.d.d. and all my teachers Know it, but they push me to hard. I told them about my issue just in case they forgot, but they still push me to hard. Should I tell my parents? One of my teachers was going to give me a d-hall for talking, which iz stupid. Wat should i do about all of this? Sighned, Confused

The reason they probably do this is because 20% of kids under 17 have ADD. they are probly really sick of hearing that from all their students since it is not that big of a problem. I personally think you can still do as well as anyone else, but make sure it is just add and not adhd
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Ok!
My friend always texts me on my phone! And we were on the phone w/ a boy the other nite! So yesterday i got this text from my friend saying that the boy we were talking to ( that i like ) said i was annoying! i was like no! She then texts me saying i was jk! I was like ooooo! SHe does it a lot and it is really annoying is it normal 4 me to be mad at her! cause she does it at least twice a day!

Taller

It is normal for friends to get into arguements, but not all the time. Ask her not to do that anymore, and if she respects you she will stop. If not, then it is possible you two are falling apart, which is also sad, but unfortunately normal. I hope everything works out alright
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I recently was told by a doctor I have an eating disorder. I'm 5'7", and weight 105 lbs. She said I am still growing and should weigh about 125. I haven't had my period for like 7 months!! I told my doctor that too. But, the thing is, I didn't start losing weight until November. My mom's gonna take me to a nutritionist soon to tell me how I should be eating. But I'm scared I messed up my body & will never get my period back, or that I caused my breasts to never grow again. Could I have caused those 2 things? PLEASE be HONEST! Thanks

Don't worry about your breasts or period. Worry about getting healthy. A few months back (i'm 5'6) i weighed 90 pounds, and my period stopped and i had no boobs. Once you get to your correct weight, i promise you'll be okay. everything went completely normal for me and my figure is actually curvier than a lot of girls and i get my period every month, i have no doubt in my mind all will go well for you too.
Hope you get better
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hi . ok well here it goes. im 14 and i have been going out with this guy named anthony , he's 16. we have been going out for a month and ive practically fallen in love with him . and he's like in love with me . well he is on probation for burglary and he told me he is not that kind of person anymore . and i said to him that if you mess up then i cant be with you. he understood and said ok. well before he met me he's done some crazy things. one of them is drugs. pot , coke , x , etc. well i told him i dont want him doing ANY of that because i hate drugs and a lot of my friends have gotten hurt and i love him to much to see that happen to him. so last night we were on the phone and we were watching cops and they did sum drug bust. and it was coke . and he's like "yea i did that a couple days ago". i got really pissed and yelled and screamed and started crying. and like he promised me he would never do that and he says he loves me and would do anything for me , but my relationship feels like a big lie. i really need some help or someone normal to talk to because my friends are all messed up to like that. im not that kind of person. he said "i have not found anyone yet like me" and im like "well if yout hought i was that kind of person , then your wrong." he said a lot more but theres to much to type. someone IM me at xIxMissthugxIx@aol.com . someone please help me with this.

I know a lot of people like this, you have to be strict. If you really love him and know you will last after this, put it on a break. Tell him he needs to prove that he will stop doing this for you because you really care about him. You are completely right for being upset, but you do need to set ground rules for the relationship, and if he loves you back, he will make a few changes, but it won't be easy for him, so don't get too worked up if he is only slowly improving. Just like in the movie Grease, people change for love
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This is really random but im going on a school overnight trip tomorrow for 5 days and they said we can bring music but i cant think of any! does anyone know any really good songs? I like emo music ..thanks

for emo music, probably get some old school stuff like pearl jam and stuff. i personally think that the best emo song is Nothing Else Matters by Metallica. But you might wanna widen the variety so you don't get bored.
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(14/f)
The problem is I have this boyfriend, who i care about a lot.. but.. i think he im starting to not like him like that anymore.. there are some problems.. like he wont talk to me or anything!! hes like the shyest person in the world when hes around me and i hate it!! cause when hes with other people hes like crazy.. how can i make a break up... so we can still be friends or at least talk to eachother..??

be honest with him...but not blunt. Tell him that you are only fourteen and you would really like to experience what it's like with other guys. I have the same problem breaking up with guys, but let him know you still want to be friends, like ask him to go with you to movies with a group of friends or whatever
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Ok here it goes.. sometime when i get depressed from school (either from friends or sumting else) my way to get over it is to eat. Sometimes when im not depressed i eat anywayz. When my mom goes on walks, i eat more and she doesnt know. I want ot lose wait but i know if i start eating right it would help alot! do you know how to make me stop eating all this junk!?!?!
please help me!

well, to do that, i smoke. But that is bad. Actually, and ironically, the best alternative to eating is excercizing. I know it sounds totally condradictory, but i promise it will help. I hope this helped somewhat
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ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them?

ummm, no. But you can tell someone you trust. If your b/f finds out you were out showing off about having sex with him, he'll probly be pissed. Unless the two of you decided that you can tell people, respect what you two have privately.
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My boyfriend says that I ignore him! And I don't think I am! I talk to him whenever I see him and between almost every class and everything! I dunno if because usually my friends are around he doesn't want to talk or what. I've tried talking to him more and talking to him when no one else is around. Is he just like really shy or what? Cause it's like really annoying when he says that I don't talk to him or else I ignore him! Help!

Ok, what i used to do to give my boyfriend attention kinda worked. During lunch, we would go say hi to everyone, talk for a minute, then go get our own table so we could talk. Don't just small talk either. Find out some deep stuff about him. It really works, i promise. Don't call him, tell him he can call you, but do not call him, he'll think your obsessive. Hope this helps
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For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!

*no style*

Its a song by green day, i just dunno wat it's called
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Ok, ok. I admit it. I'm not eating enough. But no one will leave me alone about it! I have this one teacher who's about to call my mom. I seriously don't want to eat more, but if everyone (like my mom) gets on my case about it, I will have no choice! I'm doing well losing weight! I have never looked better! And if everyone gets involved I'm gonna gain it back. Everyone always asks "What did you eat today" And when I say "nothing" they get all mad. How do I get them to leave me alone? (Please don't be like everyone else and tell me it's not good for me) I just want to know how to get them off my back. I would lie but I'm a bad liar. Thanks.

Can i be honest. I don't think you have a disorder because you are admitting it. I had an extreme eating disorder but it took me 2 1/2 years after i got over it to even admit i was skinny at the time. I think you might either be jsut experimenting, or possibly lying, but i don't know you so i cannot say, but just if people ask, tell them to fuck off cuz it's none of there business
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My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way??

just say it. if you are trying to have an indepth conversation and he just jokes around just say 'i'm serious' and give him a look that lets him know. if that is his only problem then he sounds like an overall good boyfriend, but try to let him know that that is the only thing bugging you about him, but seem happy about everything else he does.
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I’m female, 15, and I hate everything about my family, I’ve always been rejected and pushed aside and neglected, my brother is the center of everyone’s life because he is such an asshole, my parents give him whatever he wants because they can’t stand to hear him rage and scream and say everything bad and hateful he could possibly say. I think they give him such free rein because he has turrets or however the hell you spell it and they just blame his bad behavior on it. They have always been too focused on trying to help my lying, trouble making, hates-the-world, asshole of a brother, so I can never feel anything- they can’t deal with me being sick, or sad, or angry, because they can’t help me, they’ve stopped trying because as soon as their attention would switch over my brother would do something and start screaming and saying shit about me, and how much he hated me and my parents and that everyone else does everything wrong, not him. My parents won’t get him help, they now take their anger at him out on me, they yell and scream at me when I tell them what I think of my brother and how I think they’re doing stuff wrong with him and how he needs help, my dad always punishes him at the wrong time when he’s actually calm, he can never say anything right to my brother, and then they ask me to go give him food or ask him stuff and my brother takes shit out on me. I hate everything about my family, I’m tired of being pushed around and neglected, and they’re making me into a person I hate, what can I do that doesn’t involve anything that costs money? because I’m not that rich. Plz help me, I’m honestly ready to kill myself.

i know that it must be really difficult since your parents are focussing more on helping him then helping you, because your problem probably isn't as obvious as his. The best advice i can give you is to see a school counsoler. They never really helped me but i do know they helped a lot of people and they don't cost any money, wats the worst that could happen if you saw him. i also must say i respect you for trying to find help before commiting suicide. That is the only crime you can commit without being able to seek repentence, so don't do it please. I hope everything works out ok
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Ok .. i SUCK at cooking.. i try SO hard to bake cookies, cakes, and brownies but i cant they taste soo bad!! idk wat to do.. PLEASE HELP!

Anyone can cook, just make sure you read the directions and follow them perfectly, in time you'll be able to cook things from scratch. You might not be patient enough, i have a patience problem with cooking too if you do!
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16 female
Ok Huge problem!! I am dating a freshman and I am a junior. Some of my friends are cool w/ it others are a litle bit weird. My dad thinks its cool but my mom told me I should be careful . And then a couple day ago I got a call for one of my old friends. I had so much more in common w/ this kid. I was talking to him and realized how much I liked him!! I don't know what to do!!

So should I stay w/ the freshman or break up w/ him and date this other guy??

There is nothing wrong with dating someone younger, boys do that with girls all the time and no one thinks twice about it. I think you have feelings for your friend maybe because you are trying to find a reason to break up with the freshman, but i think you should stick with him. Good Luck Hun
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i like this boy and so does my BESTFRIEND and like its really weird because i liked him for the longest time and she just started loiking him but she acts like she called him or something and i really dont know what to do ?? will you help me!

Never let a boy get in the way of a friendship, true, boys are important, but you'll eventually get a new one you like and so will your friend. If you like him that much, tell her and say how important it is to you, if she is really your best friend she will understand and back off unless the boy does like her and not you, then you have to give up. Hopefully everything works out, good luck
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Anyone know any ways to fix short curly hair?

I think one of the cutest looks, is if it's long enough, two short pigtails really curly. If you can't, then you could try the whole thing Christina Aguilera is going for with the sheek short curls which look absolutely adorable.
Hope I helped a little
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on a minimum, how much are u supossed to drink daily?

If you mean like alcahol, then maybe one glass of wine is actually good for your heart, if you mean like water, about four glasses of something.
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okay so there is this guy that i like and i don't know himt hat well yet but i would like to get to know him how should i approach him or introduce myself to him? without feeling stupid?

Just go up to him and start talking. Guys like that kinda thing. With me, i just tell a guy i think his eyes are really pretty, sometimes i'll tell a guy with pretty eyes that anyways, but if you tell him that that'll start some sort of conversation without feeling stupid
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i was wonderin' if anyone knew any fun websites to go on because it starts to get a little boring going on the same website. Thanx a bunch

Gurl.com Bored.com, hotmail.com, happytreefriends.com, ebaumsworld.com, funnyjunk.com those are my favs
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