i hate my life so much, all my mother cares about is my sister and i hate them both so much. she always gets her way and shes so perfect and were only a year apart. they both drive me crazy. and theres this boy in my school who i really like, im like in love with him and hes in all my classes except 1 so i always see him and he doesnt like me and he saids he has a semi girlfriend in hamden, and i just cant take this anymore. everyone i love doesnt love me. i feel like no one cares and im alone... i really dont care about my mom or sister all i want is him <3 and i dont know what ill do without him because i cant get over him.
CoKeIzZle answered Friday January 28 2005, 9:26 pm: Hey Hun,I was in a situtation like that before. But I almost killed myself. But I stuck with life. You've only got 1 life.Live it strong! And you CAN get over him!Just try not to think of him.I know how you feel.But life goes on.You never know whats going to happen!it could be something great!So hold on!Andif you need to talk 2 someone i'm always there!IM me on CoKeIzZle X 13 OR ask me on here!Hope I helped! XoXo NiCoLe~ [ CoKeIzZle's advice column | Ask CoKeIzZle A Question ]
hAzElEyEzXx answered Friday January 28 2005, 8:42 pm: to answer the suicide question- NO definately. not!
about this boy i'm POSITIVE you can do better
dont hate your life.
TRy to set things straight with your mom and sister (they ARE family and u only get 1 family) if that doesn't work, then i think you should (this probably isn't the answer you are looking for...) ask your friends! I'm positive that your friends know what decisions are best for you. Or at least their help would be better than a stranger.
Hope i can help
BeSt Of WiShEs xoxo
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lostNlife15 answered Friday January 28 2005, 5:42 pm: babe you cant do this you can get over him your mom dose love you- i dont kno how old you r but you sound like your at teen you and every other teen go through this its hard i kno i hate ive thought about it to we all have at one time or another IM me at nightgodess1983 i cant try to help
lost ~N~ life [ lostNlife15's advice column | Ask lostNlife15 A Question ]
Link answered Friday January 28 2005, 11:39 am: Ok this is quite diffuclt but something you must know no matter what you think your mother loves you now see it may seem like no one loves you but you should know someone always loves you and no matter what you think your family loves you. As for the guy you like i dont know what to tell you with that. [ Link's advice column | Ask Link A Question ]
xtroubleturk69x answered Friday January 28 2005, 7:07 am: i always use to say my sister gets her way (shes 7 years older then me) and i'd say my mom loves her more but now i can see that she treats us equally and there was this guy i liked for 3years and i've finally gotten over him because i found another guy for myself [ xtroubleturk69x's advice column | Ask xtroubleturk69x A Question ]
kitanie05 answered Friday January 28 2005, 1:45 am: I don't think you should kill yourself. you may be having a rough time right now but you'll get through it. don't worry about that guy. you probly won't like him next year anyway. the problems with your mom don't worry about them don't even worry about your sister i've been through this same problem a few weeks ago and i have friends in those situations right now. your life is to valuable to waste right now you have a life ahead of you. [ kitanie05's advice column | Ask kitanie05 A Question ]
emily9 answered Friday January 28 2005, 12:12 am: Hey,
I have been having some of these same thoughts myself for some time, but I know suicide is not the answer. Even though your family may no act like they love you, they do. My friend thought the same thing about her sister until she died last August, now she misses her terribly. I have liked (maybe loved) a guy for a long time, and he has yet to like me, but just think, you want a guy who adores you the same way you adore him, if he doesnt like you, maybe you should try to just be good friends with him, and see where it will go after that, maybe he will get to know you better, and feel the same way you do about him. But no matter what, always remember that God loves you unconditionally, and died just for you, and he loves you more than you can ever imagine.
I hope I was of help to you, Please tell me how it goes, or if you have any questions, I will be glad to help [ emily9's advice column | Ask emily9 A Question ]
angieroonie answered Thursday January 27 2005, 11:27 pm: okay you definately cant kill yourself. that really selfish. THINK OF ALL YOURE FRIENDS!!! you named 3 people in youre life. youre family does love you. they may not be very open about it but they do. and one guy? you are going to let one guy bring you down??? you dont need a guy in youre life. just think about it. there are plenty of other fish in the sea. :)
Dr_Thom answered Thursday January 27 2005, 11:18 pm: first get an optimistic view of the world and your life. your mom like most moms usually cherish one their kids the most even though they don't seem to notice it. but you can't let this one guy bring you down. he's only 1 person. if you're chasing this guy, that will only lead to him using you for whatever he wants because it seems as though as you would do so. also, he said he doesn't like you so you'd just have to stop trying and find some other guy in your school. [ Dr_Thom's advice column | Ask Dr_Thom A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Thursday January 27 2005, 10:46 pm: everyone you love doesnt love you? you named three poeple. other people have it worse than you. stop being such a whore and quit feeling sorry for yourself. your pathetic. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
kitty_kat123 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 10:38 pm: o.k. Give it time. Things will straiten. I'm glad you came to us for help. It was smart. I can tell you a lot of things. 1. DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE- REASONS: YOU'LL GO TO HELL AND IT WONT MAKE ANYTHING BETTER.
Just don't worry. I have been rejected SO many times. COUNTLESS! HAHA! MY friend is going through the same thing. She has a mom and a brother and she hates them both and gets books on death and I tell her- this is a once in a lifetime thing. God gave you life for a reason- he wanted you to be happy. people are mean in this world and no on can control it. its ok though, O.K? dont kill urself because then, everybody is going to miss you but whats in it for u? your mom gave YOU life for a reason too. She wanted a child- u! trust me- ur loved! ur loved by all of us and everything is fine. [ kitty_kat123's advice column | Ask kitty_kat123 A Question ]
jzchillen answered Thursday January 27 2005, 10:37 pm: hey don't worry I jut broke up with my bf and I feel as if the only solution is to kill myelf. But it's not. I can't realy give you advice b/c life and love are both a bunch of shit. But all you can do is work hard be better thatn your sis then laugh at her face (harsh thing to do) but thinking about it will make you feel better.
Let me know how it goes.
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