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15/female..
I really really like this guy named Brian. He's so great and we've been good friends, since 2nd grade. He told me he likes me, but he just wants a break. We danced and hung out at a dance last month, and we had a great time. We started dating then, and we just broke up the other day, because he said he thought of me more as a sister figure and not a girlfriend. I'm totally beat up over the situation, and I'm really not sure what to do. He tells me that he wants to have sex with me (which i wouldn't do, and i think he's joking) he calls me pretty all the time, and tells me he loves me. =( What should I tell him?
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Tell him, if you love me than go out with me because i love you too and i don't want to be a sister to you i want to be more. And if you love me than you would know that family loves each other more than they think so be my sister and my girlfriend and love me either way its still going to be the same so please, i think your cute and were really good friends lets not wait any longer.
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I think that this guy is a bullshitter having fun. The only positive thing I see in him is that he see's you as a sister - thats really saying something there, it means you guys can be good friends. But if he keeps on saying things that someone in a relationship would say, then you need to talk to him and ask him what his deal is. Tell him he is confusing him and yu would like to know where the hell you stand with him. I feel lke you still want to be friends with him, so do that, but if he keeps acting weird then its not worth all the trouble in the end, is it?
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You should tell him to remember that you're broken up. I mean, he's your ex, and you still have feelings for him, so this has got to be hard on you... but why is he leading you on? I'm sorry.. but brothers don't lead thier sisters on and want to have sex with them (even if they're joking...)
You should also probably tell him how you feel for him, and even if he doesn't feel that way about you, at least you've got it out of the clear... and he'll probably try to stop confusing you. If not, tell him to stop... because that's not fair to you.
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Tell him to fuck off. This guy is obviously sending you mixed signals and wants you only for sex. Hes a loser.
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He sounds a little confused. Maybe he isn't sure what his feelings are at this point. I think you need to talk. Don't have sex until you are ready and until you have been in a relationship for awhile. Make sure the guy isn't just using you, but has genuine feelings for you first. Easier on the heart. :)
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Ask him why he's doing that. Tell him that you still like him, but you are starting to have mixed emotions from all he is saying. Tell him you are either his gf or not, and it bothers you how he cant seem to make up his mind. the best thing is to just talk to him and help him realise hoe confused you are. I hope i helped.
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OH MAN!! um.. let's see.let's look at the facts. He breaks up with you then he tells you he wants to have sex! I suggest you start to drift from him. Sometimes it might get to a point at which he may start to touch you playfully.But after that things will probably get serious and he might even rape you. Try ignoring him and see what happens. If he asks you why your ignoring him just tell him that he changed and you don't know him anymorwe wich scares you at times. E-mail me and tell me how it goes ok
eiriyukipicese@yahoo.com
FOREVER.
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