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ok i have this friend and well he rlly wants to loose his virginity cause he feels weird at his age...(peer presure) and so he asked me if i would do it with him...im scared of wht ppl wouldthink (ive alraeady lost mine)...but i dnt wanna sound like a slut or anything
pleasee help me!! thnks!!
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Dont do it! Sex should mean something, this will not do anything for either of you. you will feel nothing but regret and could get a bad reputation. Explain to your friend he needs to think long and hard before giving into peer pressure as this is a desicion that has alot of consequences both mentally and physically for both of you.
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Well first your friend should keep his virginity, because its something a lot of us dont have. But talk to him and try and convince him that he should wait until the right person comes along. But if you cant convince him go ahead and do it with him, I guess it would be better to do it with a friend than a complete stranger. But in the end he'll wish he had waited, even tho he might not admit it, he will regret it. But a lot of people regret their first time,just because they realize it got them no where.
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That's no reason to have sex, peer pressure. Don't have sex with him because of that. If he begins pressuring you, forget about him.
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First, your friend should not be asking you anything like this if he has any respect for you as a person. You are not in ANY way, Shape, or form obligated to sleep with him.
Second, if your friend is really mature enough to lose his virginity, then he should be mature enough to withstand peer pressure. And unless he's like 40+ and not in the priesthood, then I don't really think a young man's virginity is an issue.
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No. That is the worst idea ever. For one he only wants to lose it because of peer pressure and secondly, you shouldn't sleep with someone unless you are in a stable relationship with them and you love them. People wouldn't think very highly of you that's for sure, definitely don't do it. Tell him to wait until he's in a good loving relationship.
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if you don't love them...don't have sex with them. If this guy is wanting to loose his virginity because of "peer pressure" he's not mature enough anyway. Stay friends and tell him not to rush into things because of what other people think. You neither!
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what the hell? Just say no, you dont just go and do it with anyone! Tell him he should at least loose it with someone special like his fiancee or keep it until he gets married. Im muslim, so we dont do it unless we're married to the person. Why loose your virginity to someone you're not sure you're gonna be with your whole life? I know you're gonna rate me really low, but Im sorry, this is the advive Im giving you.
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if this guys your friend you should tell him that he'll find someone himself. he shouldnt have put you in this positon in the first place, a first time should be something to remembee not done to just get it over with. maybe you two could go to a club and you get introduce him to girls..? hope i helped
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friends with benifits, nothing wrong with that, youre not a slut.
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say that you don't want to do it tell him that i'm srry but i don't want to do it with u but i hope we can still be friends.
bye
(ryans gurl)
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Alot of people go through this similar problem. I would listen to your heart on this one. If you honestly feel something for him thats more then just a crush then go ahead, but you shouldn't do it just so he won't feel weird. If you don't go ahead with it then just let him know your just friends, and that you hope your not doing anything with him doesnt change your friendship.
-Malicious
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Well i wouldnt do it if i was you.. i mean i know you are tryin to be a friend but sex is ment to be with somebody you care and love for more then friends.. well he could also be lying so he can fuck ya guys do those sort of things.. but i wouldnt do it hun.. much luv dez x0x0
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Well i think the first question you should ask yourself is: Am I ready? Do i want to show my body to him?
Well it also depends on your age like if you are 15 or older
Now if you are under that age i think you should reaaaaalllly wait! But if you think you are ready than gooo for it!!!!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
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You need to let him know how you feel. He can't force you to do something you don't want to do.
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Wow, you’re pretty young to have already lost your virginity. Anyway, I wouldn’t have sex with your friend just to please his needs of “losing his virginity.” All he is getting out of sleeping with you is to make himself look better, he doesn’t care about you. You should sleep with someone that you care about, that’s what makes sex good. If you’re going to sleep around please use protection, that’s my best advice for you. You really shouldn’t be having sex this young, but then again do what you want. Let me know what you end up doing. Good luck!
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