one of my very good friends has liked my boyfriend since before him and we knew each other. She dated him and everything, but he doesn't like her anymore. AFter telling me i could date him, which i've wanted to for two years, she is obsessing over him and telling all of my friends that she loves him and can't stand seeing him with me. She is telling me that he is cheating on me but i don't know whether to believe her. All of my friends say i should date him because my friend likes three other guys too. What should i do? Help!!!
Bethers5143 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 4:05 pm: hunny, you should go with him. there is no sign that you and this "guy" will be together forever. if she likes him "SO" much as she says she does, she wouldnt like 3 other guys. so dont worry about your friend there. go with the guy! good luck! Keep Me Updated! *Bethers* [ Bethers5143's advice column | Ask Bethers5143 A Question ]
Elle answered Sunday September 19 2004, 4:02 pm: Well if she told you that you could date him then is going around complaining that's her problem because she told you her self that she was fine with you and this guy. Does this guy really like you, like a lot.Can you be yourself around him and are able to talk to him about things? If so I think you should keep dating him. Talk to your friend and tell her how unfair she's being. Good Luck. [ Elle's advice column | Ask Elle A Question ]
xtroubleturk69x answered Sunday September 19 2004, 3:58 pm: yeah this happened to me too except i knew the guy b4 my friend and then she kinda took him away from me.. so if i put myself in ur friends situation i felt really badd b.c i just cudnt deal w. it ne more.. u hafta decide wuts more important him or ur friend? think about it..r u willing to let a friendship down cuz of a guy?? pretty stupid huh yeah she might like other guys but does she talk about those other guys??
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