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am i really that wrong for him?
my boyfriend and I have been dating for quiet awhile now.. (1/2 a year) and now he's thinking i don't like him anymore, when he's the one who shows a lack of interest in me.. what do i do? i'm so oblivious to the situation. I really cannot lose him, he means way too much to me... I'm not the perfect girlfriend, i do have my flaws as everyone does, but i never knew i had one of showing no interest.. help
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The truth hurts but if you know your interested in him and you really do show interest in him, hes probably just getting bored with yall relationship and is starting to realize he doesnt want to be caught up in something serious. So he blames you in order to look for a way out. Dump him if he thinks you dont like him, he should believe you when you say you do like him. Hes being immature, let him go if he keeps acting this way, you can do better, and you can deal without him.
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He's probably just projecting his lack of interest onto you. Calmly talk about this with him.
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In my own opinion I think you need to sit down and talk to him about this. You need to explain to him exactly how you feel about the situation....tell him exactly what you said here, how you feel oblivious to the situation. You obviously don't want to lose him and care for him deeply. I don't know what his goals in the relationship are due to lack of info, but that's always a good question to ask him as well. Don't be afraid to be blunt. It's better to find out how he really feels now then later down the road when it could be too late. You could be setting yourself up for a world of hurt.
Best of luck
~ Amanda
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unfortunatley i would say he's the one loosing interest.He probably feels a little guilty about it and is trying to make it seem like it's you.I guess you shower him with attention and see how it goes....hope it goes your way.
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from my experiance, ive learned that even the worst relationship can be saved by one big act of romance, so maybe you should plan a romantic evening, and tell him you love him. if your both active, you could give him 'vouchers' and he can use it with you for something you wouldnt normally do. but dont do something you dot want to! Also, tell him everyday that you love him and ask him how he is, you will find him much more attentive...hope i helped
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hes probably angling and trying to get you to do something you dont want to do (ie sex)
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the only way to get his attention is to try and show more interest! by this i mean, flirt, talk to him more and make him feel as if he really needed you. and if he stays the same and doesn't show as much interst as you, you might just consider leavin him. you can find a much more respectful and loving guy that shows interest in his gf
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Well i dont know what you do to show no interest in him.. um well still act yourself and the way you did when you first liked him cause he had to know you was interested in him then too.. much luv dez x0x0
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