MSN: confusicus@hotmail.com
Member Since: March 9, 2005
Answers: 10
Last Update: May 10, 2005
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I really really like this guy named Brian. He's so great and we've been good friends, since 2nd grade. He told me he likes me, but he just wants a break. We danced and hung out at a dance last month, and we had a great time. We started dating then, and we just broke up the other day, because he said he thought of me more as a sister figure and not a girlfriend. I'm totally beat up over the situation, and I'm really not sure what to do. He tells me that he wants to have sex with me (which i wouldn't do, and i think he's joking) he calls me pretty all the time, and tells me he loves me. =( What should I tell him? (link)
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Tell him to fuck off. This guy is obviously sending you mixed signals and wants you only for sex. Hes a loser.
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ok i have this friend and well he rlly wants to loose his virginity cause he feels weird at his age...(peer presure) and so he asked me if i would do it with him...im scared of wht ppl wouldthink (ive alraeady lost mine)...but i dnt wanna sound like a slut or anything
pleasee help me!! thnks!! (link)
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if this guys your friend you should tell him that he'll find someone himself. he shouldnt have put you in this positon in the first place, a first time should be something to remembee not done to just get it over with. maybe you two could go to a club and you get introduce him to girls..? hope i helped
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my boyfriend and I have been dating for quiet awhile now.. (1/2 a year) and now he's thinking i don't like him anymore, when he's the one who shows a lack of interest in me.. what do i do? i'm so oblivious to the situation. I really cannot lose him, he means way too much to me... I'm not the perfect girlfriend, i do have my flaws as everyone does, but i never knew i had one of showing no interest.. help (link)
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from my experiance, ive learned that even the worst relationship can be saved by one big act of romance, so maybe you should plan a romantic evening, and tell him you love him. if your both active, you could give him 'vouchers' and he can use it with you for something you wouldnt normally do. but dont do something you dot want to! Also, tell him everyday that you love him and ask him how he is, you will find him much more attentive...hope i helped
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Hey it's me again. About your advice, the thing is, all of last term I was open about liking him yeah? So he acted all wierd towards me, it's only when I lied to him that he started acting relatively normal towards me!!! And as for saying he doesn't like me back, he's said that already on the net, but then now that it's the second term, he's sending me mixed signals!!! I mean he gave me a bday card that said I looked stunning!!! What am I supposed to think? And as for sounding like a nice girl, yeah I probably am, and I do have alot of guy friends who like spending time with me...but looks matter alot here. I spend half my time here in India, and half my time in Dubai, in the middle east, and both places if you're not stick thin then you're automatically ugly. The thing is I know I'm NOT ugly, it's just that I'm overweight. So I doubt I'll get a guy who'd wanna commit. I mean sure I can get a guy for a one night stand or an affair, but few guys would wanna publicly acknowledge me... (link)
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what i meant was that because he doesnt think you like him he doesnt feel as if hes being 'watched' and therfore he can be himself. as for the birthday card, ive sent female friends cards that say things like 'sexy' and 'stunning' but it doesnt mean i like them. as for the guys that wont 'publicly acknowledge' you, is there a group or something that has guys that will? btw what country are you from and where are you living? hope i helped
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Hey you guys.
I Just wanted to know what is the diffence between Oral sex and "real sex" jw.
:-) (link)
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good question. oral sex is sex given by mouth, like when a woman sucks a man or a man licks a womans vagina. whereas real sex is penetration
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When I walk in my bathroom, theres always poop on the toilet. I think my dad does it because my pets don't use the toilet. LOL. I know it's gross but how can I find out who is doing this. (It's not my sister or my mom either.) HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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touchy subject. your fathter is meant to be a role model for you and yet he is doing this. maybe you should just ask him in a polite way. or maybe the next time it happens say, loudly 'ew, whos the dirty skunk that didnt flush' or someting like 'who tinkled while they sprinkled?' hope this helped
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ok theres this guy every day in the last class of the day he hits me in my arm and stuff does that means he likes me...or NOT?? (link)
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not too much information there? how long hav eyou known this guy? have you got any other indications that he likes you? yung boys do tend to act like they dont like you when they do so maybe he does like you, theres one way to find out.....ask him to go see a movie ??
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I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou (link)
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guys love confidance. sure they are attracted to looks at first but if they get to know you they will like you for you. trust me. be yourself and you will find new admirers more forthcoming. if you feel really bad about yourself maybe a makeover will improve your confidance?
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ok I finally met this kid who ive been talking to on the internet.. and im so confused with the way I feel about him. Its like I couldnt decide whether I liked him or not. Im basically preppy girl, and hes a punk rock (dude) kind of guy. Hes so different than the guys I hang around, and I cant decide if its good or bad. I know him and my guy friends wouldnt get along, and I dont know what to do or how to feel. I'm so confused. Any help?.. I rate :-) (link)
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you are atracted to this guy because he is so different to what you are used to, and that excites you, however, do you know anything about him? do you know his faviorate food, colour or anything like that. with the internet, you must be careful as you build a person up in your head and more often then not that perception is let down. also, if you know your guy friends wont like him then does that not tell you something?
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Ok, so I'm 18, f and I live in the boarding school in India. There's a guy in my class who I've knon for about a year now, he was my cousin's friend before I joined this school and now he's my class mate. I joined school in August 2004 and Ihad been mailing and chatting with him since May 2004. On the net he was the sweetest guy ever, and he was there for me when I needed him and he made me laugh and he was an amazing guy, and I fell in love with him, with who he was online. But then when I finally got to school hewould ignore me and just say hi/bye whereas just a month ago we were practically best friends. Nevertheless, my heart refused to forget the guy he was online and I fell even deeper in love with him. And so, I did somethings which ended up in me making a fool of myself and getting very hurt and him finding out. School broke upin December and when I logged back online, there he was, the guy I originally fell in love with. ANd it was just as if nothing had happened in between and we sort of picked it up in between, but this time, before going bacl to school I told him that I had stopped liking him and I had a bf, which was not true. But because of this lie, our relationship at school has become considerably better and we talk occaisonally now. The thing is, he likes this other girl who doesn't like him back and it kills me to see them together (they're friends) and I hate it, I just want to know if there's anything I can do to get him, I'm crazy about him!!!! (link)
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it sounds like this guy knows you like him, but doesnt want to ruin your friendship by saying that he doesnt like you back. but by acting the way he did to you in school it sounds as if he does not have the ability to have a proper relationship with anyine, let alone you. as for your love of him, i think you know what im going to say. as long as you talk to him online you are going to stay in love. who must break off all contact untill you meet someone new. you sound like a nice girl, you'll find someone whom is ready to accept and reciprecate(feel the same) your feelings
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