ask swimndork



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators




Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
Member Since: August 22, 2005
Answers: 13
Last Update: November 12, 2005
Visitors: 917


well i started writing poems and songs about sucide and dieing and cutting and popping pills! im sucidal?? PLZ HELP!!
(( and plz dont tell me to go see a counslar or therpist because my family doesnt know and i dont want them to find out)) (link)
alright, well i know telling you to go see someone is the worse thing someone can say to you because it annoyed the shit out of me when i was like suicidal. i was and still am a bit depressed..but think about it...what about the people who LOVE you? your best friends and stuff..if you ever actually killed yourself..what would happen to the ones you loved? theyd be so sad..some of them would be so messed up. and remember suicide is a HUGE sin, if you commit suicide..supposedly you will end up in hell, which is even worse than this world. it will wear off, like one of the people said..once you hit rock bottom, you cant go anywhere but up. just dont talk to the people annoying you as much, and if people are talking about you...who the hell cares? its probably because they have no life. dont write poetry, dont write songs, just keep thinking about everything good in this world..and the bad stuff..will go away very soon.


how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this (link)
the girls calling you a slut are probably really prude and so when they see that you kiss guys to them its a giagantic deal because they probably havent kissed anyone and so your just moving faster than them. They dont mean SLUT but they mean that you find guys easier than them. Trust me I know..not about calling people sluts but by moving slower than my friends they have given bjs and stuff and i havent even really had my 1st kiss...sadly :( good luck and dont pay any attention to those girls.


I dont feel like my life is important to anyone and that I should die. I feel dead most of the time anyway. I feel ugly and am always depressed and stressed. I need help. I want help. What can I do to help me feel better? (link)
Okay hun, dont do anything stupid that you'll regret. Trust me..bad idea. I was almost suicidal at one point and now I am fine. I had no doctors involved and I was fine, I mean hey, I dont cut anymore. Okay so heres what you got to do. Find a friend you can trust with anything, and talk to them and make sure they can make you laugh. Thats what I did..sept my friend was my old teacher who is 23 years old and we still hang out and we dont even talk about me being depressed. So find someone older who will understand and will keep it a secret and will ALWAYS be there for you...and relize there are so many people who love you and so many things that are worth living. think about all the stuff going on and how many people need you here on earth.


ok i sound like a idiot when i write this but here i go.My mum met this boy a year older than me and she told me to email him to help me about unis and things! so yeh i felt like a idiot doing it but i did we ended up more talking about meeting up.My friend told me not to but i want to see what he is like? but will i look stupid please help shall i meet up with this stranger or not? THANK YOU (link)
Normally I am against meeting strangers but if your mom met him I am sure hes fine. Bring a girl friend and have her bring a boy so you wont be alone. And dont go to the movies or anything go somewhere theres lots of light and lots of people. Good Luck and have fun and be safe. And I am sure you wont look stupid.


Iam 13 and my Dad still doesnt know I know about sex. Im not even sure he knows Ive started my period.(I live with him but I go shopping for stuff like that when I go to my moms)How can I tell him. I already feel uncomfortable around him enough. And to know he knows all this stuff that ive known for so long and didnt tell him makes me feel weird. How do I brake the news??? (link)
Well when I got my period I kinda by accident left a pack of pads out on the counter and he found them so he asked and I was like yeah dad I started. and he was like okay and now I dont even talk to him about that stuff. Maybe you can leave like a pack of pads lying around and let him find them, and be like me and make it simple and say yeah I started. And then just act normal. Good Luck.


First of all I have a kodak digital camera ( Kodak EasyShare CX6330, 3.1 Mega Pixels )i have no problems taking pictures with it or getting them onto the computer. But sometimes when i take the pictures they wont delete. I figure the battery's just arent changed enough so I recharge them (rechargable batteries) and usually they will delete. I tried this the today and I have left the camera charging for 3 days on the charger and it says it's fully charged but they still won't delete. Any idea's on what to do or why it's doing this?? I rate high. Thank you!! (link)
Go to where you bought the camera and ask them to help you out. I'm sure that they will try and help or find out the problem. Good Luck.


Ok, so i was masturbating w/ a perfume bottle and the cap came off while it was " up there" i`ve tried to get it out but it wont work.& i can also feel it. Please dont freak out on me because i`m already scared enough. Please tell me things that will help me get it out. If nothing works , I`m going to tell my mom and get the doctor to take it out. I WILL RATE HIGH. thanks. (link)
Okay hun, dont freak out thats only going to make it worse. I know that this is probably going through mind and your thinking nothing can get worse. Dont think taht much into it. Do the kegel exercises and if that doesnt work try using your fingers. I actually dont agree with the tweezers thing cause its possible to push it in more. So if those 2 suggestions dont work well then tell your mom and ask her to go to the doctors. Dont be scared. Good Luck and dont do it again...


ok, im 13, and i don't no what to do, i want to start to wear makeup but i kind of don't, i mean if i do, how will i tell my mom ,and if i don't when do i start? (link)
Okay well if you really want to, wear something light, something that people can barely notice. and then if you dont well than wait until high school. Thats what I did. Yeah, I wore eyeliner but thats about it. And I'm sure your mom wont freak out. Just tell her that you think that your about ready to start wearing some make-up and tell her that your not going to wear A LOT.


what are some good exercises to fight off tummy fat? (link)
sit ups and crunch ups. running helps and swimming laps helps a lot too.


what do u do to get rid of hiccups?? (link)
millions of ways. one is to drink water with your head upside down[thats the only way I can get rid of them] two get someone to scare you and three breathe in deeply and hold your breath and swallow, and finally one of my favorites..when you have the hiccups...try to hiccup right on the spot. yeah those are the ones I have learned..try them if you need to.


help me plzz i cant stop crying. my face just keeps getting worst and worst. PImples are everywhere. i mean it! I try everything. i have very ovily skin. can someone please tell me what i need to do. dont tell me to buy something from clean and clear that shit doenst work. does ayone know any pills that help?? if so tell me what its called. please i cant even go outside
i hid all summer long becuase i feel so ugly!! (link)
I am sure your not ugly. But someone once told me that if you put minty toothpaste on your pimples they will go away. Hope this helps..


Ok WEll when ever im at my house and i do something god without being told my mom is always proud of me and if i ask her for something like a shirt of the internet she will say yes since ive done so much work well today i went online and found 2 things i really liked and i was going to do stuff like vacume and mow the lawn to get it but unfornalty my mom already hired someone to mow the lawn and she already cleaned the whole house. I know you guys dont know what my house looks like but do u think you could like give me some suggestions on somethings to clean up or somethings good that you know you can thnk of thx!ill rate on anyones good advice
Sarah (link)
Okay well my mom is really happy when I go and clean something she really doesnt like to do..and I know this is kinda icky but maybe clean the bathroom. I mean c'mon who likes cleaning that? No one. so clean it and she'll be happy. and then you could like maybe wash clothes and fold them or something.
good luck.


i really get along with my best friend, soo well that i love him as a best friend. but when i do something wrong he makes me tell him, and then when he does something wrong i have to beat it out of him and he stil is pissedin the end. i hate life rite now, why can;t it just go back to when it only hurt when u fell phsycially not , emotionaly too. tonite is hopeless...

~That Undescided GiRl ~
(link)
some advice. life cant go back to how it use to be. the older you get the worse its going to hurt when something bad happends. But some advice with your best friend. I was in that position, and well you cant really do anything about it. When he asks you tell him but dont bother trying to beat it out of him it could screw up your friendship. I'm sure if he wanted you to know, he would tell you. I hope this helped...good luck.




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker