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Hey im sorry i picked a gay name its just i coudnt think of anything and im a really big Zelda fan so it was the first thing that came to my head...I love Playing my Alto Sax and Piano but saxophone more yeah i know im a music nut. I'm 16 years old.
I had alot of other stuff here but now i realize that it was just basically me bragging about being smart so i took it out i tried putting a pic of me in here but it takes to long to load so if u wanna see what i look like go to the url for myspace
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earlier today i was in a hury and just shut my computer off by holding down the power button which i've done before and its been fine but now i just started my computer back up and my computer has been reset. i lost all of my documents, all of my pictures, songs on itunes, not to mention 3 years worth of saved games on The Sims and downloads!! i didn't backup files because i dont really have anything worth backing up. when i started the computer i was getting boxes saying "would you like to view the windows XP tutorial" as if i was turning on the computer for the first time. i have shut off my computer by holding down the power button many many times before so im really confused why this happened now. what happened? (link)
You should never turn off your computer like that because if you do this and your harddrive is accessing some form of data or reading some form of data is can cause the harddrive to become corrupted therefore destroying the usefullness of your computer also you should rather than turn off your computer leave it on. It's not good for a computer to be turned on and off on and off it's better for it to just stay on always.


I'm 16 years old, and my parents won't allow me to get my license until I get a job. So I was wondering does Targets higher 16 year olds? (link)
Yes they do but I WOULD SUGGEST FINDING SOMEWHERE ELSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Half of my family has worked in target and it is a horrible place to work .......


I'm getting a DS lite for Christmas and i'm wondering how easy(judged by your experience or anything else) it is to set it up for wifi ? (link)
It has Wifi built in and not all games utilize the Wifi so it depends on the game and if you have an access point but it is easy all you do to set it up is when you have a game that uses wifi you go to the wifi settings (you can only get to these settings when you have a game that uses wifi) and tell it to search for an access point if it is wireless and once it finds it it tells you to check it and everything should be fine... also if you use the usb adaptor all you do is plug it in ur comp and installt he software pretty basic.


I'm very afraid of storms and wind at night. I have to hand my hands over my ears to fall asleep. My heart just pounds and pounds. If the storm gets really bad, or loud for that matter, I go sleep my parents or my mom comes to sleep in my bed.
The sound of wind or thunder or rain is what scares, as well as power outages. Now that it is winter, it is a bit stormy almost every night, and it's horrible.
How can I rid myself of this terrible fear?

P.S. I am afraid right now, as it is 7:30 pm and it is windy and rainy. (link)
Hm. This is quite difficult to explain. When I was 4 i used to be deathly afraid of rain storms but as i got older i accepted them as part of nature. Just try this whenever you hear the wind or the rain of thunder and lighting and it scares you think of the happiest thing you can possibly think of weather it be ice cream or a day in some relaxing place think of it and bring it close to your heart allow it to warm you and comfort you


i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but im starting to have major feelings for an ex boyfriend. i know its very bad of me but my boyfriend now just isnt making me happy anymore and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend lies to me about everything so im to the point i dont know whats real and whats a lie. hes lied about smoking (twice), going to a party, going to school, and to as stupid as how much he spends on something. i just dont understand. he tells me hell change but hes said that since day one and it continues. also on two occasions he didnt go to school once i found an earring and the other time i found an ankle bracelet. i asked whose it was and he told me he didnt know. i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he got all mad and said he wasnt. im just not happy anymore. i love him to death though. but my ex boyfriend and me have been talking the past 3 days and im not sure whats gonna happen but hes making me so happy. ive been smiling nonstop and hes making me feel whole i talked to him yesterday from 1:30 pm all the way til 5 am nonstop. on the internet and phone. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but in the same sense im not happy. but i dont wanna rush it with my ex boyfriend either. please help me (link)
Ok just to get things started you should break up with your current boyfriend. I know guys trust me I am one I know how they think if he thinks he can cheat on you and get away with it he will (I personally would never do that to my g/f but im different than most guys or so people tell me) the first thing to understand is he is lieing to you. If someone lies to me once about something major then it takes me a while to trust them again. What I say you should do (by smoke yuo mean weed right) is with my g/f before I was dating her she used to smoke and one day I called her b/c she told me to and lo and behold when I called her she was in the middle of smoking and I said if you ever do that again I will never talk to you again so for the smoking you could try that (go figure a month or so after i said that i started dating her) but if i were you which im not if your b/f now truly makes you unhappy and lies to you and ur ex makes you happy then start dropping hints on your ex let him know how you feel and most of all if you have reason to believe your b/f is lieing or cheating on you or you have proof you should break up with him right then and there (Ok this is a little side note as i said ik guys i am one.. i guarntee you that if he is cheating on you and you find out and you lets say break up with him never take him back no matter what b/c trust me IF HE TRIED IT ONCE HE WILL TRY IT AGAIN AND AGAIN and it will leave you in pieces) hope i helped some sorry for the parts where i blabbed but what can you do lol


my mum is really annoying!! like shes ALWAYS make little sarcastic comments, like i do use sarcasm but not ones that get people really annoyed like look at this wot she said on msn (bcoz we have our own computers we talk on msn):
me:
when r u going out?
my mum:
in a bit
me:
how long?
my mum:
bout 12inches
my mum:
LOL
me:
seriously how long
my mum:
in a bit
me:
how long is a bit?
my mum:
hang on ill get a ruler
my mum:
LOL
me:
how long??!??
my mum:
bout 10 minz

nd it really gets on my nerves!! bcoz its every since she met her boyfriend nd he's even worse so im up in my room nearly all day 2 try nd aviod it coz i get it all day long!! (link)
Lol thats quite funny listen lol your mom doesnt have to answer to you. she can say anything she wants to and she doesnt have to tell you where she is going. Just be glad that ur mom isnt a botch because then you wouldnt get good jokes like that and she would just send you to your room. jut sit back relax and enjoy the jokes your mom throws at you


16/f. my religion tells us not to have sex until we are married, and i plan on sticking to that. im possibly going to a get a boyfriend soon though, and i dont know how to tell him that im waiting. what are some excuses of why i cant have sex with him besides my religion and i dont want to? (link)
You should never use excuses plain and simple if you use excuses over time they will get old and he will say stuff as an exaple he might say you dont love me b/c you wont have sex with me well dont deal with any of that Bs when you get a b/f tell him up front you do not plan on having sex because it is against your religion and you swore to abstinence and if he cant accept that then he is not worth your time


so a guy from work (we are just friends) asked me to the movies tonight and i talked to my stepmom and she automatically said no because hes too old for me and she doesnt know anything about him, and i told her she could meet him and everything
im going to be 17 in september hes turning 19 tomaro...whats wrong with that?
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im 15 and my g/f is gonna be 17 oct 9th and my mom has no problem with that there is nothing wrong with dating some1 older than you....yet then again i am a guy but whatever it dun matter there is nothign wrong with 2 years i could see if it was 5+ years but ist not shes just overreacting


does anyone know cheat codes for sims 2?? (for money), and can you explain what buttons to press so i can get money? w.o having my sims get jobs and such. Ill rate!

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xo (link)
www.cheatcc.com there u go all the codes you will need for ne system or computer game


Why are guys so goddamn shallow?! Not saying girls aren't but I know I lowered my standards a bit because the guy I like right now is hott to me but I know the majority of girls would disagree. It's just..the boobs, tall, blonde hair..can't guys see past that to other people with more substance?! Do similar interests mean anything? How can you tell if they're flirting or not or just pretending to lead you on then burn you, or even just being "friends"? Please help, I'm so sick of being a loner. Thanks. (link)
In all honesty with me i always look for personality over looks because thats just the way i am and not only that but i dont do stuff like lead people on so i would have no clue how to help you


If a guy is nice to you and he knows you really like him...possibly crushing on him...Is that because he feels sorry for you, or because there is a slight chance he likes you back?
-Renne (link)
well it depends on the guy like me if i knew someone liked me and i liked them back then of course i would be nice to them but then there are some guys who r assholes who would just lead you on....all i can tell u is if it was me who was him then i would deff be nice i cant tell you how other guys think....i hope i helped a little im sorry i cant help more :-(


Has anyone here read the Goblet of Fire? I'm about to go see it. I haven't read the book for 2 years, and I need to be refreshed on some things. Why was Ludo Bagman important? Why was Barty Crouch important? Why was Crouch taking PolyJuice Potion in order to look like Moody? And lastly, why were the Death Eaters burning down the place near the beginning of the book?

Thanks

Trinity (link)
AHH I just saw the movie last night i thought it sucked so much was taken out they even took out a few key things that were in the book ahh it pissed me off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Why do girls help a guy cheat on his current girlfriend, then date him after they break up? They've already proven that this guy is totally willing to cheat, so do they actually think he wont do the same to them? Are girls really that stupid? (link)
yes my friend they really are that stupid it goes sumetin like this...come on cheat on her with me then tell her and break up with her that way i can go out with you then you can end up cheating on me because i already proved that you are willing and ready to cheat...they are stupid but it would just make the guys life easier if he never cheated...THATS WHY IM NEVER GONNA CHEAT ON ANY GURLS IF I STOP LIKING THEM OR SUMETIN LIKE THAT I WOULD BREAK UP WITH THEM:-D


Okay i need the answer to this riddle please!!

You are stuck in a room with no windows or doors. a solid room. Only things in this room is a mirror and a table. how do you escape?

It really got me thinking and i can't seem to find out the answer. If i think you got it right then i`ll give you a 5. but if you try i`ll give you a 5 also!! =D thank you (link)
ok the guy below me is right but the 1st one is just a retard you look in the mirror take what you look in the mirror and see your reflection. You see what you saw, take the saw, saw the table in half, two halves make a whole, you use the hole to get out. because if u were cutting a hole in the table it would just make more sense to cut a hole in the wall that up there is right and the 1st guy is just a complete retard and trust me i would know i've heard this one alot....but you know whats a fun thing to do is when your friends ask you that question counter with the question..how did i get into the room in the first place if there are no doors or windows and then say its not like i would let somebody just build a room around me... try that see what they say


most girls call guys pigs and cheaters....but i was just curious as to how many people know this is that girls actually cheat more than men do its just that they dont get caught as easily as guys do....so y would girls call cheaters and such when its actually proven that they cheat more than guys...but they are better at hiding it so im just curious as to why guys get labeled as being more of the cheating type??? thanks 4 the help (link)
that is a very good question...i wish i knew the answer to it


how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this (link)
its b/c people are stupid and need to get lives becaust they obviously dont have lives if all they feel like doing is calling u a slut people are just idiots


ok well im really confused. i like 4 guys
i dont wanna say names (this is gonna sound mean) but im gonna call them numbers haha

boy #1-hes a complete jerk to me. but he says hes just kidding around...he says i mean the world to him...we went out for about a month and he said that he could be with me forever. but then he dumped me...we're still friends and i think i love him but hes been being a jerk to me lately. and i dont like it! and he just laughs at me when i say STOP BEING A JERK! hes like you kno im just kidding...and he doesnt get it that i DONT LIKE IT!

boy #2--i met him a couple weeks ago and we got drunk together. we had fun and flirted and he said he really liked me...i started falling for him slowly. he really wants to hang out with me again...but the past few days, my friends have been screwing things up for us. by saying i dont like him and i dont wanna do ne thing with him and just being really mean!!!...so i havent talked to #2 in a few days and im gettin kinda worried he doesnt like me ne more (out of the 4 boys...i like him the most!) we might go to the movies on friday and im going to his cookout on saturday. im just not sure what to do or say to him if i really do like him

boys #3--hes my best friend. we went out 2 years ago. nuthin big...and then we didnt talk for like 1 and a half years. then he IMed me and we talked and started hanging out. we went 2 the beach together. and he came over my house after...nuthin happened. just hung out..then he came over my house today and he was flirting with me soooo bad! like cuddling...and then we went in my jaccuzzi and he like held me in his arms...it was really sweet. it felt perfect. but its just so weird kuz hes like my best friend! and i dont know if i should tell him or not...i've never thought of him as a b/f...and now its just kinda weird that i sorta like him....

and finally...boys #4--i just kinda have a crush on him...he likes my best friend. but she doesnt like him back....i just wanna kno if i should get to know him better or just stay friends because of all these other stupid boys in my life!! haha

soooo i just wanna know which boy i should talk to more...or what i should talk to them about....or any advice you can give me

plz and thxx!!! (link)
wow im amazed you like 4 ppl and im gonna pretend i have no idea who is asking this question even tho i do know who is asking the question....now 4 my answer ummm i say u go w/boy 3


Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money? (link)
dont dump him listen he already has enough shit to deal with let alone losing the love of his life just stay with him you never know something good could happen he could get promoted or find a better job and make more money just stay with him and tuff it out


Okay.. guys can have orgasms right? I mean you dont hear if it often so I'm not sure how to go about pleasuring him. How can I get my boyfriend to have an orgasm? We're not ready for sex yet but .. are there any certain things I can do? Any tips would be really appreciated. (link)
the only time a guy orgasm is when he cums if u want him to orgasm then give him a hand job or give him a blow job


After about 10 minutes into a shower i'll start to get dizzy, my head will hurt, my vision fades, and i seriously feel like im gonna be sick. this has happened to me a few times in the past off and on but now its becoming ritual (and its only when i shower). its so bad that i'm not even able to finish showering. does anyone know what's going on and does this happen to anyone else? i've tryed opening windows and changing my products but nothing helps. i'm at the point where i'm seriously afraid to shower lol... i'll take any advice i can get, thanks

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well that happens to me when i take a shower and there is alot of steam but i know why it happens to me when there is steam just try to take a colder shower so the bathroom dosent steam as much or at all




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