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one of my very good friends has liked my boyfriend since before him and we knew each other. She dated him and everything, but he doesn't like her anymore. AFter telling me i could date him, which i've wanted to for two years, she is obsessing over him and telling all of my friends that she loves him and can't stand seeing him with me. She is telling me that he is cheating on me but i don't know whether to believe her. All of my friends say i should date him because my friend likes three other guys too. What should i do? Help!!! (link)
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Well if she told you that you could date him then is going around complaining that's her problem because she told you her self that she was fine with you and this guy. Does this guy really like you, like a lot.Can you be yourself around him and are able to talk to him about things? If so I think you should keep dating him. Talk to your friend and tell her how unfair she's being. Good Luck.
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Aright, I am having seriouse trouble with this, (oh and Im 14 and a girl)becasue I really want to make out with my best friend (my guy friend) but I don't know how to move in so I can start makein out with him. But before I do I want to ask him if he would ever make out with me, and also need help on how to ask him that. Oh and if it helps... Im really shy. So I guess that's part of the problem. Oh and me,him and some other friends are goin out. So if you could respond to this before Friday that would be great.
Much Thanx,
Ana (link)
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I think you should talk to him about how you feel? that's what I would do just say something like how you have these feelings for him. who knows he might feel the same way.
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I wrote the poem which is in one of the previous posts entitled "Everytime" . I was feeling rather depressed today , and so i wrote another poem . Tell me what you think about it ....
Bt\ , to all those who asked ,
i'm 13 going on 14 .
You
I thought that I was contented
I thought I knew you
But that was just an illusion
You took me for a fool
All this pain that I went through
Did I ever mean anything to you ?
All those times I cried
Why weren’t you by my side?
So many nights I spent ,
Sitting by the phone
Just hoping you would call
I was so alone
You told me that you loved me
But why couldn't you look me in the eye ?
I guess this was what made me see
That i was living a lie ..
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It kinda reminded us of Britney Spear's everytime. I think you need to sort of make it more original but i like the idea, also, contented is not a word, it is content. Good Job!
Elle
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I usually apply black eyeliner ( just one layer ) very near the ends of my eyelids ( the part where your eyelashes grow from ) . I would like to know if someone taller than me would be able to see my eyeliner . =) (link)
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They would be able to see the eyeliner just as well as a short person. Usually people don't see different perspective views from heigth. I hope i answered your question.
Elle
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Well I broke up with my ex because I thought He didnt love me anymore and now I really want him back but when i ask him about us its always I dont know but he did tell me he still loves me, he thought i broke up with him for someone else so when he tells me he doesnt know is he hurt by us being over or does he not want me anymore? help plz!! (link)
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He's playing hard to get. go along with it
elle
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this is kristi.. i wrote about ricky awhile ago... well i wrote him a letter and gave it to him on the last day of skool.. i know kinda lame but hey at least i gave it to him. well it said that i liked him and that we should hang out this summer then i put my number at the bottom... well he called me THAT NIGHT. we talked bout everything BUT the letter, but we found out that were going to hawaii... same island and everything at the same time so we r gonna meet up there to hang out.. how perfect huh? well does that mean anything that he called me that nite when i said call me this SUMMER?
luv kristi (link)
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i don't think that it has anything to do with the note. Maybe the note just made him feel more confident to sort of spend more time with you because he might like you. Good LUck
Lizzy
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Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months now and I love her so much and I know she loves me she says it all the time and stuff but I dont know if she is always happy with my I cant really tell her how I want her to feel or anything or talk to her about this there has to be something I can do to show her I want her to be happy basically happier then she has ever been before like can you tell me how I can do this because that would be a big help anyone help me one this subject I just want my girlfriend to be super happy around me and not like faking the whole happiness thing so please help me with what to do thanks a bunch.
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one night when the guys want to hang out, Instead of hang out with your friends take her someplace special to show her you would do anything for her.
Elle
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Well I love me girlfriend to death she is the best and we have fun all the time but I am like running out of things to do we usually do the same old things all the time so I think its time for something new so can you help me think of some ways or place or things to do with my girlfriend that will just make her melt.....you know nice romantic stuff like that.....lol any help will be greatly appreciated thanks much. (link)
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Well you didn't say anything about what you two do so I'll help the best I can. And age would help. Want night you could go to her house with a rose and suprise her with a romantic dinner under the stars. Since it is summer. Try something new. Take her rock climbing or even camping out with her and some friends. I really hope that helps.
Elle
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My best friend is dating this guy that ive had a crush on for weeks now. I dont know what to do. When they go out i always have to go with them so their parents dont think they are doing bas things(which they are) and it kills me to watch them, what should i do??? Im so confused. (link)
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Girl, you need to tell them what you just wrote cause she's your best friend and should know that y our uncomfortable around her and this guy together. Hope this helps.
Elle
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ive been crushing on this guy for a while and so i told my best friend. Her bf and the guy i like are good friends so i had him to talk to the guy. He said that he liked me but wasnt looking for a relationship right now. Its summer break so when school starts back up again should i go for it?? of move on. (link)
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Why not ask him? be patient. next year people will be liking people and he might want to go out with you then. Good luck!
Elle
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im too shy to ask a girl out what always happens is that i have my eye on one but i can't get the nerve to ask her out then some other guy takes her what do i do (link)
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You just need to go up to her and ask her out the minute you see her next. Girls love it when guys ask them out. It feels to weird for us to ask out guys. And when you do ask her out don't ask her out to the movies! That's boring and you can't talk. Hope this helps.
Elle
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I have a problem, I put posters all over my walls, I act depressive & miserable, just because thats how I am, and I write poetry & i do things I want to do, and I wear black nail polish and tons of bracelets, But I dont have much money to buy the clothing, and everyone thinks Im weird becasue I act what they say I am *goth* but I dont really dress like one, I try to explain that I dont have alot of money right now and Im not poor, but my mom doesnt like paying for me, because I liek to get these clothes that are exspensive at hot topic. . I like the music too. . I dont know why I just do, so I decided that maybe My heart is telling me I should be. . Gothic. I wouldnt mind being gothic either, but is it the right path for me? I dont care much whne people make fun of me, I just ignore it, like they are invisiable, its like I enter my own world and I am just staring at things, I dont see outside of my head and someone said i looked like I was possed by the devil! I like love satan! I cant help it, it is just my beliefs Im not trying to fit in, im not trying to be cool its just how I freaking feel! I like to wear dark make- up and black is like my fave color, I try to mix my clothes ot make i look funky, untill I get some money to buy more clothing. . I just got a bass/guitar too . . I am also ina school with tons of ghetto people, they always make fun of me and make me go through a life of torture, I only have acouple friends there, and thne I have 3 others outside of school who live where I used to live, I have 7 friends in school, 10 friends total, but 2 out of 10 are guys and the rets are girls, and htey guys r kidna my firned but not really like they act like my firned but they barely talk to me, well one of them makes me laugh all the time and talks to me. . Well
All I wanna know is, am I following the right path? LyA, Bye!
Signed, Confused. (link)
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Just because people say your gothic because you dress like isn't true. People should be able to wear what ever they choose and shouldn't have to be something because of they way they dress. That's Awful!
Elle
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Crazy
A lonely girl wonders why she feels so broken hearted.
He doesn't feel the same and her heart is split in two.
She feels like a fool.
She holds her head as high as she can.
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
"Am I too ugly? am I too loud? Or is he just crazy?"
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
with tears in her eyes she smiles and says, "HE IS JUST CRAZY!"
I am not the one in the wrong, HE IS JUST CRAZY!
~K.J.B.~ (link)
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This is not a depressing! It's poetry, ART! This is something that came from inside. IT came from your heart and out your hands. You're right. He's CRAZY! IT sounds like you know what love is. GOOD JOB! If you need any help just ask.
~Elle~
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I have been friends with this guy for 6 years ever since i was 9 as we got older things started to change i started to like him for more than a friend. he is the guy that when i see him i always feel better i haved some major medical problems and afterwards he always cheers me up but latly he hasen't been comming to his moms house that much so i don't get to see him but once a month i don't know what to do? (link)
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I think you should just tell him how you feel. You never know,he might feel the same about you.
Elle
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How come there is no boys asking questions? I'm a guy and I have a question... anyways... I'm kinda shy when the topic asking girls out comes up. I'm 13 and I dont ever think im going to get a girlfriend, because im so scared on what would i do if i asked someone out and then they said yes? i mean i dont know how to make out and stuff like that... what should i do? (link)
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Just be yourself. Girls like that. And who cares if you don't know how to make out. I mean if you've never had a girl friend. And when you ask a girl out for a first date, don't ask her to go to the movies. Cause you can't talk. See if she wants to go ice skating.
Elle
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Can someone give me some names for a girl and a boy, please? I love writing stories, but I don't know any good names! PLEASE help! (link)
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Jamie
Christian
Ryan
Chris
Mark
Beth
Bianca
Riely
Tamra
Amanda-Mandy
Mendy
tara
Alex
Drew
Tyler
Rachel
Holly
Abby
Meredith
Jermain
Dan
Bryan
Paul
Greg
Derek
Jay
Sean
Elle
Aly
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I told my friends and family that I was thinking of becoming a lesbian and they just laughed. What do i do to make them believe me? (link)
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Just keep your word. If they don't believe you and you do become a lesbian then they'll start taking you more seriously.
Elle
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I think that my best friend hates me. I always ask her to go to the mall with me and to hang out with me but she is always saying that she would rather stay home. I don't know what to do! Should i tell her how i feel? She is my only friend
Friendless (link)
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I think you should talk to her. If you are true friends then you should be honest with her. Ask her what she would like to do.
Elle
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My family is having financial mumbo jumbo and we can't afford our house! What do i do? (link)
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Well, you could help by getting yourself a job. You could recycle cans for money. Walk dogs, babysit, mow lawns. I hope this helps a little.
Elle
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My friend asked me if I was goth, I didnt know what to tell her. . I mean goths dont usually go right out and yell IM GOTH! But she asked and I always tell the truth, I said ya. She said ew ur weird. . . She asked me this online, she hasnt seen me for weeks. . and I have maracuously changed, not because this lifestyle has become popular, but because I found it deep down in my heart. She got mad at me and everything .. she gave me a necklas and now she wants it back, she said she'd call the cops if i did anything to it, which i didnt and anyways its mine she gave it to me, is being gothic worth it, i rlly ant to be and i like being this. . but should I give up our friendsship and go gothic, or forget gothic and be ehr frined, I think I should forget her, but please tell me if Im right! (link)
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I'm not a goth, but I like their style a lot. And I think to be a goth takes a lot of guts. But she also is your friend. There might be a way to be her friend and a goth. You could calm down the gothic clothing for a while And talk to her and tell her that this is just you. I'm for all you know this might just be a stage your going through. and if it isn't Is she willing to give your friendship up? Tell her it's just a style. and what matters is what is inside. If she's not willing to see that, then I personally don't think she is a really good friend. It's your decision.
GOOD LUCK,
Elle
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