Is it wrong to want someone to sleep next to you, cuddle with you, laugh, hug, kiss, and play with you, when you don't want to date anyone?
As long as both people know that you aren't commmitted, then not at all.
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I am a total worrier
But the one thing I worry about is sex really.
So here are some questions
1) What position are you usually in if your being fingered - what should you do ? where should your hands go?
2) And if your making out and you want to actually do it and he puts on the condom - doesn't that like kill the mood a little?? Like your all in the mood and then its like wait, let me put one on..how long would it take?
3) Can you tell me of how it feels for the first time? What it's like?
4) Being fingered ; does it hurt?
5)Do guys ever look at your body naked whilst your having sex. I never go into relationships because I hate my body and I wouldnt want someone else looking at it
1. Probably laying down on your back because you wouldn't want to be sitting.
2. I don't think it would kill the mood because you're being safe about it. Would you rather end up with a disease or a baby?
3. Can't answer.
4. Maybe the very first time but not after that.
5. And, no. I mean they're too much in the mood to really look at it
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Okay so i developed real early and im very mature. i'm 14 but i honestly do looke atleast 17 or 18 & act this way to. well theres this real sweet hot kid who is 19..and he always says "i wish you weren't so young" blah blah. i know it is against the law to do anything with him, but it's like my body/personality dont go with my age. it's like im in the wrong time zoneish haha. well me and him have been thinking about it and always talk about hooking up. i just don't see why it's such a big deal. but if i were to do anything with him, how would anyone find out? i don't see how he could get in trouble. so my question really is, is it wrong to be in love with someone who is 5 years older then you?
its not wrong to be in love. the fact is you are 14 and he is 19. No matter how old you look, or act you are what you are, you know? And many 19 year guys have been with at least 1-2 girls (probably more) so there might be a chance that he likes you maybe because you're young and innocent (maybe?)
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Haha I had no clue what category this should of gone under, so I picked randomly.
Anyway.. I am 14 and a girl and I was wondering.. how many people shave(or wax or ect) their arms? Should i shave mine? I feel like my arms have light colored hair (blonde) but the seem hairy to me. I read in a magazine something about shaving arms, but should I? Would it be weird or would it be weird if I didnt?
I wouldn't, I'm 15.
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SORRY ITS LONG!!! PLEASE ANSWER THOUGH!!!
My friends are really starting to bother me. They write notes to each other all the time and dont show them to me because they say i wouldnt understand. The notes are about guys they like. And in them they say that they are in love with them. They havent even talked to these guys before, but they say that they love them. And its not true of course!!! I know it isnt! Its not like i dont believe that you can fall in love young, because i do, but i know they arent in love considering that ALL of my friends claim that they are in love and that they are in love with multiple guys who most of them, they havent even talked to before.
So how is it that all of my friends can "be in love" with multiple guys theyve never talked to?
it isnt possible right? so how do i tell them this without hurting their feelings or sounding rude, im the bistandard here so i can see what theyre talking about for the truth, and not from hormones making them think theyre in love. how do i make them realize this though?
Let it go, beacuse you can't be in love with multiple guys. When I was young I always thought I was in love too, until I met someone I really really loved that's the time they realize it wasn't true, its a thing you go through while growing up =]
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My BF and I have been going out for a month. And we kiss and W/E outside of school, but past couple of days we have been doing little kisses after 4th. we both feel kinda uncomfortable cause all my friends go AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW really loudly n obviously when we do and its really annoying! i've told them to stop but they dont! have can i make them?! i rate ^^
ignore them, besides you like it right
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I am thirteen and am a begginer and practicing magick.I really Like this girl in my class but she like this one guy who likes the girl i like's best friend who likes me (I can see auras as eaisly its like they were a mood ring so I can tell when they look at each other or me).I have tried to get the the guy and the girl I like's best friend together Then see how my luck goes with the girl but does doing this make me nosey and rude and will it help my relation ship with the girl i like.I am a boy not a lesbian.
well try talking to her
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i hate my life so much, all my mother cares about is my sister and i hate them both so much. she always gets her way and shes so perfect and were only a year apart. they both drive me crazy. and theres this boy in my school who i really like, im like in love with him and hes in all my classes except 1 so i always see him and he doesnt like me and he saids he has a semi girlfriend in hamden, and i just cant take this anymore. everyone i love doesnt love me. i feel like no one cares and im alone... i really dont care about my mom or sister all i want is him
i always use to say my sister gets her way (shes 7 years older then me) and i'd say my mom loves her more but now i can see that she treats us equally and there was this guy i liked for 3years and i've finally gotten over him because i found another guy for myself
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ok... im 14 and i am 5'10... is that too tall? i am taller than most guys my age and although i have never really had a problem with it this year i do... im sure most girls would kill to be taller but i seriously want to cut my feet off i hate it so much... like i said... i am 14 but i truly look like i am 25... the other night i was havong dinner with my dad and i got his beer... i am sick of older guys hitting on me... and i am sick and tired of being around a guy i like (including my bf) and feeling like this huge mass... i really do WANT to look my age... is there ne way i can get over this?? and if not... there arnt ne special short pills are there??
...cle
well i'm 14 and 5'0" and im too short so im thinkin ppl who r 5'4 r lucky lolz but i mean guys my age dont mind even tho 5'0" i still get comments sayin i look 16/17 or even 18!
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Is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?
idk
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14/f Hey well there is this one guy who i serioulsy really really really like...everyone knows I like him... even his friends most likely...well the problem is I have liked him for a really long time...and alot of ppl want me to get over him... but I dont know how... i tried looking at other guys but for some reason when i start to like another guy I suddenly stop and go back to likeing him...i have never gone out with him which really sucks cause i really want too... ok well we dont talk that much at school but we talk on the phone...ok usaully when i talk to him we talk for at least a half hour at least unless he has to go... well the other day i called him and i think he was being kinda rude...(i havent told anyone especially my best friends cause they dont really like him and if isay something that will just make me sad cause they will say good get over him and i dont wanna cry...cause that will make me cry...)ok back to where i was he said something that hecka made me sad...so i like hung up the phone and like started crying.... i wanna talk to him again but i cant tell him that he made me cry... cause i dont think he has realized how much i do really like him... also i know he doesnt like me cause i know who he does like and know that he wants to go out with her..(she has everything i want)ok so heres another thing i havent called him since then and yea its just been like 5 days and i dont know if i should even talk to him anymore on the phone cause he makes me hecka sad what should i do???
i feel the same exact way about a guy too
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kay i have this rash on my ... u kno ... n like it seemed to come from no were. tha 1st thing i waz thinking was that may be it was a std, but ive only been with gurls (im a gurl too) ... so it coudnt be that rite????
uhh i have no freakin clue...
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my whole life is based on finding the 1 guy that i can spend my life with. i am 15 years old right now and i dont want to be in a lot of relationships. i dont think its right. i just want to find the right guy right now and have him for ever. i didnt have any boyfriends before but ive had offers. i just didnt see myself with them in the future. but recently, ive found 2 guys.
one of them, i love but he doesnt love me. i have loved him for years. but he just doesnt want me. i just cant get over him. i see my future with this guy, but he doesnt get it. he knows i love him , but he is more into having fun and living his teenage years partying and stuff. im not saying i wanna get married at this age, ya know? its just, i want someone that i could go to know matter what , when ever and have a promising relationship
the other guy, i like and he likes me. we're both shy people so we only just talk about funny stuff. we never talk about long term topics. we have been talking for a couple months now, and i am guessing he will ask me out soon. idont know if i should say yes or not.
help me out.
hmm tough choice well get to know the second guy a little better and then maby the first guy wants to have fun now but late he might change his mind..i've made a few wrong decisions w. guys before but thats wut teenage hood is for..
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my little sister has a habbit of thinking that our cousins are cute. the ones that we dont get to see that often. she likes our cousin J.R and our cousin Michael. I can't figure out how to get her to stop. I have told her that they are our cousins and its nasty. But she won't listen. She has even told me that she wants to kiss J.R. I mean yea hes a good looking kid (i dont like him...ew!) but hes our cousin so thats just nasty. I have tried explaining the whole cousin thing and she still doesn't understand. Please help.
well if shes like under the age of 8 she'll grow out of it but if shes like 12..thenn somethin is wrong like u said
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ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good!
i even no 5 yr olds that go arund grabbin asses lol but usually end of 7th grade..8th grade soo 13 or 14
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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!
wut the freak u were 12!! damnn when i was 12 the last thing on my mind was havin sex lol i thought abut that when i was 13 lol
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Don't take this the wrong way. I'm 13/f and I'm ok with the regualr sex (WHEN I'M MARRIED) But even though I'm too your to think about it, 69 and oral sex I'm scared of. I just really dont feel comfortable with the idea. I wouldn't wanna lick the boy's thing, and I wouldn't want his tounge "up there" please help me becuase I really am scared.
lol..well im 13 nd idc lol i mean i dont wanna go arund doin that w. ppl but lol
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i just lost my virginity nd now im freakin out cuz we were dumbasses nd didnt use ne thin i forget wen i last had my period nd i don remember wen im supposed to get it next nd im like freakin out bout maybe bein pregnant or sumthin wut r my chances of bein pregnant?? i kno that there is a chance cuz theres always a chance but like is it a big chance or a small chance lol idk im freakin out so sumone lemme kno! thnx!!!
how old are you? and calm down
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I kinda feel liked i was always used by my b/f's..They always thought i woudl do stuff with him...I rly wish i could just meet the guy that dosen't me expect to go all the way...i want a rly good guy and thats hott..lol..to treat me right....how would i find him..?
i always thought that to but love came to me w. open arms things will work out just give it time.. the person u least expect will be the one u'll date..
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there is this boy in school that i really like and today my friend told him that i like him but my friend told me that he doesn' like me. how do i get him to like me?
you cant MAKE someone like you? godd are you like freakin 10?
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