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Question Posted Thursday August 11 2005, 2:47 pm

how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this

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swimndork answered Tuesday August 23 2005, 12:17 am:
the girls calling you a slut are probably really prude and so when they see that you kiss guys to them its a giagantic deal because they probably havent kissed anyone and so your just moving faster than them. They dont mean SLUT but they mean that you find guys easier than them. Trust me I know..not about calling people sluts but by moving slower than my friends they have given bjs and stuff and i havent even really had my 1st kiss...sadly :( good luck and dont pay any attention to those girls.

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CameronASTB answered Monday August 22 2005, 9:27 pm:
they are just joking around, my friend, she calls me a man-whore (ofcourse... there are other reasons why... but its just a joke) & if they are serious, then they are more then likely jellious

hope I helped


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laogurl2004 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 2:58 pm:
the reason they do that is because there eaither just jealous of you or they just wanna start nasty rumors..if you're not a slut dont even worry about it because u know its not true

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XxTxX answered Sunday August 14 2005, 10:49 am:
..They are just jealous of you because most people dont kiss at a young age so they are jealous of you because you are more advanced..N dont worry your not a slut..Hope i helped

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XStLpRide2005X answered Saturday August 13 2005, 7:17 pm:
well thats because they are jellus at you like the guy who you made out with allot of girls like him and then they dont like you soo they call you a slot DOnt worry it wont be that long they will stop

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Deanimal answered Saturday August 13 2005, 1:18 pm:
Ugh, hey, girls are dumb and catty, I agree. Once THE WIND blew up my knee length skirt and I was getting called a whore for almost a month.

All you can really do is brush it off and laugh at it. That's what I did, I ignored it, and they got bored trying to get a reaction that they weren't gonna get.

You do what you gotta do (kiss who you gotta kiss) and don't worry about the haters. They're jealous cause they never get any tounge action.


PS This is my 200th question answered. :)

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ilovehissmile answered Saturday August 13 2005, 1:13 pm:
People esp girls call each other slutts because its a powerful word and we dont think about the meaning before we say it about someone we just think that its something mean to say so we say it...because it has an impact i was called a slutt when i hadnt even had my first kiss! dont take it to that extent its like being called a bitch now.

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Dakmor answered Saturday August 13 2005, 11:03 am:
No, actually, I believe a slut is a girl who wears clothing to attract lots of guys so that she can just have a bunch of sex, and eventually, they usually turn into whores, who do it for cash. If you kiss a guy, that's OK. Those people who called you a slut are just morons. Just ignore them. Kiss whomever you like if you like them! Don't worry, you're not a slut. Hope I helped!

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gessyka answered Saturday August 13 2005, 7:55 am:
Just ignore it. You know who you are. Just remember that you're a virgin so that just prooves they're wrong.

I know.. it really isnt fair. Girls are terrible. I hate them (even though i am one) but yeah.. blah. Seriously.. you know who you are, and believe it or not most people wont look down on you for kissing guys. Those who do are really immature and probably never get guys themselves.

Good Luck.

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VainTaraLynn answered Saturday August 13 2005, 2:56 am:
I dont understand it either. Chances are their jealous that your kissing guys, and they wish that they were able to do that, so they have to lash out at you and call you a slut to make themselves feel better about themselves. Just try not to let it get to you, you know your not a slut, and they know it too, their just saying those things to upset you. Just put a smile on your face, and know that their wrong. =)

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squirrell answered Friday August 12 2005, 10:22 pm:
There are actually many meanings for this word the one thrown at you is just one of them. Also if you kissed him and arne't going out with him you are considered a slut because people would simply think you are so desprate you would take any guy to get what you wanted. I'm not one of thoes people btw. (by the way) I would love some feed back.

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tbone answered Thursday August 11 2005, 10:00 pm:
usually you would have to be going with the person you kissed.

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goodlttlgrl89 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 5:39 pm:
there is nothing wrong with kissing a guy. im not saying that you are but now a day ppl use the word slut innappropriately and use it if someone wears somethin skanky or if they hang all over guys its no longer just a term of having sex. and lots of times if someone doesnt kno you they might just get a wrong impression i kno ive done that tons of times

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blondiie2 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 5:19 pm:
they are probably jealous cause you kissed a guy and they didnt or they liked the guy you kissed.. just dont worry about it.. just be like hunny please you need to go take a look at yourself before you around calling me a slut..

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karenR answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:48 pm:
You aren't a slut. Kissing is not being sexually promiscuous, which is what slut means if you look it up in the dictionary.

I agree with the others that you are the victim of some jealous girl who wants to make you look bad. Try your best to ignore it. Your friends and people who know you realize you aren't one. :)

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ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:32 pm:
Well we all know girls love them some drama.. so they are probably most likely jealous of you about something.. or it could be a way you act.. just ignore it and do what you want.. &hearts; Dez

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BANGiiNGLAM0UR answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:20 pm:
there probably just jealous because they havent kissed a guy. dont worry about what perople say. just go about your business and let them talk. they obvisly have nothing better to do.

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:13 pm:
&hearts' Hm. thats weird. maybe they're just jelous of you because people do that. well mainly girls. Sometimes people call people sluts when they dress slutty or have a multiple number of boyfriends over a short period of time. personally I only think people are sluts when they have sex with a bnch of guys and they're not even serious. (like what you said) Dont worry about it! just ignore them! good luck babe! <333 Luhv Always, Lauren

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oPreppyo answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:05 pm:
Sometimes sluts can dress revealing and flirt a bunch, but I'm really not getting those vibes from you. Unless you've kissed about 1,000 guys, you're not a slut.

So there.

Hope I helped and good luck!

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xomegaroni answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:44 pm:
a slut is really a girl that has more than 1 guy at a time and has sex alot, so dont worry about what they say to you, because they're probably juss saying it to get you mad OR trying to get a reaction out of you.

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CheerChick69 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:27 pm:
I kiss, Im not a slut. Your not one you just have idiots in your school.

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modelkate11 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:23 pm:
you're not a slut people are just jerks


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Link answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:22 pm:
its b/c people are stupid and need to get lives becaust they obviously dont have lives if all they feel like doing is calling u a slut people are just idiots

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suppimvictoria answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:21 pm:
aww girl youre not a slut, i think maybe people are jealous that your getting to kiss these guys and there not. and they probably dont even know what slut means, haha buttheads.

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MummuM answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:18 pm:
Girls are weird when it comes to this. You aren't a slut at all, they just want to have someone to talk about and gossip about. I don't believe in people being called a "Slut" either. It shouldn't matter what you dress like, act like, or do. All that matters is that you're happy with yourself and you're happy with what you're doing. Don't listen to what other people have to say about you, they're just jealous of what you have. It's just a kiss and if kissings means you're a slut, I guess I'm a slut too. So now we're in the same boat! Ignore what all them people have to say about you. If your ignore them and they noticed that you really don't care about what they're saying about you, they'll stop. The only reason why they say these things is to see the look on your face when they say it. So don't worry about it, ignore them and be happy with who you are.
&hearts; Krissy

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jean_nicole answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:14 pm:
Its not that your a slut. Its just the people that are calling you a slut are jealous of you. For what reasons I do not know.

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WTF answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:08 pm:
it doesnt have to be sex, as long as youre active with a lot of guys.

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Mackenzie answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:05 pm:
Personally, I don't believe in people being "sluts". I just DON'T believe in the word whatsoever. I guess you're being called a "slut" just because you've been romantic with someone. That's really ridiculous. That word is thrown around like crazy. If kissing makes you a "slut" then almost the entire human race is guilty. Don't feel bad. It's no big deal. Be proud of yourself - who cares what other people think. As long as YOU'RE happie and healthy and pleased with who YOU are, that's ALLLLLLLLLLL that matters!! =]

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shutupnkissme98 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 3:00 pm:
ok kissing girls does not make yuo a slut!its just fun.(im not lez or bi)and i totally no what u mean about girls being mean because we ARE extremly mean!! i dunno y but we just dont take it personally girls are mean to everyone!if someone calls u a slut then just laugh it off.hope i helped XoXo

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DeeSireDiOr answered Thursday August 11 2005, 2:58 pm:

Don't worry about it sweetheart.
It's called jealousy. I get called a slut all the time and i'm a virgin! If you look up the word slut in a dictionary it will say :

Slut is a slang term used to indicate a person who has frequent sexual relationships with different people, especially short-term affairs.

And i'm sure that has nothing to do with you. Most girls say stuff like that to hurt you, which it shouldn't. When i get called a slut i take that as a good thing because i know they are jealous of me and care so much about me that they take the time to say something mean. So for everytime you get called a slut smile, laugh it off and think to yourself wow i'm pretty lucky to have fans. LOL Cuz once you have a fan club hating you, you know your a somebody!!

Keep you head up high ..

if you ever need anymore advice just comment my inbox

&hearts; maria &hearts;

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