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(14/f)
The problem is I have this boyfriend, who i care about a lot.. but.. i think he im starting to not like him like that anymore.. there are some problems.. like he wont talk to me or anything!! hes like the shyest person in the world when hes around me and i hate it!! cause when hes with other people hes like crazy.. how can i make a break up... so we can still be friends or at least talk to eachother..??
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i think you should tell him the truth. tell him you think yall would be better as friends and you want to see where things will go with yall as just firends. Hope this helped!
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Well I dont think breaking up with him is really the right thing to do, but if you dont like him anymore it is the right thing to do. But I think the problem is you dont want to be his girlfriend because hes boring and is way to shy around you and is fun around his friends. But if you knew how he felt,its prolly like his first real girlfriend and he doesnt know how to act around her..like wether to hold your hand, give you a goodbye kiss, stuff like that. Girls mature a lot quicker give the boy some time, he'll come around if hes interested in you, maybe you should try and break his shyness.
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I know that he may be driving you crazy, but it may just be because he is really nervous that he'll make a mistake or not meet your expectations. Try talking to him before you definetly decide to break up, tell him exactly how you feel and what you think is going on. Ask him to explain why he's been acting the way he has. Then once he responds, try working through the problems because if you don't try fixing it first, your taking the easy way out and that is how most divorces are decided. Soz know itz deep but hey you gotta start somewhere :-)
Then if he still is buggin you, get him on his own and tell him that as much as you like him, you think that you work better as friends than as boyfriend and girlfriend. Hopefully he'll take it well. Then you need to give him some space to move on. After 2 weeks or so, try talking to him and invite him to go to the cinema with you and some of both of your mates. In time you'll talk more and get used to being just friends.
Good luck honey
Claire xx
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You need to talk to him and tell him.Say something like...you realize the bf/gf thing didn't work out but you really would like to stay friends. See how it goes.
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Can you believe that I've had that exact same problem?
What I did was I explained to the guy that I wasn't quite sure I knew him very well because he was so shy around me (this might not work if you have known him for a while), so I wasn't quite sure if I could date him comfortable. I said that we should probably start out as friends, and if our relationship builds from there and we start dating again, then there we go, no harm, and if we simply stay friends, then again, there's no harm.
If you really like him, though, you should talk to him outright on his shyness. Don't give up because things aren't going your way.
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wll you could say i have to talk to you so i am going to call you tonigh, then you explain why you want to breack up with him. BUT make share you do it solw and easy and not mean like and tell him don't get made i hope we can still be friends.
i hope it went well.
(ryans gurl)
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hey it savannah well i deffinatly had this problem before just like a week ago i talked to muh ex boii freind in person and told him that i just dont feel the same way about u as i did when we first started going out and just tell him you still want to be freinds! it should work ...what ever yyou do dont say it infront of anyone and dont be a bitch of he will hate you
hope i helped ...xoxoxo
write back
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Go like: " Ok I really like you but i think you are just to shy to talk to me!
I hope we can still be friends.
But if you also like me alot and still want us to go back out... i think you should start acting like you act around your frinds... like i'm your best friends!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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be honest with him...but not blunt. Tell him that you are only fourteen and you would really like to experience what it's like with other guys. I have the same problem breaking up with guys, but let him know you still want to be friends, like ask him to go with you to movies with a group of friends or whatever
Lizzy
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An easy to let him go is for you to say : "I think its better that we just be friends because it seems like we never talk". But you also need to consider the fact that he just doesn't have the right words to say. What you two should do is set aside some time and discuss what you think is happening between you. Who knows, you two may feel the same way.
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You should talk to him about what is going on nd why he doesn't act so goofy around you. Tell him that if it continues you don't want to date anymore. If he doesn't change anything than get rid of him. You need someone whos going to compliment you as a person, and not ignore you and not talk to you. See what he says if you tell him you want things to change or else...maybe we could be just friends....
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